Are you aware that every post-pubescent heterosexual male on the planet checks out pretty much every attractive woman that he sees?

Maybe we stop when we get old...I don't know. I'm talking about the rest of us below the age of at least 60.

10/28/2007 11:24:17 PM

yeah i dont think women realize the extent of these things...

10/28/2007 11:25:07 PM

I'm not a dame, but I generally get called out 1 of every 2 outings with the gf.

[Edited on October 28, 2007 at 11:25 PM. Reason : -]

10/28/2007 11:25:14 PM

and did y'all know that even though we may be like that

that if we have a gf.........doesn't mean we care more then just looking

its just the eyes are very strong

so stop bitching that we are checking out people or scoping girls out


but yea, we all do look..........cant ignore a nice piece of work

[Edited on October 28, 2007 at 11:26 PM. Reason : .]

10/28/2007 11:25:26 PM

Did some chick get mad at you for doing so?

My current guy is pretty slick about it, I haven't really caught him looking at other chicks, but I know he's not blind, just sneaky.

Who cares, it's just looking.

10/28/2007 11:26:52 PM

To paraphrase a former coworker:

"I don't expect to test drive every car I look at"

10/28/2007 11:27:23 PM

haha, i just flat out told her

and it's like the entire order of her universe shifted

10/28/2007 11:27:50 PM

its immature if you get mad at a guy for just looking at a girl

10/28/2007 11:28:13 PM

I'm also the guiltier party here

^Immature? More like unreasonable

[Edited on October 28, 2007 at 11:28 PM. Reason : sometimes insecure]

10/28/2007 11:28:19 PM

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""I don't expect to test drive every car I look at""

10/28/2007 11:30:33 PM

Just don't be mad when guys are looking at your baby girl as a piece of meat one day. And don't forget about her getting her little heart broken by some guy who checks other girls out in front of her.

10/28/2007 11:30:47 PM

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"I know he's not blind, just sneaky"

They get sneakier as they age.

10/28/2007 11:33:16 PM

you women oughta be cool enough to not care to begin with

10/28/2007 11:33:59 PM

^ ftmfw

10/28/2007 11:34:44 PM

Yeah, it doesn't bother me. It's not like he's doing anything besides looking.

10/28/2007 11:35:30 PM

^ Doesn't bother me either, as long as I can look too

10/28/2007 11:37:29 PM

yep, go for it.

this girl is claiming that she flat out never looks at other dudes, because she simply has no interest in it.

also claiming that we could "fix" our behavior if we wanted to.

10/28/2007 11:39:02 PM

ill go with unreasonable

because yea, theres a point where its like........you can stop now


but really if im with my girl, im not checking out other girls........i may look at them but im not looking to check them out


girls just need to be able to say, hey, he just glanced or hey...he cant handle temptation.

or something

10/28/2007 11:43:20 PM

wtf....why WOULDNT a dude stare at nice tits, etc

10/28/2007 11:43:40 PM

aware of it, don't care.

10/28/2007 11:44:58 PM

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"girls just need to be able to say, hey, he just glanced or hey...he cant handle temptation."

That's a finer line than you'd think it was.

[Edited on October 28, 2007 at 11:46 PM. Reason : Generally speaking, I don't care.]

10/28/2007 11:45:17 PM

I don't usually look, probably cause I have an odd taste in guys and don't see a lot that appeal to me. Or I don't really pay attention.

But good lord, some girls are just too touchy about it. Like I said, it's just looking, I'm sure there enough better things for them to get their panties in a bunch about besides that. Sounds like a good one night stand right there.

10/28/2007 11:46:27 PM

me and my other half point out hot chicks to each other, its fun

10/28/2007 11:46:29 PM

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"because yea, theres a point where its like........you can stop now"

sure, but that's not what i'm talking about

although even that still isn't all that big of a deal

[Edited on October 28, 2007 at 11:51 PM. Reason : ^ yeah, see, that's completely normal as far as i'm concerned]

10/28/2007 11:49:42 PM

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"although even that still isn't all that big of a deal"

Sure it is. If a guy is constantly staring at other chicks instead of paying attention to his girlfriend (whom he's out with), it's a big deal.

Glances and quick peeks, whatever.

10/28/2007 11:56:35 PM

i never did that

looked at chicks while I'm with my significant other

in fact, i'm usually so detached that I really don't notice chicks

that doesn't mean that I don't like to get my stank on

it's just a bit vulgar for me

10/28/2007 11:58:10 PM

haha, i'm not talking about ignoring a girl you're out with because you're spending all of your time staring down every hot chick you see

i'm talking glances and noticing "wow, she's hot".


and sometimes a little more detailed look if you're out by yourself or with your guy friends

10/28/2007 11:59:10 PM

some women are so jealous and insecure





like the ones that get freaked out when the guy talks to ex gfs




they are exs for a reason sweeties, there's no way in hell one of them would ever get back with the other one

10/28/2007 11:59:18 PM

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"they are exs for a reason sweeties, there's no way in hell one of them would ever get back with the other one"

are you new?

10/29/2007 12:00:28 AM

yea, see......with the gf=not looking

you may see me glance for no reason

but yea........we all do it

and its straight redick if the girl cant handle me looking at another girl

especially because she should know im one of the most faithful guys ull meet

10/29/2007 12:01:55 AM

personally, I get jealous when my gf looks at other guys (on the rare occasions when she exists)

so I try not to look at other girls when with her, just to keep it fair

10/29/2007 12:05:56 AM

whatever, if you wanted to get back with your ex and they wanted to get back with you too i guess you would. but you probably wouldn't have broken up in the first place LOL

10/29/2007 12:07:47 AM

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"Sure it is. If a guy is constantly staring at other chicks instead of paying attention to his girlfriend (whom he's out with), it's a big deal."

I'll give you that staring at girls is bad, however, if I'm at the beach or someplace in public with her, I am always aware of my surroundings. I've been in a relationship for several years now and I know what she looks like but I don't know what other girls look like so I keep an eye out. We keep ourselves to looking at the menu, but we never order from it.

10/29/2007 12:17:25 AM

exactly jeff

if im with my girl im not gonna look around

and when i do have a gf, i may still look around but its just observational studies......not like i think much about it

10/29/2007 12:23:27 AM

the part that gets me is sex thought every 7 seconds


how the fuck does that work


every 7 seconds you see something that looks like boobies or what

10/29/2007 12:25:39 AM

that's on average

10/29/2007 12:26:18 AM

so freakin what. its average for a reason.

10/29/2007 12:28:35 AM

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"Just don't be mad when guys are looking at your baby girl as a piece of meat one day. And don't forget about her getting her little heart broken by some guy who checks other girls out in front of her."

I agree with bethaleigh

How scary is that

10/29/2007 12:29:31 AM

^ irrelevent.

it's not like i could change even if i wanted to. it's hardwired behavior.

10/29/2007 12:38:28 AM

Generally, I don't think logic works with parents, especially with dads and their daughters like that.

10/29/2007 12:39:50 AM

i'd just like to go on the record of saying milfs are awesome

10/29/2007 12:41:52 AM

noted.

10/29/2007 12:42:18 AM

As long as I'm not rude about it, my girl doesn't mind. I mean, most guys are going to look at a hot chick and she knows that--but I don't rubberneck it. I got a slap on the back of the head for that once--I deserved it.

10/29/2007 12:57:16 AM

i'm not talking about rubbernecking or ogling chicks when your girl is with you

i'm saying that EVERY ONE of us--at a bare minimum--look at every hot chick we see and think "sweet, hot chick."


FYI, this girl isn't even specifying "when she's around". She's completely crushed that I check out chicks at all.

[Edited on October 29, 2007 at 1:02 AM. Reason : afsd]

10/29/2007 1:01:37 AM

^ Well, yeah--I thought that was a given. Better to frame the question as what guy here does not do that?

EDIT: Well, this was your first mistake, son:

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"haha, i just flat out told her"

theDuke866

[Edited on October 29, 2007 at 1:05 AM. Reason : .]

10/29/2007 1:03:43 AM

I know dudes who check out every girl, not just attractive ones, to ascertain whether or not they would in fact hit that.

10/29/2007 1:22:59 AM

^ The type of scan you described is conducted on every female I see--an automatic minimum and maximum age restrictor is in place.

10/29/2007 1:34:42 AM

1 - if your guy ISN'T looking at a hot girl who walks by, you better be worried if hes in the closet

2 - ladies look just as much as men do, we are just more willing to admit it.

3 - the day we stop looking... is the day we die.

10/29/2007 1:43:39 AM

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"1 - if your guy ISN'T looking at a hot girl who walks by, you better be worried if hes in the closet"

that's what i said. only kind of dude who doesn't check out every hot chick in sight is a gay dude, and i bet some of them do, too.

10/29/2007 1:44:49 AM

If I'm with a girl she shouldn't give a shit about me checking other chicks out


she's the girl I'm gonna go home with

10/29/2007 1:50:47 AM