Do you feel it motherfucker?

Just curious as to how many dubbers are going to be together forever, aha

11/8/2007 11:49:48 AM

i thought my ex was

11/8/2007 11:50:17 AM

11/8/2007 11:50:30 AM

paging qntmfred

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 11:51 AM. Reason : that's one hell of a username to recall from memory]

11/8/2007 11:50:57 AM

^^I know your answer already.

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 11:51 AM. Reason : sry to hear that bobers]

11/8/2007 11:51:14 AM

I'll never even consider it till I'm 30.

11/8/2007 11:51:31 AM

he better be or I'm moving out

11/8/2007 11:51:34 AM

I actually got the thread idea from you elkaybie, where jlanca says he coulda phrased that question better, I just assumed he asked you to marry him but you were sleepy so you grunted.

So that's good news.

11/8/2007 11:53:15 AM

haha, "will you marry me?"
"*grumble* go away i'm sleepy"

but for real, he was talking about work...I was turning it into something that happened last night

11/8/2007 11:57:29 AM

Trinity's was.

11/8/2007 11:58:18 AM

The closest answer I've gotten from my man is "Not in my mid-20's!"

11/8/2007 11:59:41 AM

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"i thought my ex was "

man up, man, man the fuck up

11/8/2007 12:04:59 PM

stfu man. yea, it still bums me out a bit thinking about it. yea, i really thought she was.

11/8/2007 12:06:26 PM

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"paging qntmfred "

yeah i wifed her

11/8/2007 12:06:29 PM

lol "wifed" her

11/8/2007 12:44:08 PM

Nope.

11/8/2007 12:45:18 PM

Yep, 3 weeks til I wife her.

11/8/2007 12:46:52 PM

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"The closest answer I've gotten from my man is "Not in my mid-20's!""

Dude

Matt keeps saying things like
"Hurry up and graduate so we can get married" (this sentiment is starting to get old)
"Marriage is just a formality at this point"
"Hurry up and graduate so we can get married. I want to have kids"

11/8/2007 12:48:26 PM

i don't see why you need to graduate to get married, but that's just me

11/8/2007 12:49:24 PM

not engaged, but i could totally see it in the future

11/8/2007 12:49:59 PM

I don't need to

I don't really care either way, so his preference wins.

11/8/2007 12:50:23 PM

You know, I tried real hard for that whole "the one" thing, thinking that was the right way to go about it. It was not.

Now I'm pretty sure I just need to fuck things. Well, female-people-things. And as far as the religion aspect, I'll just do like whichever Saint that was who said, "Yo Jesus, make me a good guy and shit...but do it in like ten years. kthx."



[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 12:53 PM. Reason : at least during my early to mid 20s]

11/8/2007 12:53:11 PM

In retrospect, I think I had a shadow of doubt about my wife being "the one" before we got married. In fact, I personally believe that each of us can fall in love with not just "the one" but a choice from a somewhat broader spectrum...and it's not written in stone. A good relationship takes time and peace of mind to grow.

All that said, there was pretty damn good evidence to suggest that I should have bailed out of that one before we said "I do." But I pretty much ignored it, only to have to come to terms with it later.

Moral of the story: TAKE A GOOD HARD OBJECTIVE LOOK AT WHO YOU'RE WITH BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO MAKE IT PERMANENT.

11/8/2007 1:09:35 PM

I thought he was until he started saying stuff like "I dont want a serious relationship" and "I like you but I don't love you" ... after we'd been together a year.

:cry:

I'm still with him tho, since it takes years for him to "let someone in".... and he helps pay my mortgage and cleans and I get sex and he cooks once in a while...

11/8/2007 1:21:18 PM

i thought so


until i realized after 4 years that i didn't think so

11/8/2007 1:22:38 PM

yep. getting married next year

11/8/2007 1:33:15 PM

DIVORCES ARE EXPENSIVE GUYS

11/8/2007 1:34:06 PM

Marriages are expensive guys

11/8/2007 1:38:32 PM

lol zxappeal what big red sirens did you have?

Our relationship isn't perfect but we damn well love eachother and put the effort in to make eachother happy.

I don't want to get married anytime soon, I just want to know you're at least somewhat committed to me long term.

11/8/2007 1:39:30 PM

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"Marriages are expensive guys"

No, they aren't.

It's the wedding ceremony and reception that is.

And kids.

11/8/2007 1:40:10 PM

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"i don't see why you need to graduate to get married, but that's just me"

I don't want to get married until I have a degree because I want to be able to support myself. I mean it's no fun being married and still having mom and dad paying for things. Therefore when I get married I want to be in my career and have the moola.

11/8/2007 1:40:45 PM

I think that I would live unhappily for the rest of my life before I got divorced.

I'm only getting married once

11/8/2007 1:41:38 PM

I was fortunate. We didn't really have any mutual assets, and thank god we didn't buy a house (I'd been wanting to).

Bottom line...though I paid her post-separation support for a year, I had plenty of documented evidence that would have absolved me of most, if not all, financial liability. It took a while to come to terms with the fact that, although she couldn't take care of herself worth a damn, those were her decisions and she brought it on herself. I suppose deep down I was just waiting for the axe to fall. And it did.

I'll say it again...feelings will fuck you if you let 'em. Choose carefully and wisely.

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 1:44 PM. Reason : shit.]

11/8/2007 1:43:35 PM

I can see myself with puppy forever.

11/8/2007 1:44:20 PM

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"i thought my ex was "

11/8/2007 1:45:20 PM

I want to grow old with my man, I think we'd have a blast!

11/8/2007 1:46:20 PM

I've thought so for a long time now.

11/8/2007 1:46:59 PM

yeah i wifed her

11/8/2007 1:47:44 PM

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"lol zxappeal what big red sirens did you have?"

She was way too much the rock-n-roller...and even though she had a child, she still wanted to live the party life that she always had...which included getting stoned frequently with her best friend (a very obese, creepy guy 15 years older than her)...a move that almost got her raped. She came from a broken family, and has a mother and a half sister with well-documented mental issues. I thought she was the sanest one of the bunch (her father is a great guy, intelligent and well-rounded; he joked with me about the first marriage being for practice), but she was just the best at hiding it.

My mom told me once (and it shocked the hell outta me; meet my moms and you'll understand)..."Dan...you're thinking with the wrong head." She had a point. Great sex does not a relationship make.

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 1:52 PM. Reason : more...]

11/8/2007 1:51:06 PM

hoping to wife her soon, but its probably gonna be a while. She wants to finish graduate school and be in the working world for a while before doing the deed.

I think its more expensive not being married. Mostly because we aren't living together.

11/8/2007 1:51:12 PM

skankinande, did you get back with the crazy mormon chick?

11/8/2007 1:53:29 PM

haha this thread is hilarious if you read it

11/8/2007 1:54:23 PM

no no no, DNL, this thread is hilarious if you hear it

11/8/2007 1:56:29 PM

Sorry to hear that danny boy. Hopefully you find a good one!

11/8/2007 1:57:29 PM

she lay with another man zx?

11/8/2007 1:57:43 PM

o danny boy the pipes, the pipes are calling...

11/8/2007 1:59:41 PM

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"skankinande, did you get back with the crazy mormon chick?"

Hell no.

11/8/2007 2:00:54 PM

Technically not until we separated, or so she says. But she left me for this other dude, who turned out to be a total dud. The grass was greener, but all it was was some cheap-ass spray paint. True color was shit-brown.

BTW, I trust her about as far as I could throw her with two car batteries tied to each leg.

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 2:01 PM. Reason : BTW.]

11/8/2007 2:01:08 PM

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"i thought my ex was "

this is exactly why she left you. Jesus christ man. Havent we had this discussion before.


You're either psycho or really really secluded

11/8/2007 2:01:18 PM

^um, no, but nice try.

she thought i was the one too.

11/8/2007 2:03:59 PM