5/8/2009 3:11:32 PM
i posted this in another thread, but since you've got a dedicated DADT thread now:http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.com/the_daily_dish/2009/05/a-soldier-fights-back.htmlSUMMARY (remembered off the top of my head from a few hours ago):it's a vid from the rachel maddow show where choi is interviewed. they also talk about a woman who recently came out and got discharged from the military. she sent obama a letter about the ordeal asking him to repeal dadt, he replied with a hand-written note saying that he was still in favor of repealing DADT, but that it might take a little bit of time because it has to go through the legislature.they then had a congressman on who is trying to spearhead this effort in the house and he is fairly optimistic about the prospects of DADT being repealed this year in the congress.
5/8/2009 3:34:43 PM
It kind of sucks that it is the policy, but it is indeed the policy and it would be wrong of the military not to enforce it. If you have policies and then overlook them when someone blatantly goes against them, what does that say about your organization and other policies it puts in place. Whether or not the policy needs to be changed is an obvious point of debate.I have been in the military for twelve years, in a job that is restricted solely for men. There have been a couple cases where two guys have gotten caught in compromising situations, and I can say that it was very distracting for the crew as a whole, so the policy is not totally without merit.
5/8/2009 3:41:39 PM
5/8/2009 3:43:48 PM
i won't argue that his commanders were doing exactly what they were supposed to do. but i think could turn your point around and say that if the congress cares so much about the security of their country, why grasp onto this antiquated notion of don't ask don't tell?turning away people who want to serve their country (and are qualified and ready to do so) is the ultimate stupidity in all of this.not to mention, this guy is making this point now specifically because it is important that he serve right now. i think he is trying to help move the process of repealing don't ask don't tell along.[Edited on May 8, 2009 at 3:56 PM. Reason : .]
5/8/2009 3:54:44 PM
^ I think you're right about him making a point. I know it's a TV show, but there was an episode of West Wing when the Chairman of the joint chiefs walked into a meeting about repealing this. The military guys that were there, and a few congressman said that they felt it would disrupt the unit. The chairman (who was black) responded along the lines of "they wouldn't let me in the military because they thought it would disrupt the unit"I just think it's a valid point is all.
5/8/2009 4:01:02 PM
But the fact remains it is the policy. The military has other avenues to go about things if you disagree with a policy/order, but I can assure you simply ignoring it and doing what you want is not one of those avenues.When you join the military you sign a contract. You give up a lot of your liberties and rights as an American. I can't tell you how many times I have heard, "We are here to protect democracy, not practice it," but it is the truth.And like I said before, the policy is not totally antiquated. I really don't know if I am for or against open homosexuality in the military, but it can without a doubt cause a disruptance.
5/8/2009 4:01:05 PM
5/8/2009 4:03:53 PM
(he went on the rachel maddow show and outed himself on national television)
5/8/2009 4:18:01 PM
5/8/2009 4:24:48 PM
He went on the show before he was discharged? That is quite douchebaggish.
5/8/2009 4:25:45 PM
he was in the national guard at the time, yes. and i don't call standing up for what you believe and being willing to take the consequences for your actions as being "douchebaggish".
5/8/2009 4:32:12 PM
THIS POLICY IS HATEFUL AND WRONG, BUT WE MUST ENFORCE IT!!
5/8/2009 4:45:15 PM
5/8/2009 6:09:11 PM
(that's exactly the clip that i linked to in the second post)
5/8/2009 6:19:28 PM
DADT is stupid. I may have said otherwise, years ago, on this site; if so, I apologize profoundly for having done so. It's time for the policy to end. The people in uniform can live with whatever initially uncomfortable changes come about, and the military as a whole needs every competent person it can get its hands on.If my (admittedly brief) career with ROTC on State's campus taught me anything, it was that most people don't give a shit. If you protect your buddy in combat, they don't care if you're queerer than a 13 dollar bill.[Edited on May 8, 2009 at 6:25 PM. Reason : f not n]
5/8/2009 6:23:54 PM
^^I've become too spoiled/lazy, I don't really click on links to videos on other sites any more. If I can't play it in tdub, I usually don't watch it
5/8/2009 6:30:59 PM
5/8/2009 7:52:34 PM
5/8/2009 8:20:32 PM
where do you bunk a gay male/female?
5/8/2009 8:58:38 PM
while it is a bit of a fucked up political move by a guy in uniform it is a policy position that needs to change RIGHT FUCKING NOWgovernment discrimination based on sexual preference is just wrongplain and simple
5/8/2009 9:53:10 PM
FeebleMindedThank you for your service.Had you been a southern white male in the navy 50 or 100 years ago, do you think you would have said the same sorts of things about black sailors serving alongside yourself? That is, actually serving, not just working in the mess hall to feed you crappy food. Because I think you probably would have said the same kind of things. I think that, had I been a navy man, I would have as well.Just like back then, if there were a change that involved putting something different and uncomfortable on your ship -- in this case, gays rather than blacks -- you would initially oppose it. For a while. Ultimately, one of two things would happen...Either you'd never be able to deal with it, and thus would not be able to function properly in the military, or...You'd get the fuck over it and continue serving your country.One of these makes you a good guy. The other makes you, frankly, kind of a dick. There's no level of experience necessary to know that much.---That said -- Maintaining an effectively asexual military environment is important. You don't want people in that situation developing special emotional attachments to one another that might affect their judgment. Ideally, at least, people in the Navy/Army/Air Force should not be doing one another for that reason. But to draw a specific line at homosexual relations is, ultimately, going to serve primarily to eliminate qualified personnel from their jobs.---Edit: I understand that the military has an obligation to follow its orders and policies, and so I don't blame them for following DADT. But the administration has an opportunity to let competent people back into the military by overturning it.[Edited on May 8, 2009 at 10:10 PM. Reason : ]
5/8/2009 9:53:56 PM
Anyone interested in debating whether gays could serve openly in the military without disrupting the service should definitely read RAND's 1993 report on the subject, "Sexual Orientation and US Military Personnel Policy." It was commissioned by the Clinton administration, but the release of the report was somewhat mishandled politically, such that by the time it was finally released, Congress had already proposed the DADT policy as a compromise and it had already gained political traction.It's an extremely comprehensive study, however, that covers the topic of homosexuality in the military from nearly every angle conceivable. It goes far beyond any wealth of anecdotal evidence about how gays are handled in the military now or previously, and rigorously approaches the question of what service would be like under different policies. Their conclusion was simply that sexuality in any form should not be considered germane in determining eligibility for military service. They also drafted proposed standards of conduct under a policy that does not consider sexuality as part of military service, and an implementation plan for how best to make the transition.At the same time that RAND was working on it, a blue-ribbon panel of officers in the Army also conducted a similar study of their own on the topic. While it was significantly shorter (<100 pages compared to over 500), the Army itself generally arrived at the same conclusions. DADT was adopted because it was more politically popular than making a clean break from the ban on gays at the time, but both organizations agreed that making sexuality not germane to military service was the appropriate policy decision.Full disclosure--I'm biased since I work at RAND, but the report is a highly exemplary piece of policy research. All but one appendix from the report is available at the link below for anyone interested in reading it.http://www.rand.org/pubs/monograph_reports/MR323/
5/8/2009 11:36:39 PM
We had a kid here (Korea) straight out of basic pretty much, decide he didn't like the military, goes up to the Chief and go "Sir, I'm gay"...was gone in 2 weeks. The only reason I see gays being allowed in the military is bad thing is god only knows the quality of the AFN commercials and all the SARC briefings we'd have to endure.
5/9/2009 12:02:32 AM
no one knows what that means
5/9/2009 1:15:44 AM
message_topic.aspx?topic=528301BTW, Obama doesn't support gay marriage, either. But I don't hear Perez Hilton, Sean Penn, and all the other far-left loons giving him shit about it.
5/9/2009 1:27:19 AM
who gives a fuck what sean penn and some blogger think or say[Edited on May 9, 2009 at 1:33 AM. Reason : .]
5/9/2009 1:32:49 AM
^^ It's not really relevant what you hear (or choose to hear).^ exactlyAFAIK, no one has cited either of those people in this thread.
5/9/2009 1:35:34 AM
^^ and ^ Nearly 37 million people in the United States and millions more around the world watched Sean Penn call Obama an "elegant man" and imply that Bush was inelegant, while completely ignoring Obama's lack of support--and that of his Democratic predecessors--for gay marriage. In addition, millions of people also watched the Miss USA pageant, read/watched the flamboyant Perez Hilton's blog/vlog, and have watched the controversy surrounding Carrie Prejean's honest answer to an unfair question grow out of proportion--while Obama is held blameless for exactly the same position.If you don't think the controversy at issue and the remarks concerning gay marriage by the celebrities I mentioned matter, you simply haven't been paying attention. Or perhaps you simply don't want to deal with the facts. Whatever your reasoning, my reasoning is sound: Obama has punted on DADT and gay marriage, yet some still swoon over him. I would simply ask, why?[Edited on May 9, 2009 at 1:59 AM. Reason : .]
5/9/2009 1:57:12 AM
This is not a thread about gay marriage. It is a thread about the don't ask, don't tell policy.These are different things.This thread does not and should not give a twopenny damn about marriage issues.[Edited on May 9, 2009 at 2:24 AM. Reason : d not t]
5/9/2009 2:03:47 AM
5/9/2009 2:08:25 AM
Not even remotely.
5/9/2009 2:13:30 AM
^ I was simply looking at the larger picture concerning gay-related issues, and Obama continually being held blameless as it relates to these issues. In any event, you're not likely to be made "remotely" happy or otherwise happy by me under any circumstances, are you, DrunkyGOP?
5/9/2009 2:24:08 AM
We have agreed in the past. I seem to recall as much from a PM from yourself. And I much prefer DrunkyGOP to FrumpyGOP. No matter how frumpy I may be, I am far more drunk.But in this case, you seem to have attempted to derail a thread which was already expressly about Obama not doing things he said he would do with regards to gay rights. But, instead of sticking with what the thread was about -- that is, the DADT policy -- you have consistently tried to drive it into the territory of gay marriage, which I assume you think is more politically profitable. At least, I hope that's the case, because otherwise you're just fucking stupid.
5/9/2009 2:30:10 AM
5/9/2009 2:30:11 AM
^^
5/9/2009 2:39:08 AM
also
5/9/2009 2:39:18 AM
^ A bit of a contradiction in terms, yes? I actually understand Obama putting off dealing with DADT--he simply doesn't want to get the Bill Clinton treatment, which I remember well. It bogged down his presidency early on and caused a lot of hard feelings.Believe it or not, I think Obama is smart to delay reforming or removing DADT--and I happen to think that it's time that gays could and probably should serve openly in the military. My main point is that I think large parts of Obama's constituency expected more movement on DADT (and other gay-related issues) and they simply haven't gotten what they want--and what they were probably promised.
5/9/2009 2:46:50 AM
hooksawThe problem with bringing gay marriage, even in the context of showing Obama's hypocrisy, is that ita) Serves to belabor the pointb) Refers to an issue which is fundamentally different from the one at handc) Diverts the topic into another which is far more contentious, given that "gays in the military" has received far less coverage from either side than "gay marriage" in the recent pastd) Diverts the topic of a federal issue into a subject that many, many people think should be a state decisionAs for me lightening up -- I'm not taking this thread terribly seriously. Sometimes it's harder (for me) than others to get that point across. But generally, there are very, very few things on the wolfweb that I actually worry myself over.And nobody needs a PM to realize that I'm drunk -- that's consistently been the case since early 2005, when I went from being a teetotaler to being intoxicated all the time.You do seem to have been better about not attacking posters personally, and it shows.[Edited on May 9, 2009 at 2:54 AM. Reason : sleepy time now, response tomorrow]
5/9/2009 2:51:57 AM
5/9/2009 2:59:18 AM
^^ Oh, Drunky. You're so dreamy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aiGPQVUJqq0 ^ You, too, marko. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZs61VCJvTgTUGJOBS ALL AROUND! [Edited on May 9, 2009 at 3:11 AM. Reason : PS: "[B]ut i agree with you, prof. dalton"--not yet, not yet! ]
5/9/2009 3:04:36 AM
Obama has been called out for going slow on DADT & other issues by gay community. HRC, PFLAG, & other groups have sent letters & done petitions & e-mail campaigns. Bloggers complain about it all the time. I've seen complaints on Dailykos, on pamshouseblend.com (a nationally followed lgbt blog run out of Durham), on BlueNC.com & elsewhere. I guess it depends on what blogs you follow & listserves you're on, but Obama is not being given a free ride by any means. That said at least repealing DADT is on his to do list, I don't think we would have had the same luck with McCain. Sure a Kucinich or a Gravel might have had a more immediate desire to repeal it, but I think they would have had significantly less political capital to do so, not to mention they weren't particularly electable in the first place.While a lot of people aren't cool with Obama going slow on repealing DADT, I think everyone understands the situation could be a lot worse.Just saw this as I was looking at CNN's website, I haven't actually watched the video yet b/c I'm at work & don't have speakers on these computers, but it might be relevant. At the very least posting it here will remind me to watch it later:http://www.cnn.com/video/#/video/politics/2009/05/08/tsr.crowley.obama.gay.rights.cnn[Edited on May 9, 2009 at 9:25 AM. Reason : .]
5/9/2009 9:09:04 AM
5/9/2009 10:24:47 AM
THEY'RE ALL GAY FOR HIM, THAT'S WHY
5/9/2009 10:26:39 AM
The military, like the general population, has its fair share of homophobes. For that reason, I can see why a DADT policy makes sense. I can easily think of situations where a person being openly gay may cause problems for that person, or the people serving alongside them. It doesn't make it right, but it is a reality.What actually needs to happen is a greater societal shift in opinion, where people come to the realization that gay people are just normal people. That's not something that will come about through policy changes. While I'd like to say that individuals should simply use good judgment in choosing when and where to discuss their sexuality, I know that it's a little more complicated than that.
5/9/2009 4:00:01 PM
The military, like the general population, has its fair share of racists. For that reason, I can see why a segregationist policy makes sense. I can easily think of situations where a person being black may cause problems for that person, or the people serving alongside them. It doesn't make it right, but it is a reality.
5/9/2009 4:08:34 PM
Question to our friends in the military in this thread:The media touches on stories of people breaking the "Don't Tell" rule often enough, but do you ever see or hear about enforcement for breaking the "Don't Ask" portion of the policy?If people are getting discharged for Telling, I'd hope that there at least are some sort of reprimands for Asking... certainly not to the degree of a discharge, since that would be totally impractical, but at least some form of reprisal would be welcome (for the sake of logical consistency if nothing else).
5/9/2009 4:13:57 PM
^^Yeah, it really is the same thing. My only point is that there's some function to the policy; it's there to prevent possible discrimination/conflict. I'd be fine with doing away with it entirely, and if sexuality comes up, it comes up. People will learn to deal with it eventually, military personnel included.
5/9/2009 4:19:17 PM
get rid of it. if there are pussies in the military who won't serve with gays, kick them out. they probably couldn't defend shit, anyway
5/10/2009 1:25:01 AM
5/10/2009 2:12:14 AM