http://www.city-journal.org/2008/18_1_campus_rape.html
10/29/2008 1:43:36 PM
to be fair, im sure plenty of women wouldn't call rape what could legally be defined as rape. so attempted rate near 20% doesn't seem that unlikely when you factor in alcohol.that said, my other answer was a toss up between "well yeah, girls are whores" and "uh, of course she wanted it."
10/29/2008 1:59:40 PM
i can definitely believe that article. mostly for two reasons.1. there was a girl my freshman year that hung out with some of my friends and i who said that she honestly felt that a girl could decide something was rape after the fact, because there are situations where a guy should know if having sex with the girl was the right thing to do. the example that she classified as rape were if both parties were drunk and had sex and then the next day the woman decided she was unhappy with her decision then it should be able to be classified as rape. 2. i had a roommate who slept with this one chic who- unbeknown to him- had a boyfriend at the time. the boyfriend found out and she then painted the picture as him forcing her to do something she didn't want to do and basically made it seem like rape, despite the fact that we saw her return from the bar with him and then pull him to his bed room while he could barely stand.based on these two events i can believe that some situations of rape are in fact not rape at all and the overall statistics are blown completely out of proportion.
10/29/2008 2:11:43 PM
10/29/2008 3:03:17 PM
No, only a woman can be raped according to the law. A man is only sexually assaulted.
10/29/2008 3:06:38 PM
That is an utterly retarded double-standard when it comes to "rapes" based upon intoxication or emotional manipulation.
10/29/2008 3:20:00 PM
pretty much.so if we're both drunk and have sex, and you realize it was a bad idea, I raped you. If I realized it was a bad idea, I had beer goggles.ok.....
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10/29/2008 5:17:56 PM
i have always held that same theory
10/29/2008 5:23:02 PM
10/29/2008 6:16:02 PM
Is it rape if i was highly intoxicated and some fat girl took advantage of me
10/29/2008 8:10:02 PM
i think this quote needs to be posted:
10/29/2008 11:34:37 PM
When I joined TKE a lot of the girls I knew said they heard we had a bad rep b/c some guy ruffied a girl at a party and rapped her. As far as I know it never happened, at least not within 10 yrs of me joining. I met some random girl at the fair last week who looked to be at least 5 yrs younger than me and she was like yeah i didn't hang out with the TKEs they had a bad rep (and she said the same thing about the ruffy). Man who the fuck is spreading this bullshit and baseless rumor???
10/29/2008 11:44:37 PM
Seems like victim blaming to me.
10/30/2008 1:53:30 AM
^ So according to radical feminists, women are mentally inferior? Because if they can be conditioned (PROGRAMMED) by men into being mistreated, they are obviously not the equal of men cerebrally speaking, right? But isn't one of their fundamental tenets that women are equal to men when it comes to brain power?
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10/30/2008 9:25:59 AM
but the good news is he was hot as f...
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10/30/2008 1:35:39 PM
^ Thousands of years of oppression can do that to people.
10/30/2008 1:43:13 PM
listen man coming from my ethnic background i could also make the argument about me being the product of a thousand years of oppression and write tireless essays about how this social stratification has led me to be inferior in x way and prevented me from achieving y, or, alternatively, i could do what i did and get over it and realize that i am actually capable. If i did anything other than that I would have earned my "social inferiority", and that is something that can affect groups but is assigned on an individual basis. to tell women repeatedly that they are not capable of deciding for themselves what is right and what is wrong and that someone has to do it for them only further subjects them to this inferiority complex. they should be expected to be just as responsible for decisions made as men are. if they decide to get drunk and while drunk they decide to willingly engage in sex, then, regardless of the "buyers remorse" the exhibit after the fact they are still responsible. to suggest otherwise is disgusting and is an act that is truly degrading to women.
10/30/2008 1:53:12 PM
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10/30/2008 2:17:58 PM
I am open to the articles arguments, espicially the desire for true empiricism on the matter but it was hard for me to keep reading after this
10/30/2008 2:23:37 PM
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10/30/2008 3:41:20 PM
You're implying all but a select few women cannot escape the patriarchy. That is a pretty dim view of women. Very Jehovah Witnesses-esque.
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10/30/2008 4:21:47 PM
Those bitches wanted to be fucked!
10/30/2008 7:25:44 PM
^^ I'm not a huge fan of choice and responsibility. The popular notion of free will seems downright magical to me. We're the product of our DNA and environment. That's where our decisions come from. The doctrine of personal responsibility can be useful, but it's too often merely another way of justifying the status quo.
10/31/2008 12:33:00 AM
^ I really hope you are being sarcastic
10/31/2008 1:02:14 AM
^ You and everybody else. No, I'm serious. When stressing personal responsibility produces results without causing significant harm, fine. Far as I'm concerned, it's just a tool. A way to influence human behavior. Some of y'all seem to regard it as a fundamental truth or moral doctrine.
10/31/2008 1:11:33 AM
Because it's simply an act of sophistry to argue against free will. Something that keeps philosophers and scores of crackpots employed, but in the end, is something we dispense with at the end of the day.Everything we do in life comes down to an act of free choice. Even the mundane things, like what to eat for breakfast or whether or not to go to work. Genes don't tell us what we're having for breakfast. They don't tell us what color shirt to wear. In short, they're not deterministic when it comes down to behavior.
10/31/2008 1:29:02 AM
whatever you want to think about it is fine, but more and more evidence is lining up against free will.still, im glad to hear you've proven the unprovablei'm really looking forward to your next trick where you'll prove the existence of god for us.
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10/31/2008 1:21:20 PM
^^ Your post strikes me as neither here nor there. I'm familiar with emergence and so on. I know our understanding of the human brain isn't complete. As I said, it's an extremely complex process. How does any of this lead to free will?
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