^^ have you seen BobbyDigital before? i'd hit it. his wife is one lucky woman.

7/29/2011 1:51:46 PM

[Edited on July 29, 2011 at 1:55 PM. Reason : I had something funny to say but it was really really really mean, and I'm trying to be nicer]

7/29/2011 1:53:49 PM

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"^^ have you seen BobbyDigital before? i'd hit it. his wife is one lucky woman."

Third world apologist

7/29/2011 1:56:08 PM

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"have you seen BobbyDigital before? i'd hit it. his wife is one lucky woman."

You just say that cause he gave you a backhanded compliment

Anyways, this falls into the "lets throw false assumptions all around" category. If that is one.

7/29/2011 1:57:40 PM

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"I'm trying to be nicer"

why?

you're funny when you're mean

7/29/2011 2:02:06 PM

^^ i couldn't care less about whatever he said about me. backhanded or not, he could have told me i look like a smelly troll and i still would have said the same thing.

Slave really needs to just say what he wants because he's funny regardless.

[Edited on July 29, 2011 at 2:03 PM. Reason : edit ]

7/29/2011 2:03:27 PM

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"Anyways, this falls into the "lets throw false assumptions all around" category. If that is one."

Pro-tip: Between this thread and your Polyamory thread, you're not helping disprove the notion that people think you're crazy.

7/29/2011 2:08:34 PM

You shouldn't give compliments to people that insult you. It's not "becoming" of you.

[Edited on July 29, 2011 at 2:10 PM. Reason : best word I could think of.]

7/29/2011 2:09:41 PM

^ i was making a point. i don't care what Bobby thinks of me. i stated my opinion.

and sylvershadow was the one who said it was a backhanded compliment. i didn't perceive his comment that way. to each is own.

[Edited on July 29, 2011 at 2:32 PM. Reason : shrugs and hugs - no mean muggin now.]

7/29/2011 2:12:01 PM

Let the record show that my comment about CassTheSass appearing to be socially and emotionally well balanced was a front handed compliment and not a back handed one.

Thanks,

-BT

7/29/2011 2:32:14 PM

i prefer it to be a front hand over a back one. thankyouverymuch

7/29/2011 2:32:43 PM

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"and her added drama isn't something that I want anymore. "

This.

I was in a similar situation with my last boyfriend. He dumped me in a pretty immature way, we went our separate ways, and then suddenly 6 months later he's constantly trying to get in contact with me wanting to get back together, deal with his drama, etc. I eventually had to just ignore all communication with him until he finally understood that when I said I didn't want to date him again, I didn't want to date him again.

7/29/2011 2:49:28 PM

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"but to me i read it as that he hadn't communicated with his ex except for the couple of times this month she has tried contacting him. and this recent time he made it clear that she can't lean on him for emotional support anymore. she should have understood that that was a given but i commend raiden for making it clear to her. my thing is - raiden shouldn't have to change his email, his phone number, etc just because he ended a relationship with someone. that's kind of ridiculous. but then again, if i was the girl, i would know that if i was walking away from the relationship that meant contacting my ex would be off limits."

CassTheSass, you are dead on accurate.

7/29/2011 2:57:52 PM

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"If she does try to contact me again, phone #'s will be changed, emails will be blocked, she'll be met with a wall of silence."

why not just do it now and be done with it?

7/29/2011 3:26:00 PM

why should I have to at this point? I think what I told her was enough, I'm not gonna go thru that PITA unless it happens again.

7/29/2011 3:26:54 PM

I mean I agree with you, but don't you think it's more of a 'when' than an 'if' at this point? bitch is nuts

7/29/2011 3:32:20 PM

probably lol.

7/29/2011 3:40:54 PM

i think it's one thing if the ex was calling incessantly or was sending threatening texts, emails, etc. and yes i think it was kind of koo-koo of her to ask raiden to hack into her parent's email, but i still don't think it warrants him having to change his number and email. if she keeps it up, then maybe but honestly i feel like if she REALLY is cray-cray she'd find out the new number, new email, etc and keep at it.

7/29/2011 3:41:30 PM

Girl sounds batshit. Kudos to raiden for sending a smart email in response to her ridiculous--possibly illegal--request.

7/29/2011 4:04:45 PM

15 months?

This could possibly be the best thing that's ever happened to you.

7/29/2011 5:54:58 PM

The problem with changing his numbers and emails is that he can't exactly change his work email and office phone number (which was her last resort) to avoid her. That's bad for business and **** **** would not approve. What then though, restraining order? Keep ignoring everything and try to screen your business calls?

I did lol at the two ditz's taking terrible view points though

7/29/2011 7:32:00 PM

bttt

I'm Krallum and I approved this message.

7/19/2013 11:17:52 AM

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raiden recovers quickly.

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7/21/2013 6:55:43 PM

people get old and lower their standards, it happens

7/21/2013 7:29:39 PM

7/21/2013 7:30:27 PM

two years isn't as short as a couple months or something, though

7/21/2013 9:42:25 PM

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