Now featuring a legal precedent:http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=444804&in_page_id=1770&ct=5
3/27/2007 1:29:38 PM
Atleast those brits have sometime right.
3/27/2007 1:36:18 PM
Oh heavens no, don't give men rights at all! Think of what could happen!
3/27/2007 1:39:52 PM
3/27/2007 2:03:11 PM
3/27/2007 2:03:40 PM
so this pretty much makes it perfectly legal to use roofies?
3/27/2007 2:05:40 PM
^no. roofies are actually a huge problem in the uk. police are always on the lookout for those guys and there are lots of programs to make women and men aware of the problem and how to stop it.
3/27/2007 2:37:27 PM
I'm not sure that they should make it more difficult for women to claim rape... I could see potential negative consequences by making it more difficult on women who were really raped.But I think there should be a set standard for everybody though male or female. Drinking either affects your brain or not regardless of your genitals.
3/27/2007 2:43:09 PM
the key here is that the woman voluntarily engaged in heavy drinking, not someone slipped her a pill while casual drinking to help speed the process along, if you are gonna go out and get shitfaced knowing that you may be pretty out of it, more than likely agreed to have sex or didnt really make it known you didnt want to, then when you wake up, realize you drank way too much, some random guy in your bed, and then yell rape, well as someone else said, least the british got something right for a change.
3/27/2007 2:43:50 PM
i agree with this article. I know a guy going through the courts because of this when it was obviously clear that the girl wanted to have sex with the guy that night.
3/27/2007 2:46:35 PM
I mean if i go out, get plastered, wake up with some hideous chick in my bed, thinking to myself WTF!!! that means I can claim I was raped right?
3/27/2007 2:47:33 PM
Im too drunk to read all these details right now, BUTThis sounds like good news.It's such bullshit that a woman can claim rape if she is drunk.Can I claim no responsibility if i drive drunk?? After all I was DRUNK, i didnt know what i was consenting to!I have a pretty rampant sexual history since I'm attractive, intelligent, and cool. But I'm not going to lie, if it wasn't for alcohol, 50% or more of those events would have never transpired if it wasnt for alcohol. In fact, I'd like to remove ~20-30% of those sexual altercations from my history because I WAS the one who was drunk and accidentally didn't notice the girl was busted. There's no laws on my side of the issue though.Point being, girls WANT to be sluts. Alcohol gives them an "excuse". There's no reason to penalize men just because girls are scared to have sex sober.In many cases I think alcohol prevents rape rather than enhances it.I mean if you know a girl will put out after taking tequila shots you can just give them to her instead of hitting her over the head.
3/27/2007 2:51:39 PM
nope
3/27/2007 2:52:51 PM
3/27/2007 2:56:42 PM
awesome i have the green light to get all the freshman sluts drunk and fuck them
3/27/2007 3:00:34 PM
^only in the UK
3/27/2007 3:05:15 PM
This is one of those situations where there is no winner in a decision. I have to agree with the precedent it makes. Right now like everyone above has mentioned if both parties are drunk and have sex it's the males fault. That's not fair. There needs to be an even playground. Women, you KNOW already how some men can be predators. This is why you don't go out ALONE and get shit faced. The same premise for a male except he's probably going to get robbed not raped. That's the difference. Noone is gunning to rape a man generally. Unfortunately there's no real comparison to this situation because there are two sides, both equally concerned about their rights but the problem lays in who bares the responsibility. Right now it's the male. It doesn't matter how much they had to drink, it doesn't matter if she said "yes fuck me now"... the male in the end raped her if she "said so". The responsibility for actions should lay 50%/50%. The point of this case is to state that "You got drunk, now you have to PROVE that he raped you. Not that you were drunk, sex occurred and now you didn't want that". I feel this case is extremely fair to both sides without giving more to one side. Now the responsibility lays in the woman to make sure she doesn't get shitfaced solo. A friend of mine (female) was hearing my arguement and went "A woman shouldn't have to worry about that when she goes out". My rebuttle was "A man shouldn't have to worry about being accused of rape when the woman says "fuck me now"". So... this is the best solution I know of that meets at the 50/50 line.
3/27/2007 3:49:28 PM
I'm waiting for BridgetSPK to show up.
3/27/2007 3:56:57 PM
3/27/2007 3:58:03 PM
Somebody have a link to the official US / NC equivalent ruling?
3/27/2007 4:04:53 PM
Those outfits are sweet. He probably doesn't even need to get a girl drunk to get laid when he is sporting that thing.
3/27/2007 4:11:40 PM
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3/27/2007 5:00:06 PM
If they had a BAC level for consenting to sex, it would have to be like 0.2 %Common people, this isn't fucking driving.
3/27/2007 5:11:06 PM
Good ruling.
3/27/2007 7:14:07 PM
The bottom line is that either drunk people are responsible for their actions or they aren't. You can't have it both ways.
3/27/2007 8:58:34 PM
if i am responsible for killing someone if i drive drunkthen i should be responsible about my sexual habits
3/27/2007 9:08:58 PM
if i was a pro woman activist i'd be madbut i'm not and i'm extremely happy.
3/27/2007 9:20:42 PM
time to buy some beer and hang out in front of UTyou know, if it were in the UK[Edited on March 27, 2007 at 9:46 PM. Reason : i'm retarded]
3/27/2007 9:45:45 PM
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3/27/2007 10:12:41 PM
^ you cant be a pro woman activistunless you have Sex: M cause youre a butch dike
3/27/2007 10:19:56 PM
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3/27/2007 10:25:17 PM
if only there were more hot british girls for this to apply to
3/27/2007 10:27:07 PM
So where are the "female" opinions here?
3/28/2007 6:17:10 AM
If a girl goes out drinking and get shitfaced (like a dude earlier said) she needs to have someone else there with her to watch her dumb ass. When I go out I always take a friend with me. Just because she was drunk and doesnt remember doesnt mean it is right to call rape. If she had one of those blacking out moments which she probably did she may have said yeah. They guy was supposedly drunk too so he probably didnt realize she was that wasted.
3/28/2007 1:52:49 PM
If i go out and drive with a .20 BAC and get caught I go to jail for DUI, and if i run sombody over murder.If i go out and have sex with a .20 BAC im not responsible for my decision.See the problem here?
3/28/2007 2:37:25 PM
As long as this ruling becomes "situational", then its fine by me. You can't claim that you were raped simply because you were drunk when you had sex.However, there are many circumstances that still apply. Take this instance. Girl is trashed. Guy isn't. They are at a party with a bunch of friends. Guy (not drunk) knows that the girl is dating someone and that she happy with the situation. He knows that she will not sleep with him. He then offers to drive her home, ie putting himself into a position of trust. He then takes advantage of her at her place (consentual, but wouldn't have been if she wasn't drunk). Thats still rape. And it happens . . . OFTEN.
3/28/2007 4:40:37 PM
3/28/2007 4:44:19 PM
if the guy and girl are both wasted, how is it the guy's fault any more than the girls, hell what if the girl gets on top of his dick, does that mean she raped him?[Edited on March 28, 2007 at 5:02 PM. Reason : k]
3/28/2007 4:59:26 PM
girl's word >>>>>>>>>>>> truth
3/28/2007 5:16:29 PM
To be fair, it must be considered on a case to case basis. Consider 2 scenarios:1) A woman goes out drinking. She has a few drinks. Someone asks her if she wants to go home with him. She goes, they have sex, and she feels bad about it in the morning. This does not sound like rape to me. 2) A woman goes to a friend's house to drink. She trusts everyone there. She consumes massive quantities of alcohol. Late in the night, her friends are either too drunk to help her or they've left hours ago. Someone who's been there all night, someone whom she'd never consider kissing while sober, helps her walk to his apartment - she's too drunk to walk on her own. She lays there as he kisses her, fingers her, and starts to undress her. They have sex. Later, she remembers it stopped when she "woke up," felt the room spinning, realized something was wrong, and felt physically sick. This happened to someone I know last weekend. It definitely sounds like rape to me.
3/28/2007 6:14:16 PM
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3/28/2007 6:22:52 PM
^ you could use a one way ticket to hell
3/28/2007 6:27:05 PM
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3/28/2007 7:02:42 PM
As you noted at the end, she drank to the point of complete disability. Although I can't personally imagine being in such a state that I couldn't understand what was happening if someone started to kiss me ("something was eating my face", as she described it) or started to have sex with me, I do understand that this is possible. So to the following point:
3/28/2007 7:30:11 PM
So to the point of the thread, based on that example: deciding rape purely on a blood alcohol level is nonsense, but to say that alcohol is not a factor at all is at least as foolish. It absolutely can inhibit a person's ability to repell a sexual advance. People are taken advantage of in situations they shouldn't have had any reason not to feel safe, and I believe, consistent with US law, that is rape.
3/28/2007 7:35:18 PM