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prep-e
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looks like his big bucks bought him a 'real relationship'

lol

5/9/2006 1:50:32 AM

nchockey
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damn, no wonder you have to be such a baller

i'd have to be a baller too if i had to use that much hair gel

5/9/2006 1:51:42 AM

UJustWait84
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YOU SPLIT THE FUCKING BILL AT QUIZNO'S

5/9/2006 1:52:50 AM

nchockey
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BALLERS WEAR AMERICAN EAGLE

5/9/2006 1:53:17 AM

prep-e
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haha

dude looks like my friends and i did in 8th grade when we thought abercrombie was the hot ish

5/9/2006 1:53:28 AM

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prep-e

what would your buddy jesus christ say about your behavior

you can try to flame me in response to me pointing this out, but we know you'll be praying for forgiveness later

lol

5/9/2006 1:54:59 AM

nchockey
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this thread supports my theory that the world is going to hell

[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 1:56 AM. Reason : myself included]

5/9/2006 1:55:58 AM

UJustWait84
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hell is probably dating a 'man' who won't pick up the $12 tab at Quizno's

5/9/2006 1:59:31 AM

prep-e
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yes McDanger, we know you hate God, you don't need to point it out every time you get the chance

i'm sorry mommy and daddy brought you to church when you were little and forced their religion down your throat.

5/9/2006 1:59:49 AM

prep-e
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^^hell is running out of styling gel



[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 2:02 AM. Reason : /]

5/9/2006 2:01:59 AM

McDanger
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i dont hate something i cant know the existence of

but ill tell you what i DO hate -- dumb motherfuckers like you that parade around their belief in him

you are fucking pathetic

if you actually believe in that trite bullshit then be a man and conform to your fucking ideology

YOU CANT EVEN DO CHRISTIANITY RIGHT, LIKE MOST DECADENT AMERICANS

what a fucking shock

5/9/2006 2:02:29 AM

prep-e
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oh firey death!

5/9/2006 2:03:35 AM

UJustWait84
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that actually is kinda funny

but i dont even put hair gel in my hair anymore

i keep it buzzed short now

5/9/2006 2:06:01 AM

nchockey
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just to clear things up, i'm not neccessarily defending prep-e here

i just want to call out the shallow duechebaggery

^on a lighter note... you have that 'i just took a satisfying dump' face in most of your pictures... made me laugh


[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 2:11 AM. Reason : V that's the word i'm looking for]

5/9/2006 2:08:46 AM

UJustWait84
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its called a shit eating grin and ive had it all my life

5/9/2006 2:09:43 AM

UJustWait84
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" From : UJustWait84
To : prep-e
Received : Monday May 8, 2006 at 11:03 PM
Subject : Re: yeah...
dude dont try and give me relationship advice

i was engaged and dated a chick for 2.5 years before i woke up and realized i was young and deserved to be appreciated

not trying to be a total dick and troll your ass but your GF obviously doesn't respect you and appreciate you

in all honesty, if you can't afford quizno's (or ruth chris for that matter) your girlfriend shouldn't utter one word about it, unless she's a materialistic, shallow bitch

move on dude, this isn't a good sign

sorry for the sarcasm, but im actually being serious right now"


since prep-e is being selective about posting PMs i sent him...

5/9/2006 2:13:24 AM

sublimechica
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"well if he ever gets married make sure he signs a prenupt

ive heard divorces are slightly more expensive than submarine sandwiches"



thats the funniest thing i read in the whole thread

5/9/2006 8:26:29 AM

pawprint
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"i dont hate something i cant know the existence of"


I thought you were catholic?

5/9/2006 9:46:39 AM

ixheartxyou
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I think I'm backwards, but I like to pay for myself before I know the guy better...

5/9/2006 9:53:59 AM

Grapehead
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i hate dating welfare cases.

if the bitch cant pay for her own stuff or is generally claiming to be broke (or if she just always insists you pay because its romatic or what have you), chances are she doesnt manage her finances well and would put you in the poor house if you stayed together long term.

5/9/2006 10:07:46 AM

wolftrap
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for a second there I thought the subject was
Paying for Stuff When Raping a Girl

5/9/2006 10:34:13 AM

CodeRed4791
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my bf pays for everything

i cook the food he brings into the house, clean up afterwards, do his laundry etc

ive offered to pay before and it usually ends up with me getting a talking to about how im a lady and he wants to take care of me etc. so i always make sure to thank him for everything he does for me.

5/9/2006 10:52:25 AM

AntiMnifesto
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^ you do realize this makes you a housewife?

"hey little lady, i bring the bacon home and so's i expect this place to be clean when i get here, and dinner on the table." if someone talked to me like that he'd likely be backhanded. he shouldbe thanking you for doing his chores, since chores are not easy either.

unless you really can't afford it, letting a guy pay for everything is handing over a large amount of power i wouldn't be comfortable with.

5/9/2006 11:57:53 AM

esgargs
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housewives (I prefer the term homemakers) are useless.

[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 12:03 PM. Reason : ]

5/9/2006 12:03:38 PM

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this thread will go at least five more pages.

5/9/2006 12:24:56 PM

sNuwPack
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people in this thread that are claiming you have to pay for everything to get a girl are really sad. They are acting like anyone who wants a chance at a relationship has to pay for everything, or they are a loser, but it seems to me that you guys are the losers that can't get a girl without buying her time

5/9/2006 12:26:15 PM

prep-e
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exactly. i don't ever want to give a girl a reason to stick around if she doesn't like me for who i am. when you buy girls tons of stuff and always pay for everything, you're setting yourself up to get used. you can't know whether they're staying with you because they really like you or whether it's just convenient because of what you have to offer them materially. until i get to the point where i know the girl likes me for exactly who i am, i won't go above and beyond as far as paying for stuff outside of occasional dates. maybe some people are just afraid the girl won't like them for who they are so they feel like giving the girl a little incentive will help their cause.

5/9/2006 1:43:33 PM

ssjamind
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i don't pay for everything to get a girl. if i thought a girl was int it ONLY to be taken care of, she wouldn't last. i think i'm savvy enough to figure that out.

i also pay for everything when I'm out with my little sister and youger cousins, and most of the time when I'm out with parents.

i do it because that's just how I roll.

5/9/2006 2:17:19 PM

tartsquid
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It's really unfair to expect for a man to pay for everything. If a girl really cares about what her friends think, she should work out a deal where he pays when they go out with a group and she'll pay when they're alone to make things even.

And he should work out that she's pretty shallow for giving a fuck what her friends think.

5/9/2006 2:22:03 PM

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money can't buy you love

but looks like it can rent sex

5/9/2006 2:53:09 PM

prep-e
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good luck with that

5/9/2006 3:30:18 PM

UJustWait84
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weren't you the one who's having arguments about it and posting a thread on it?

5/9/2006 3:31:34 PM

prep-e
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como what?

[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 6:58 PM. Reason : /]

5/9/2006 6:57:43 PM

alibaby
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"Women are expected to be treated equal to men, but then expect men to take care of them, etc.... you can't have both. Both should pay evenly."


i only read the first page...and don't necessarily agree about the above statement. i'd say that every couple is different in their dynamic and you can't make a hard and fast rule for anything when it comes to girls and boys dating.

i do think that communication is key and if you're having issues about something like this, you should feel free to speak with her about it. maybe even think about WHY you feel like you guys need to go dutch during lunches/group dinners...i'm betting it has to do more with the fact that she's not very giving with her money and you feel that you've been more than generous and can't afford to give any more than what you do on "dates". or maybe it's because you feel like you take care of her in a number of ways above and beyond picking up her tab during a "date", but you don't feel that it's reciprocated by her.

my advice: do some thinking, figure out what will make you happy and will solve this problem both at the same time and talk to her about it!

[Edited on May 11, 2006 at 12:27 PM. Reason : ]

5/11/2006 12:27:05 PM

genau
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"I, personally, look at homemaking as a lifelong career...Very few women can do it, and you can actually feel it when you visit a household that has a nurturing mom and a wonderful wife.

It's all about your perspective."


Quote :
"housewives (I prefer the term homemakers) are useless."



so which is it, esgargs?

5/11/2006 5:06:24 PM

Blue Jay
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gargs = pwnt

5/12/2006 8:46:08 AM

ComputerGuy
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Ummm...your stupid.

ESARGS IS RIGHT

ESARGS FOR PRESDIENT

5/12/2006 9:21:40 AM

IcedFire
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5 Secrets to a Perfect Relationship:


1. It's important to have a woman who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job.
2. It's important to have a woman who can make you laugh.
3. It's important to have a woman who you can trust and who doesn't lie to you.
4. It's important to have a woman who is good in bed and who likes to be with you.
5. It's very, very important that these four women don't know each other.

5/12/2006 10:00:30 AM

miska
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Quote :
"Ummm...***your*** stupid.

ESARGS IS RIGHT

ESARGS FOR PRESDIENT"


HAHAHA

what a winner


[Edited on May 12, 2006 at 6:34 PM. Reason : html! ]

5/12/2006 6:33:41 PM

Wraith
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^I think he was merely pointing out that the stupid belongs to Blue Jay. Otherwise, he would have used an apostrophe.

5/12/2006 8:55:33 PM

esgargs
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"so which is it, esgargs"


my sarcastic penis in your mother's anus.

5/12/2006 9:09:10 PM

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7/11/2006 3:33:35 PM

Protostar
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Equal rights = equal responsibility.

7/11/2006 3:59:38 PM

Jere
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didn't read 2-4, but I think that bitch needs a good smack

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"one more thing, the only time she's ever spent money on me (other than gas/driving) is for a 20 oz bottle of water at subway"


the real question is: why hasn't she ever payed for YOU?

7/11/2006 4:09:02 PM

wolfpack23
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i think prep-e did the right thing.

7/11/2006 4:22:06 PM

ssjamind
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my Y chromosome will not let me believe that

7/11/2006 4:28:15 PM

dgillenman
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Do what you can, if she ain't happy with it, turn her loose.

Either that or flip it on her and make her feel guilty

7/11/2006 8:35:38 PM

TheTabbyCat
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whoa I can't believe this thread has gone on for this long and for 5 pages...

7/11/2006 10:49:41 PM

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