5 minute video by Christina Hoff Sommers which nicely sums up my opinion of modern Feminism.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1oqyrflOQFcI think a fundamental problem with the narrative in this country is that we accept without question the claim that women are a victim class, which in my opinion is offensive to reason and to women themselves.Men die earlier and more often. (1) Men kill themselves more often. (2) Men die on the job WAY more often, even when accounting for hours worked. (3) Men are more likely to be the victim of violence. (4) Men are discriminated against by our justice system. (5 and much more) Fewer men are accepted to and graduate from college than women. (6)If any of the above stats were reversed we'd be having a nationwide crisis, billions of dollars would be spent and we'd be changing everything to correct the problem. I'm not saying women don't have problems specific to women (rabid fundamentalism encroaching on their bodily rights comes to mind) but the problems specific to men aren't even discussed.1:http://www.ssa.gov/OACT/STATS/table4c6.html2:http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/suicide/statistics/rates02.html3:http://www.bls.gov/iif/oshwc/cfoi/cfch0012.pdf4:http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/cv13.pdf5:http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/documents/femaledeathrow.pdf6:http://www.prb.org/Publications/Articles/2011/gender-gap-in-education.aspx
9/22/2014 11:40:32 PM
uh oh
9/23/2014 12:47:37 AM
The stuff you posted doesn't have anything to do with feminism (except maybe the education stats... if you at least acknowledge women tend to be more educated, but still are less likely to be promoted to upper level positions or to be paid as much, that's at least 1 thing you should believe women have a right to be upset about).
9/23/2014 1:43:08 AM
The stuff I posted is in regards to the narrative that Feminism proposes: that women are the oppressed class. It seems to me that men face a disparity of very serious problems that are completely sacrificed at the altar of the wage gap.
9/23/2014 2:20:10 AM
childless women, lol. You realize how cherry-picky that is...?What about women with children vs. men with children?Your basic argument seems to boil down to the belief that because men tend to coddle women, that women don't have a right to complain. But just because you treat someone well on your own terms doesn't mean they're not being oppressed. By your argument, you could ethically enslave a person as long as you provide for them. But fairness and freedom is allowing people to live on their own terms (within reason), and we live in a society where women can't really do this.It's not really "equality" if a woman has to act like a man to be successful.That's like saying gay marriage doesn't have to be legal, because a gay man can marry a woman if he wants.[Edited on September 23, 2014 at 2:50 AM. Reason : ]
9/23/2014 2:45:06 AM
While I agree that the narrative of "women as the victim class" does not have the same credibility that it used to, the stats you provided don't really do much to demonstrate that.We die on the job more often because more men are attracted to dangerous jobs (though whether it's because or in spite of the danger depends). This is the flip side of more women getting drawn to jobs that don't pay very much (nursing, teaching). Men are more likely to be the victims of violence because we are vastly, overwhelmingly more likely to be the perpetrators of violence. This isn't a class or even societal issue, this is biology. Our dying earlier is a function of the above. If you're the gender that thinks that lumberjacking and soldiering and street crime sound like a good call, you're the gender that's gonna die earlier. As for suicide, I seem to recall that women attempt it more often, and men accomplish it more often. So, see, we're better at some stuff. ---
9/23/2014 5:07:11 AM
9/23/2014 8:48:00 AM
Moron, it's not cherry-picking when it is demonstrative of the fact that the wage gap is manufactured largely because of the choices women make to have the flexibility to raise children. The women that don't do that somehow are doing as good or better than their comparable men.
9/23/2014 9:18:27 AM
I never said that men were attracted to danger as such. But look at the number of lumberjacks (and aspiring lumberjacks) who are men. Look at the number who are women. Obviously there is a wide gulf there. Generally speaking, jobs that tend to involve violence, long-distance travel, heavy equipment, the outdoors, and other risk factors are male-dominated. Since a lot of those jobs aren't particularly prestigious or well-paid, there must be some other draw to them, and clearly that draw has not impacted women as strongly as men.
9/23/2014 9:32:33 AM
9/23/2014 9:45:42 AM
^^Having children isn't a choice, it's a biological imperative.And there's still a gap even for women who don't have children.
9/23/2014 9:47:40 AM
9/23/2014 9:49:42 AM
... for the women that choose to have them.If you can't see the flaw of supporting a system where women who choose to have children should be punished for this, that's where you need to start to understand feminism.
9/23/2014 10:01:07 AM
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9/23/2014 1:19:14 PM
IBT BridgetSPK
9/23/2014 1:20:03 PM
9/23/2014 3:18:54 PM
children are optional last i checked
9/23/2014 4:10:00 PM
In the context of a feminism discussion, that's an insinuation that the solution to the gender gap is for women and families to stop having children.Does that not seem like a problematic perspective in the context of modern day American society?
9/23/2014 4:24:06 PM
No, the "solution" is to stop painting women who choose to have children instead of progressing a career as disadvantaged. We need to stop looking at the end result (the supposed gender gap) and thinking this is something that needs to be fixed.And we need to oppose Christian fundamentalist assholes at every turn to ensure that the choice remains available.[Edited on September 23, 2014 at 4:37 PM. Reason : .]
9/23/2014 4:33:52 PM
[Edited on September 23, 2014 at 4:35 PM. Reason : nvm]
9/23/2014 4:34:51 PM
^^ you're missing the point.This doesn't just affect women that have children, this affects all women, because of the perception that they might have children one day. A young woman who has no child, who hasn't even decided if she wants a child, would be discriminated against because an employer thinks (reasonably) she might one day have a child.
9/23/2014 5:33:03 PM
How do you know that's actually happening?
9/23/2014 5:45:29 PM
9/23/2014 5:57:02 PM
9/24/2014 11:01:37 AM
it happens
9/24/2014 11:07:57 AM
Well that settles it then.
9/24/2014 11:10:20 AM
9/24/2014 12:26:05 PM
There is a huge problem in tech and other fields where any dissent, like mentioning that men have more testosterone than women, will be met with accusations of sexism from Social Justice Warriors looking to make a name for themselves.They kind of drown out the legitimate problems women face.
9/24/2014 1:16:48 PM
^^Have you read Etaugh and Study, 1989?
9/24/2014 2:43:14 PM
i would also like to point out that the working population and culture of 1989 is much different than in 2014.
9/24/2014 9:54:35 PM
9/25/2014 12:59:58 AM
Instead of arguing whether or not children create a wage gap I will argue that they should create a wage gap. Having a kid automatically decreases productivity. You will miss more hours of work than you would if you didn't have a kid. One could even argue that women in general should experience a wage gap. I haven't read the thing myself, but I remember in one of the Freakonomics books they referenced a study that shows that work missed by women for menstruation-related problems accounts for a significant percentage of the difference in earnings. A lot of sick days, it appears, fall on a 28 day cycle. On behalf of the world's men, we're sorry, but we didn't invent the uterus. If we had, we would have made a lot of improvements -- scrap the whole bleeding thing, and put an on/off switch on the babymaking ability, stuff like that. But evolution hath decreed that you're going to get sick every month for most of your working life.
9/29/2014 5:25:23 AM
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9/30/2014 4:05:34 AM
but society has accepted that children are something we want to promote (as made evident by numerous other tax and social policies), so we should not penalize women because only their gender can produce themi propse a different way to stop this problem: have paid Maternity leave and encourage men to take time off too. if men took off time for new children, it would narrow this particular disparity.
9/30/2014 8:50:59 AM
9/30/2014 9:52:53 AM
no, not at all, it hasn't already happened, how are you so misinformed?the fact that it is unpaid is is certainly relevant, since being unpaid makes it impossible for most families to afford having both parents take off and makes it impossible for single parents to take off for more than what they absolutely have to. if it was paid leave, then taking maternity leave wouldn't contribute to the wage gap which would narrow that particular disparity. i'm having trouble understanding how to explain that better, i thought it was fairly clear
9/30/2014 10:02:53 AM
9/30/2014 10:21:39 AM
i said narrow, not solve, and said one particular disparity, not alland you are still missing that what parents currently do is unpaid, which discourages both parents (and disproportionately discourages men) from taking time off.if it was paid leave then both parents would take off more time and when both parents (men and women) are taking time off for maternity then it will become less of a negative for only women which means that they would be penalized less for itin my head this is pretty obvious, you may think it's "dumb" but at least 120 countries have paid maternity leave [Edited on September 30, 2014 at 10:30 AM. Reason : .]
9/30/2014 10:29:12 AM
The ability of men to take leave from their job does not come down strictly to laws anyways. I'm having a child soon, and my company does not offer paternity leave. Could I take 2 weeks vacation and then take unpaid leave for 3 months? SureCould the company express their disappointment in me, then give me a shitty bonus at the end of the year, or even fire me later for "performance issues"? The most likely would do the former, and possibly the latter, and there's nothing I could do about it
9/30/2014 12:38:10 PM
9/30/2014 12:55:41 PM
its so broken and complicated that over 120 countries have paid maternity/paternity leave as well as a few US statesfirst you make it paid, the social acceptance will follow[Edited on September 30, 2014 at 1:02 PM. Reason : look, paid leave is not a fringe issue, its one of the top issues regarding reproductive rights]
9/30/2014 12:59:07 PM
I'm still awfully curious how it's justifiable to compensate people for maternity leave based on their existing salary, since it's completely regressive. Why should we be implementing any regressive subsidy?To satisfy dtownral's argument, it gets even worse. In order for it to make sense, a male CEO would be entitled to the full duration of paternity leave at his salary, obscenely inflated as it is. I don't dispute this would level the playing field, but it's a bribe which comes at too high of a cost. Considering that this is wealth redistribution, there are much much better ways to redistribute that wealth. If you exclude these individuals, then you don't satisfy your gender equality goals.So it's either hugely complicated, or simply absurd. The fact that it's popular doesn't negate the blow-back from screwed up incentives. I can't even figure out how to make the incentives coherent in the first place. I'm still waiting someone to clear that up.
9/30/2014 1:49:59 PM
yeah, all of these things have been thought about before, that's why some systems involve both a minimum (that is sometimes even subsidized if you earn below a certain amount) and also a maximum benefit amount so that it's not too regressive. some systems even allow you to work partial hours.its really not so complicated that it can't be worked out[Edited on September 30, 2014 at 2:35 PM. Reason : you should do some reading]
9/30/2014 2:32:55 PM
http://www.thelocal.se/20121107/44276Sweden's gender wage gap persists: studyI'm not confident that paid leave for men and women has any impact on the "wage gap problem" illustrating the non-issue nature of the "problem" you're trying to solve. I believe most of the gap is caused not by the obvious lost time for raising newborns but in the career choices women generally make to afford flexibility throughout the lives of their children.The part I find completely ridiculous is that feminists think this is oppression. Maintaining a majority of the spending power, work less, be with your family more = oppression.
9/30/2014 2:41:15 PM
the career choices that women tend to make should be forced to pay more then
9/30/2014 2:42:46 PM
I'd respond if I didn't think you were trolling me. Crap I responded.[Edited on September 30, 2014 at 2:46 PM. Reason : .]
9/30/2014 2:45:58 PM