...not want to make out on the first date if he's attracted to the girl?

Realistically?

1/8/2008 10:58:54 PM

yes

1/8/2008 10:59:26 PM

oh damn i feel bad now

1/8/2008 11:00:04 PM

yes

but i'll stand in for him if you need to get a quick fix

1/8/2008 11:00:21 PM

that, or just kinda shy/nervous.

1/8/2008 11:01:04 PM

not only do i fuck on the first date, i would do it in the first 10 minutes.

1/8/2008 11:01:34 PM

I know of some people who insist on not even kissing before they get married.

Of course, not wanting to and telling yourself you'd better not want to because you'll go to hell is a bit different, but it's a blurry line for some.

1/8/2008 11:01:59 PM

^really?

1/8/2008 11:02:24 PM

I've never really met one

1/8/2008 11:02:41 PM

that's the gayest shit i've ever heard

unless you grew up in an amish community or something

1/8/2008 11:03:07 PM

i'm pretty sure this is me

1/8/2008 11:03:38 PM

depends, if i know the chick is conservative, then i may act more conservative & pull a move like that, so as to get more pts in hopes of sneaking into the pants sooner


and yes i know i should try to re-word "sneaking into the pants" but im not going to

1/8/2008 11:04:20 PM

sure

some guys just like to move slowly

1/8/2008 11:05:08 PM

^^ That's what I always figure their motive is. But if the girl makes the first move and she's attractive, all bets are off.

[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:06 PM. Reason : ^]

1/8/2008 11:05:10 PM

^^^You're a douche.

[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:05 PM. Reason : .]

1/8/2008 11:05:33 PM

^^
Yeah, if the girl makes the move and the guy doesn't reciprocate, then either
A. He's not interested
or
B. He's a coward

1/8/2008 11:06:42 PM

^^^

who did you force yourself onto now?



[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:07 PM. Reason : or C gay]

1/8/2008 11:06:43 PM

all you gotta do is axe

1/8/2008 11:06:54 PM

Quote :

"Yeah, if the girl makes the move and the guy doesn't reciprocate, then either A. He's not interested or B. He's a coward"

You just summed it all up.


/Thread

1/8/2008 11:08:20 PM

I don't even really like kissing...all slimey and sloppy

I usually try to parlay it into a tugjob

1/8/2008 11:08:54 PM

dude making out with a girl you really like is awesome



handjobs however, are not very interesting at all, for me at least.

[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:12 PM. Reason : fdg]

1/8/2008 11:10:51 PM

Quote :

"I usually try to parlay it into a tugjob"

1/8/2008 11:11:15 PM

fucking a girl you really like is awesome

making out with her is just an obstacle IMO

1/8/2008 11:11:46 PM

Quote :

"I don't even really like kissing...all slimey and sloppy"

Being a meatbag sucks, doesn't it?

1/8/2008 11:12:39 PM

whats a meatbag lol

1/8/2008 11:13:08 PM

Quote :

"handjobs however, are not very interesting at all, for me at least. "

You just gotta find someone who can do it right

1/8/2008 11:14:07 PM

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=meatbag

Humans are disgusting.

1/8/2008 11:14:17 PM

i'm the youngest 23 year old ever

1/8/2008 11:14:24 PM

how 'bout some guys actually are trying to respect their date. I mean I am like that and it's definitely not because I don't want to kiss her

1/8/2008 11:14:30 PM

People like this exist?

I mean, i understand not fucking on the first date.

not making out? fuck that noise

1/8/2008 11:15:00 PM

this thread makes me want to go out on a date

1/8/2008 11:15:27 PM

I strongly support anyone who rejects conventions.

Perhaps the person simply doesn't feel like making out that day/hour/moment.

What's the big deal?

Is making out required?

1/8/2008 11:16:59 PM

I think not making out on the first date is fine, but i mean if i'm into the girl, and the girl obviously wants it, she's probably gonna get it.

1/8/2008 11:17:18 PM

I reject conventions.

I find them boring.

1/8/2008 11:17:34 PM

Lets lick each others tounges and ignore each others genitals altogether!

1/8/2008 11:18:05 PM

^^^^I'll take you out. I just established I do not kiss on the first date (well not usually)

1/8/2008 11:19:32 PM

if I want to make out with someone, I'm going to do it - first date or one hundredth. if that attraction is there, then go for it (as long as it's consensual haha). I hope the guy feels the same.

1/8/2008 11:21:35 PM

so if a dude and a chick go on a date and have a good time they are automatically supposed to kiss on that date? like thats the rule?

1/8/2008 11:21:40 PM

might wanna re-count them carets chief

1/8/2008 11:22:08 PM

^^ Probably. Such rules should be ignored as desired.

1/8/2008 11:23:34 PM

^^haha, nah i think he got it right.

1/8/2008 11:24:50 PM

^^^^if they both want to kiss, I don't see a problem with it. I mean... whatever you feel comfortable doing, as long as you both agree, DOOOOO ITTTTTTT

but you don't have to kiss. you don't even have to hug. hell, I've gone on a date where I didn't even say bye (long story). on the opposite spectrum, I dated one guy and we didn't even kiss until 3 months in.

[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:25 PM. Reason : .]

1/8/2008 11:24:51 PM

^i thought chicks always said dont ask me to kiss me

1/8/2008 11:25:36 PM

I'm pretty conservative. I wouldn't try to make out with a chick I was interested in on the first date. And if she started trying to make out with me I would be worried that she was wayyyy too easy and probably wouldn't be interested anymore. Sucks, but its true of a lot of conservative guys.

1/8/2008 11:25:49 PM

it's not about asking. sometimes asking can be sweet, sometimes it can be doofy.

1967caddyman - I'll take you up on that.

[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:27 PM. Reason : but only if you're hot ]

1/8/2008 11:27:10 PM

^^see i agree with that to some extent. i mean i think it all depends on the vibe. no hard fast rule.

^i agree with that too.

[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:28 PM. Reason : d]

1/8/2008 11:27:38 PM

What if he didn't think it was really a date?

1/8/2008 11:28:00 PM

yeah he's either trying to read your signals but if you went in and he didn't then head for the hills

1/8/2008 11:28:23 PM

If I don't kiss a guy on a first date, I'm probably not interested. And I have no problems setting the pace.

Don't see it happening again in my future though, I'm happy with what I've got.

1/8/2008 11:29:46 PM

^^^^^srsly? i'll be up in raleigh this weekend helping my sister move

[Edited on January 8, 2008 at 11:30 PM. Reason : ^]

1/8/2008 11:30:18 PM