A friend is getting suckered into buying the starter kit. Tried to tell him that only 1% of salespeople turn a profit and something like 85% of all Amway purchases are made internally. Also explained how it is a pyramid scheme, which he denied (and subsequently tried to recruit me 5 minutes later). I'm sure he's already been told that friends will discourage him, he should be friends with "winners", etc etc. Not really sure what else to say. Reading up online, it's more of a cult than I previously thought.[Edited on February 22, 2012 at 8:19 AM. Reason : .]
2/22/2012 8:18:46 AM
show him this thread.
2/22/2012 8:26:05 AM
If this is a friend, then it says a lot about you.
2/22/2012 8:39:10 AM
^I've known this person since freshman year of college. Greed does strange things. Not sure why you felt the need to post that comment.Just wondering if anyone has experience with this. ]
2/22/2012 8:46:02 AM
So is this your friend?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t50249JJE5cSeriously though, if you've told him all that and he's still going ahead with it, just let him make his own mistake so he can learn from it.
2/22/2012 9:05:20 AM
It's so weird. He's got this delusion that he's smarter than everyone else that was at the introduction seminar and can actually make money.Hopefully he'll realize how stupid it all is before he commits to anything. I don't want to deal with my other friends being subjected to Amway sales bullshit.
2/22/2012 9:18:38 AM
2/22/2012 9:37:25 AM
Honestly, you aren't gonna be able to convince him if he is already there. It's annoying, but they all have to alienate their friends and family and not make any money for a while before they will see what's up. The crappiest part is that you won't be able to hold a conversation with the guy without him turning it into a sales pitch for their awful products. I went on a ski trip with a bunch of guys this weekend. I am riding the ski lift up the mountain with a guy I don't know well making small talk and he tries to be all sly and started talking to me about these great energy drinks and vitamins he is taking. I immediately told him I wasn't interested in whatever quixtar or amway bullshit he had. Was a quiet ride up the mountain.
2/22/2012 9:43:32 AM
Someone explain to me what is the difference between Amway/Quixtar and the people who sell Shak-lee. It's essentially the same thing correct?
2/22/2012 10:00:44 AM
^ Yep, same thing.
2/22/2012 10:07:08 AM
You don't. These suckers have to learn the hard way. My brother got sucked into the Quixtar shit briefly and nothing we told him could change his mind.
2/22/2012 10:13:24 AM
Tell your friend to go to Barnes and Noble to recruit people. Barnes and Noble is a breeding ground for Amway.
2/22/2012 10:27:01 AM
i remember drinking shaklee shakes back in the early 90's for breakfast... they weren't that bad from what i remember.
2/22/2012 10:27:17 AM
i think its more important at this point to let him know that you know that he's going to do it anyway, he's going to be embarrassed at some later point when things don't work out, but that you're still his friend no matter what and he doesn't have to say anything and you'll never throw it in his face
2/22/2012 10:30:00 AM
2/22/2012 10:34:21 AM
^^ Yeah, I like that approach ... its the "I told you so" before the expected "I told you so" would typically come, with a built in sense of acceptance for the mistake you already know he is about to make ... maybe it will open his mind up to the realities of the scam he is getting in to.If you want to do a pyramid scheme, then start your own, or be at the top of a new innovative one. Don't be a bottom dweller in one of these things.
2/22/2012 10:55:49 AM
I remember when Daddy started selling Amwayit was worth a lol; he got out before he got ruined but he does have a shit-ton of personal-care products stashed in his basement
2/22/2012 10:56:12 AM
Just tell him upfront that if he has to ask you to buy anything/join, he's already failed.Oh wait, I didn't read. He's already failed.[Edited on February 22, 2012 at 11:00 AM. Reason : asdfasdfasdf]
2/22/2012 10:57:59 AM
I've known one couple that was wildly successful from Amway. They were retired at 35, big house in Northern VA, 2 mercedes' in the garage. They were Indian, and mostly sold to their Indian friends and family who had just arrived in the States... So if you've got a reliable market that's relatively cornered like that, you can do well.Thats the exception to the rule though...everyone else I've known has not done anything except for alienate their friends and family, and annoy strangers in the streets.Also, fun epic fail story: about 10 years ago while I was working up in DC, there was this chick that would always stop by my desk and talk to me about how we needed to get together sometime. I thought she was seriously jonesin'... so I took my time, played it cool, and when finally the "get-together" occurred, it was so she could make a quixtar pitch. Boy, that sucked.
2/22/2012 11:07:21 AM
oh man that would have pissed me off.
2/22/2012 11:14:42 AM
2/22/2012 11:16:37 AM
There have to be at least a dozen sites that uncover Amway as a pyramid scheme. Send him an email with links to all of them.
2/22/2012 11:23:45 AM
Herbalife is the newset Amway/Quixtar that people are buying into.[Edited on February 22, 2012 at 11:27 AM. Reason : Or it is the product --- I dunno]
2/22/2012 11:27:01 AM
2/22/2012 11:28:01 AM
2/22/2012 11:29:00 AM
Facts are pointless. Most people just aren't rational. They believe what they want to believe and justifying that belief be damned.
2/22/2012 11:33:36 AM
I was shocked that this guy fell for it, because he's not a stupid person in general. Coupled with the fact that I was really god damn high when he told me, it made for a pretty surreal conversation. ]
2/22/2012 11:37:13 AM
2/22/2012 11:40:26 AM
While we're on this topic. I was looking for a job after I graduated and was desperate to get out of waiting tables. I had a CS degree dammit. One of my good friends who had a job in software knew a guy who was hiring so I called him and he wanted to meet me at Wendy's. That should have been a sign right there but like I said I was desperate. I proceded to meet this "unique" looking individual and his obvious child pornographer co-worker. I had never heard of Amyway or Quixtar. My parents raised a fool. I proceded to ask them what I would be programming. They told me that the programming is already finished and that I should just go to this seminar to find out what the job is about. They handed me some speaker's CD and drove off in their beat up 1986 Honda Civic after telling me I would probably own a yacht in 5 years. This should have been the second sign. I listened to the CD when I got home and finally starting making the connection. I started researching Quixtar, proceeded to crack the CD in half over my knee and sulk over my misfortune. The dude proceeded to call me every Sunday for 5 weeks to get his fucking CD back. What a bunch of clowns.
2/22/2012 11:57:30 AM
That CD probably cost him like $50. haha
2/22/2012 11:59:40 AM
2/22/2012 12:06:20 PM
I mean at that point I was probably willing to do something else outside of programming to get out of waiting tables but I had no idea who these guys were. It was probably the roughest 6 months of my life after I graduated. I found a lowly job in software after 6 months but it still took me 2 years to get a job that I deserved. Assholes preying on the weak like me.[Edited on February 22, 2012 at 12:15 PM. Reason : pray/prey derp]
2/22/2012 12:14:10 PM
Hmmm.. similar story here. I struggled to find programming internships while in school (it never happened), got into power for a while and hated it, and when I graduated I got stuck in testing for a year. Assholes is right.
2/22/2012 12:21:58 PM
College orientations that warn you of some of the potential hazards in college (drinking , compromising positions, etc) really should include warnings of these scamming companies. Hit companies like Quixtar, Amway, and Cutco / Vector where it hurts.Things to look out for: seminars, being vague about the opportunity, etcI fell for one of the seminars myself Freshman year. They told me it was an engineering / programming position and to come to their interview. Turned out to be a pitch for door-to-door selling books. Not the same a Quixtar and Amway, but they use the same tactics to pull people in.I kept telling myself that I would "fall" for a seminar again on purpose then jump up 5 minutes into their pitch and fuss them out for lying to me then leave. So many people just stick through them because they don't want to stand up alone. I figure that would trigger a mass exodus. Never got the chance though .
2/22/2012 12:28:08 PM
2/22/2012 12:35:08 PM
I went on a first face-to-face interview at MacGregor Draft House. That eventually landed me the job I have now. But Wendy's ... come on man.
2/22/2012 12:41:03 PM
watch the Penn & Teller: Bullshit episode about easy moneythis might work: http://www.vidxden.com/08789j9uk73f/bullshit_S08E05.avi.html
2/22/2012 12:46:12 PM
my roommate is somehow involved in this company (http://www.melaleuca.com/) but she's never even brought it up until one time I saw her taking vitamins out of a little packet at dinner and I asked what they were. I think she buys the required amount of shit every month (~$60) but I don't think she actively sells/recruits anyone.
2/22/2012 12:53:43 PM
My mom did that crap like waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay back in the early 90s. ^
2/22/2012 12:59:41 PM
^^^er... why not link to youtube? http://youtu.be/Y60XdZJG83U
2/22/2012 1:18:51 PM
^^^ that company is really old...i remember it back from the early 90's, toobut you should tell your buddy to get with the program...amway is old hatyou gotta sell DEM VISALUS SHAKES,SON!
2/22/2012 1:45:55 PM
I just remembered something! I had a classmate my senior year actually bring some Quixtar recruiting guy with him to a study session in the Progress Energy room in Broughton and try to give us a presentation or whatever while we were doing homework. That's how desperate they were. Dude was all like "Here's my business card, you are all invited to our seminar this weekend. Wear a suit and a tie."
2/22/2012 1:55:57 PM
2/22/2012 1:58:26 PM
what about QNet?http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Qnetalso the same shit, right? one of my HS classmates has gotten in to this in the past few years and is apparently making a load of money. they take advantage of people's lack of general science knowledge to sell them BS items that they say will miraculously improve their health and heal them. they use a lot of buzz words in their presentations to attract people and make people think that they (sellers) know what the hell they are talking about. words like "quantum energy", "nano-fusion technology", and the like.their highest selling product is the BioDisc. every time i read about it or if something reminds me of it, it really makes me very angry. the info provided about this item is ludicrously unbelievable. they sell them for like $200 a piece to lay people. basically, they are putting fire in their stomachs, as they are earning money by fooling people and lying to people.http://www.qnet.net/products/energy/amezcua/bio_disc2/en/
2/22/2012 2:57:12 PM
I wish I had thought of those magnetic balance wrist bands.
2/22/2012 3:09:18 PM
stupid is as stupid does
2/22/2012 3:10:52 PM
2/22/2012 3:12:04 PM
no, I asked about Shak-lee because growing up my aunt and uncle always were selling my parents vitamins from them. I didn't know enough to know that quixtar-like programs existed until high school when I connected the dots. Technically my parents were just buying the stuff, and they would be taking vitamins anyway, so no harm, but my aunt and uncle im incredibly suspicious of now.
2/22/2012 3:12:45 PM
I wonder if the Legacy Center is still around. They make Amway look like angels. Different business, but way worse for you.
2/22/2012 3:45:07 PM
damn - they still got this Quixtar mess going on. Dude hit me up back in 1999 or so at the gas station on Western Blvd. I actually went to the meeting like a dumb ass since I was young & had no clue about them. Crazy they still exist. A bunch of trolls. Raleigh is like a breeding ground for these people.[Edited on February 22, 2012 at 4:08 PM. Reason : r]
2/22/2012 4:08:08 PM