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bad situation all around. I know that Tdub can be ruthless, but damn.

6/10/2011 12:07:09 AM

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"If posts on a message board can fuck up your real world life (I still heavily doubt that's the case here, but some of you people seem to think so) then that's just a sign that you should probably stop visiting that website."


i admit to not knowing much about the situation, but it seemed like she was less trying to stir the hornets nest then jus trying to come back to a community she used to get some enjoyment out of. and as tight and interconnected as tww can be, you are fooling yourself if you dont think its real life. just b/c you are sitting at a keyboard doesnt make your words less hurtful.

maybe she should have just stayed away, but also, maybe she had already paid the price for her wrongs by losing people important to her and the last thing she needed were people piling on her.


edit: ya i minor amount of research shows she had barely posted at all before certain posters started poking her, not vice versa. not calling right and wrong, but she def wasnt the first one to start poking...

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:15 AM. Reason : a]

6/10/2011 12:10:59 AM

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go back and read her posts man. She hadn't made a dozen posts before she was throwing her old "friends" under the bus like it was a game. I never liked her, and wasn't about to start now, but I would have been willing to leave her alone if she hadn't came back with the exact same attitude as before, only this time with 10 times more rage, spite, and sadness.

6/10/2011 12:13:39 AM

rwoody
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see edit

6/10/2011 12:14:31 AM

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rwoody is my new favorite poster.

It's nice to be able to reflect on what is absolutely childish behavior without your motives being questioned as "herp derp that won't get you laid."

Seriously ThePeter could you sling that accusation any more?

6/10/2011 12:18:05 AM

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for what it's worth, she WANTED this.


via PM (that I did not initiate)

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"i left him because i need help. because i recognize that i have problems. and i came back here knowing that people would put me down. i want it. i need it. i want to feel as absolutely bad as i possibly can.

so, thank you."





Alright, enough of this for me.

6/10/2011 12:19:47 AM

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^boy how generous you are to help out an obviously damaged person

seriously, how can you say with a straight face "she said to hurt her, so its ok"?

no need to post excuses if you are comfortable with your behavior

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:22 AM. Reason : ^^i missed that, was that directed at me? interesting.]

6/10/2011 12:22:04 AM

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thank god someone else agrees with me!

6/10/2011 12:23:27 AM

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That was after all the stuff I said the first day. I actually took a serious side and offered her counseling information.

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:25 AM. Reason : My responses today were not done because I thought, "Oh she wants it, she's gonna get it!"]

6/10/2011 12:24:41 AM

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"Seriously ThePeter could you sling that accusation any more?"


I mean I try to use it where ever I can, its one of my favorite mini-memes on here. It was a great opportunity and I fully stand by my post.

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:27 AM. Reason : this is some serious god damn business alright]

6/10/2011 12:26:53 AM

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well i respect that you made an attempt at generosity

but it is still ignorant, at best, to say "she wanted this" when it is so obvious that she didnt

its like giving heroin to a junkie for the same reasons. sure they feel like they need it, doesnt make it the right decision to give it to them.

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:27 AM. Reason : i'm out, see ya'll tomorrow]

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:29 AM. Reason : "the internet isnt real" is something my grandpa says too]

6/10/2011 12:26:59 AM

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+1 for samwise not being shit

6/10/2011 12:32:12 AM

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EMCE is the best TWWer

6/10/2011 12:36:22 AM

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TWW is not fucking heroin. seriously.

6/10/2011 12:37:03 AM

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Dude. She even said in the chatterbox that she came back so people would treat her like shit and so she would feel even worse about herself. Don't even act like she didn't want this shit at all when it came from her mouth (fingers, whatevs).


And for real? If you're going to use the heroin example, then I was like the fucking substance abuse counselors on Intervention. I gave her this link:

http://www.tfsnc.org/index.php/contact-tfs

because I was genuinely concerned that she was going to off herself, or that she would spiral even more out of control.

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:39 AM. Reason : .]

6/10/2011 12:38:01 AM

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at one point there was going to be a tww shirt that said "internet crack: the first posts on us"


or something like that

6/10/2011 12:38:19 AM

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he's not doubting that she said she wanted it, he's arguing the morality of giving it to her

6/10/2011 12:39:03 AM

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i'm just gonna have to 100% back sam on this. she came here asking for it knowing she'd get it. she has been hated on this site for a long ass time, prior to everyone knowing about her cheating.

reap what you sow mofo's

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:42 AM. Reason : ^I think she deserved it. all of it. but thats just my opinion]

6/10/2011 12:41:09 AM

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I was not saying things against her to "give her what she wanted." I just genuinely can't stand people who cheat then try to act like the fucking victim when they themselves are the reason their life is falling apart. I think you should note that I usually made a statement about how what she was saying didn't make sense - I didn't post her nudes, or do anything to affect her personal life.


I am not going to apologize for not giving sympathy or pity to someone who treats others OR themselves this bad.


Girl needs help.

6/10/2011 12:41:39 AM

ThePeter
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TWW sometimes seems like crack :/

6/10/2011 12:42:51 AM

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In case anyone cares, I enjoyed the previously mentioned xmen movie.

6/10/2011 12:48:49 AM

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^When I saw that from the chatterbox snippet that was posted, I was all like, hey I wonder if PackPrincess enjoyed X-Men: First Class? If so, me and EMCE will have to see it together (hand in hand).

6/10/2011 12:51:09 AM

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Did it have Hugh Jackman in it?

6/10/2011 12:52:03 AM

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Some of the stuff was too on the nose for a prequel, but all in all it was pretty good. I couldn't find Stan Lee in the movie though.

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 12:53 AM. Reason : ^yes! but only a small part]

6/10/2011 12:53:15 AM

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!!! Haha, I guess it was more or less a background cameo then?

6/10/2011 1:11:15 AM

PackPrincess
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Pretty much

6/10/2011 1:11:46 AM

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Peter and I are going to see it thid weekend. I haven't seen any of the xmen movies. I guess that doesn't matter?

6/10/2011 1:13:29 AM

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You may miss some trivial inside jokes, but that's it.

6/10/2011 1:15:04 AM

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I admit that I don't know jack shit about what's going on in this thread and don't know the people involved from Adam. One thing that undeniably needs to be said is "who gives a fuck". You people need to relax instead of getting all up in each others business. People are the way they are. If they're being a douchebag, write them off that they are a douchebag and fuckin ignore them.

edit: In short, what qntmfred said.

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 1:17 AM. Reason : qntmpost]

6/10/2011 1:15:45 AM

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ibtnoob

6/10/2011 1:17:44 AM

PackPrincess
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^but where do you stand on the xmen issue?

6/10/2011 1:18:36 AM

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"Girl needs help."


if she needs help (and she does, she already mentioned suicidal thoughts), it's probably not the best idea to gang up on her and belittle her for the string of mistakes she's made. (not just talking about you ofc)

jesus said turn the other cheek, yall.

<3

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 1:26 AM. Reason : .]

6/10/2011 1:22:43 AM

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Wait someone said something about n00dz? And not ncsudreamer/thumpers?

Do tell.

6/10/2011 1:28:45 AM

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"Peter and I are going to see it thid weekend. I haven't seen any of the xmen movies. I guess that doesn't matter? "


yay

6/10/2011 1:44:51 AM

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Could I ask you a favor, bmel and ThePeter?

EMCE really, really wants to see the movie too. Think you could take him along with you? I know what you're thinking, he'll be third wheel, but shucks could you really stand to see him disappointed? He'd be so happy if you'd take him.

6/10/2011 2:05:22 AM

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"Some of the stuff was too on the nose for a prequel, but all in all it was pretty good. I couldn't find Stan Lee in the movie though. "


Stan was absent from this X-Men, and while I enjoyed the movie I really couldn't decide if this was supposed to be a complete reboot or a true prequel.

Also, Jackman WAS in the movie and his cameo was fucking hilarious.


Wait...what's going on in this thread again?

6/10/2011 7:30:37 AM

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" She was doing all of this for attention, whether it was good or bad. "


Everyone that posts on a message board is there for the attention. Even the loudest harassers crave the static they get in return.

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"Then she tried blaming everyone else and saying THEY were hurting her family."

People talking shit about you and your relationship doesn't hurt?

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"and NO ONE here is going to help her get ahold of herself by going"

I'd say some folks are doing nearly that.

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"If posts on a message board can fuck up your real world life"

...says the guy that keeps his identity pretty well hidden. What you got to hide bro?

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"She hadn't made a dozen posts before she was throwing her old "friends" under the bus like it was a game."

And why shouldn't she? They all abandoned her, what does she care?

6/10/2011 7:31:53 AM

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I reallyyyyy want to see the new xmen ... seems like a good cast

6/10/2011 7:33:25 AM

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"I admit that I don't know jack shit about what's going on in this thread and don't know the people involved from Adam. One thing that undeniably needs to be said is "who gives a fuck". You people need to relax instead of getting all up in each others business. People are the way they are. If they're being a douchebag, write them off that they are a douchebag and fuckin ignore them"


Recruit spitting fire ITT



^ Wasn't that great. Kinda sucks without the normal cast really.

http://watch-movies-az.com/movie/x-men:_first_class_%282011%29

I suggest you watch like 20 mins and if you like it then go pay for it.

[Edited on June 10, 2011 at 7:35 AM. Reason : ]

6/10/2011 7:34:04 AM

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I'll take EMCE to see Xmen

Also bmel, I highly reccomend xmen 1 and 2. well really just Xmen 2. Peter ought to back me up on this.

6/10/2011 7:36:40 AM

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"...says the guy that keeps his identity pretty well hidden. What you got to hide bro?"


Why would you want to share your private life on the Internet, especially if what you share can bite you in the ass? It's one thing to be like "I'VE GOT A BABY," it's another to say, "I'M FUCKING MY HUSBANDS BEST FRIEND!"

There's a few people on here who know who I am and who I have met. But you don't see me volunteering personal information to everyone out on this website. If you're going to share personal shit that can bite your ass, you have to be prepared to suffer the consequences of doing that.

6/10/2011 7:43:15 AM

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bmel if you decide you want to see xmen 1 and 2 I can send my copies with Matt next time he visits.

6/10/2011 9:08:51 AM

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internet bullying: not just for kids anymore


this website is gonna be the psychological straw that breaks someone's back someday

6/10/2011 9:17:59 AM

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***OFFICIAL*** LIST OF TWW SUICIDES

6/10/2011 9:20:03 AM

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WAIT....Did I miss something...did Thumper kill herself?

6/10/2011 9:42:32 AM

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not yet

6/10/2011 9:44:27 AM

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6/10/2011 9:49:20 AM

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Oh...well that's good.

I mean I don't want her to off herself! She gave me a reason to want to read tww again.

I feel like a totally selfish person for this, but I love threads like this...we don't get them as often as we used to because we don't have as many new users as we used to have...the majority of people on tww now know how to not get caught up in bullshit like this.

But here is the thing...if you cheat on your husband and you don't want anyone to know....THEN DON'T TELL ANYONE...the moment you tell someone else, your secret is no longer safe. It is not other's people responsiblity to keep your secret.

2nd....I'm sad that I missed this going down last night...I wanted to see it in real time...I wish I could have watched the chatterbox explode...

3rd...today is my cousin's birthday

4th...well now that she is suspended does that mean tww is going to go back to business as usual?

5th...is thumper lurking? does she have another name now?


I think that is all have have to say/ ask for now

6/10/2011 9:51:31 AM

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Ok, I figured out why this bugs me and why I think the people defending her are ~. She was all gung ho about revealing "secrets" because her "secret" was revealed to her husband, literally blaming the secret teller for ruining her life. Basically saying if it stayed a secret her life would carry on and her husband would still be cheated on and she'd still have a ring.

Sorry, that is bad mojo.

And we have all wanted to kill ourselves at one point, srsly. Then most of us pull up our big girl panties and trudge the fuck on. That's life right? Keep truckin' til the next hurdle comes.

6/10/2011 10:32:47 AM

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Yeah, but some of us pull the trigger.

6/10/2011 10:34:00 AM

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