with someone you are interested in...

good or bad? would you be able to still look at them the same way or as a fuck buddy?

give me answers tww

10/3/2007 2:44:47 PM

it's fine.



unless you're some sort of self-conscious fag.

10/3/2007 2:45:29 PM

depends


probably not a good idea if you like them



then again, it doesn't matter too much... isn't the reason you're "dating" in the first place the fact that you find them attractive in some manner?



[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 2:51 PM. Reason : tmi lol]

10/3/2007 2:46:48 PM

just dont make the relationship about sex

make it a good relationship and it doesnt matter

10/3/2007 2:47:31 PM

You really think about shit like this? Are you a girl?

10/3/2007 2:47:41 PM

i dont want this girl thinkin im some sort of manwhore. i dont know how this shit works

10/3/2007 2:49:18 PM

haha whatever

most girls are dirtier than guys when it comes to that shit

10/3/2007 2:49:53 PM

look it wasnt 3 hours

and how can she think that about you, when she did it too.

50/50

10/3/2007 2:50:19 PM

You mean you don't want to walk around thinking she's a whore.




AMIRIGHT?

10/3/2007 2:50:27 PM

not a good idea if you like here. at the very minimum stick to the three date rule.

10/3/2007 3:01:24 PM

Any girl who makes a guy she likes wait more than one she doesn't is a whore. She has fucked a lot of guys. There are NO EXCEPTIONS to this.



[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:03 PM. Reason : EDIT: I just realized the original poster is a dude. I assumed it was a female based on the content]

10/3/2007 3:02:53 PM

^ what?

10/3/2007 3:03:47 PM

Quote :

"I just realized the original poster is a dude. I assumed it was a female based on the content"

Quote :

"You really think about shit like this? Are you a girl? "

Stop acting and thinking like a girl unless you're a homo, then it would be okay

10/3/2007 3:05:59 PM

please rephrase that first part bobbydigital

so basically im fucked by fuckin her

10/3/2007 3:06:16 PM

Quote :

"so basically im fucked by fuckin her"

STOP

YOU ARE A MALE

SEX WITH WOMEN IS A GOOD THING

10/3/2007 3:07:43 PM

dude, she fucked you after 3 days. She's a slut, get over it.


And give me her #.

10/3/2007 3:09:51 PM

Quote :

"just dont make the relationship about sex make it a good relationship and it doesnt matter"

though if you're fucking after three days, it has more of a tendency to develop into the former rather than the latter

you probably should've waited, but she's not going to think you're a whore ('cause you're a guy)

though she's probably not going to think of you as "relationship material" either, to be fair

[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:15 PM. Reason : .]

10/3/2007 3:11:00 PM

^^^^

Let me put it this way:

Why would you withhold sex from a girl that you LIKE whereas you would not withhold sex from a girl that you DIDN'T LIKE.

This tells me that you have a very skewed perception of sex.

Or that you're dishonest and want to hide it. Which is much worse than being a slut.



[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:13 PM. Reason : af]

10/3/2007 3:11:01 PM

i dont have sex that often as it is. But if i dont like the bitch then i dont care if i talk to her again. If i do like her, however, then i want it to be more than just sex with her.

10/3/2007 3:15:47 PM

Quote :

" This tells me that you have a very skewed perception of sex. Or that you're dishonest and want to hide it. Which is much worse than being a slut. "

/thread

10/3/2007 3:15:47 PM

It depends on the type of person she is... If she is a flakey girl, then you're fucked! If she likes you and is mature, you may not have anything to worry about... Then she might have only wanted sex.. if thats the case you have yourself a fuckbuddy

Either way you're in the good... Either
1) you find out she's flakey (and you dont want that in a girl)
2) you find out that you both like sex (plus 10!) but are mature enough to not make it all about that
3) you have a fuckbuddy, which can eventually turn into something more...

10/3/2007 3:15:56 PM

just tell her you dont want to make it a habit yet. you like her, would like to have a relationship with her and let the sex fit into the pieces of that puzzle.

its not that hard as long as you talk to someone and not be a complete mope about it.

10/3/2007 3:18:36 PM

Quote :

"But if i dont like the bitch then i dont care if i talk to her again. If i do like her, however, then i want it to be more than just sex with her."

If this isn't something that you feel that you can be up front about to a girl that you do like, then maybe you should re-think your strategy.

That would also eliminate the conundrum that inspired this thread.

10/3/2007 3:18:53 PM

AtomicPoops

LOL...nice handle

and your missing the point....you got laid....deal with it

[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:39 PM. Reason : d]

10/3/2007 3:38:25 PM

I firmly believe that there are more girls that put out on the first or second date than there are those that wait...


or maybe I'm just a likable guy with a great personality


honestly, I'm to the point that if I like her I don't care

if I don't like her, I'm not gonna be "dating" her nor will I be trying to have sex with her

[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:39 PM. Reason : ...]

10/3/2007 3:39:22 PM

While I personally wouldn't choose to have sex with someone after 3 days, it really just depends on how it happened and what your intentions are now.

If you had a drunk hook up and plan to be friends and nothing else, ooopsie... prob not going to happen.

Since you're interested, lets remember she did it too - which again, we aren't going to judge.

I know people who waited a year to have sex - I know people who waited until marriage to have sex - I know people who had sex after a week, and others 2 dates. All of those specifics mentioned are now married to each other, so there's definitely a way to make it work in any circumstance.... just how you proceed that matters.

Just live, be happy, call the girl, and don't treat her like a schmuck... you'll be just fine.

[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 4:06 PM. Reason : ]

10/3/2007 4:06:24 PM

Quote :

"I just realized the original poster is a dude. I assumed it was a female based on the content"

Quote :

"You really think about shit like this? Are you a girl? "

Stop acting and thinking like a girl

10/3/2007 4:06:42 PM

At first when I read the thread title I thought you had been having sex for three days and had already gotten bored with it, this is the gayest thread ever.

10/3/2007 4:08:27 PM

Quote :

"you'll be just fine."

10/3/2007 4:10:06 PM

what's a good relationship?

10/3/2007 4:24:18 PM

just keep hittin it. if you enjoy the persons company, things may work out. at least you'll be gettin some play in the mean time.

10/3/2007 4:28:03 PM

If she sees it as problematic, she's more trouble than she's worth.

10/3/2007 4:30:56 PM

Quote :

"though she's probably not going to think of you as "relationship material" either, to be fair"

well, i wouldnt think any girl that would let me hit it after 3 days wouldnt be any type of relationship material except for just fucking

10/3/2007 4:31:54 PM

can't make a ho a housewife

10/3/2007 4:32:37 PM

wrap it up b.

10/3/2007 4:32:58 PM

Quote :

"well, i wouldnt think any girl that would let me hit it after 3 days wouldnt be any type of relationship material except for just fucking"

Where's that line, then?

IMO, it's less about time, and more about attraction.

I think for my bf and I it was only 4 or 5 days

I'm sure there are folks who would call that slutty, but I don't give a damn. Sluttiness and "relationship material" aren't mutually exclusive.

10/3/2007 4:36:40 PM

to your point, christine...it goes both ways
if both parties are ready for it and it "works" then go for it

[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 4:38 PM. Reason : i was just replying to what Stillfarvra said]

10/3/2007 4:38:06 PM

yea, see it all depends.


hey if people can fuck around behind their wife or husband....

there are plenty of people out there that its ok to do that

10/3/2007 4:40:13 PM

i have done it on the first night and had a long term relationship but she was married and took her rings off before we had sex and that didn't bother me so maybe i am from a different mold.

10/3/2007 4:41:59 PM

I'm comfortably jaded to the point that this thread is merely humorous.

10/3/2007 4:47:00 PM

yea, i guess i put too much into relationships.

like i actually make sex something that i share with someone i really really like and maybe even love




its funny how its just like people get in relationships to fuck and hopefully it works out

this world is fucking crazy

10/3/2007 4:51:35 PM

lol I dated a girl for over three years that started that way

10/3/2007 4:54:41 PM

yeah, ive dated a few girls for an extended period of time from just fucking the first few nights we hung out

i've also had sluts that fucked me on the first night that turned out to be tramps that tried to also fuck my friends after i thought we had an understanding

dont get me wrong...its no fun unless your homies get some but still
wait a few weeks

10/3/2007 4:58:54 PM

haha inorite

10/3/2007 4:59:57 PM

10/3/2007 5:01:31 PM

^^^If you wait a few weeks then you don't get to all go on Maury!

10/3/2007 5:05:23 PM

I'm with you, datman. [no homo]

10/3/2007 5:06:28 PM

Well, if Kurupt gave a fuck about a bitch I'd always be broke

10/3/2007 5:08:43 PM

i'd neva have no muthafucking endo to smoke

10/3/2007 5:10:28 PM

ID NEVER HAVE NO MOTHAFUCKING INDO TO SMOKE!

10/3/2007 5:10:30 PM