2/18/2011 10:25:31 AM
minus the college education part, I agree with the quote. The problem is that the vast majority of americans who "can't afford" the essentials are simply horrible at managing their money, wasting it on what are technically luxuries, when they should be paying the rent or the power bill.
2/18/2011 11:02:28 AM
yeah, I really don't want to argue any more about tax codes and hypothetical families. At least we all were able to agree that what is middle class is subjective and that no particular income classifies an individual as "rich".
2/18/2011 11:28:55 AM
I'm still interested in talking about it. I want to be clear that when I said that I grounded this in Wake County, I was just pointing out that I've been basing my statements on my experiences in Wake County and that you weren't gonna bust out with some stupid stuff about how your hypothetical family of 6 lives in Manhattan. Now, I see that you still haven't been able to get anyone to agree with you that 250k with four kids isn't anything but upper middle class or that you can't accomplish your requirements comfortably with that kind of money. Perhaps that's why you don't want to talk about it anymore?By the way, your hypothetical budget is pitiful, which may be what the issue is here. Are you going to be sending your children to daycare perpetually, like they've got serious disabilities or something? Daycare is a temporary expense that morphs into after school care and then goes away entirely. Also, assuming your oldest and youngest are at least 6 years apart, it seems stupid to save $20,000/year for 24 years just to send four kids to college, but hey, it's your prerogative.So...the most important point: why did you immediately buy a half million dollar house? You're only going to have one kid at first. And then two. And then three. And they will be little, and they will benefit socially from sharing rooms. Once you have three or four children, and they start to get up there in age...that's when you make the move to the bigger house. I mean, good Lord, the biggest monthly bill on the list, your mortgage, is three times too high for a young family. If you're interested in doing the kind of savings that you want to do, then you don't buy everything all at once. If you put off buying the bigger house, you could save tons and tons of extra money each month in the smaller house, and once you did buy the bigger house, you'd have your extra money and your children or most of your children would be nearly out of daycare.To be clear, living in the smaller house at first isn't some form extreme budgeting that makes a living uncomfortable. It's really just a form of not being totally and completely stupid.
2/19/2011 3:00:53 AM
2/19/2011 7:40:25 AM
I'm not telling him how to live. I'm just providing extremely basic advice and insight on how a family of 6 can save all he wants to save and still have plenty of money left over each month. If he chooses to get the big house first thing and only have the $382 left over each month, that's his business...again, his prerogative.I'm aware that it was a one year budget. I was just pointing out that some of the expenses were only temporary...and then I later explained that those temporary expenses could be easily balanced out by not buying the big house right off the bat. The picture he tried to paint isn't practical.And my point about the college thing was that I think tuition will not continue to increase forever so, in my opinion, it's silly to plan for that. But, again, that's his business.I figure I'm gonna have to repeat all these minor points again to somebody else who ignores the major crux of the post: a family of 6 can easily save all that money and live comfortably on 250k. The budget betrays that fact by assuming the immediate purchase of the big house. Upper middle class families do this every day. We all know people personally who do this so ridiculous/unrealistic budgets aren't particularly compelling here.[Edited on February 19, 2011 at 9:03 AM. Reason : Okay, done.]
2/19/2011 8:57:55 AM
^is the mortgage not temporary too?250K is a damn fine income. But trying to suggest you know what kind of expenses or debts they SHOULD have is telling them how to live. it simply isnt any of your business unless they start asking you for your help or money. That is unless you assume that you are entitled to some of their money they earned.
2/19/2011 9:49:09 AM
2/19/2011 11:13:32 AM
^^Yes, a mortgage is temporary, but it typically lasts a whole lot longer than daycare. What's your point anyway?I solved the big mystery of how to comfortably raise a family of 6 on 250k/year and save all the money he wants to save and have thousands of dollars more a month to do everything else his budget doesn't include. I'm not telling him to do it or that he should do it. I'm just showing him that, yes, it can and is done comfortably all the time.The fact that it had to go this far is pathetic. This guy feels so persecuted as a potential upper middle class person that he was actually able to convince himself that 250k is not enough to save for retirement and send four kids to college. It's lunacy.
2/19/2011 1:05:24 PM
2/19/2011 9:43:48 PM
Is this turning out like the last thread on this subject, where 20-something single, childless engineers tried to convince us that $75,000 a year was just enough to get by?
2/19/2011 9:58:43 PM
no, it's differentthere appears to also be at least one 30-something know-it-all
2/19/2011 10:22:40 PM
Hell, 30-something engineers have to start worrying about health insurance......which is covered by their employer, thanks to generous gov't subsidies.
2/19/2011 10:28:33 PM
^^^ that is obviously not the case. That's a nice, comfortable lifestyle...and furthermore, middle class--just like making $35k/year, just like making $250k/year. While eyedrb is being ridiculous with his portrayal of the family with $250k/year and how it takes every dollar they make to live reasonably, some others are being equally ridiculous with (a) their definition of "middle class" as more like "working class", and (b) their portrayal of how tough things are even at that income.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_middle_classI think that either the Gilbert or Thompson/Hickey models are pretty accurate.[Edited on February 19, 2011 at 10:39 PM. Reason : ^^ better that than a college kid who doesn't know shit, least of all what he doesn't know.][Edited on February 19, 2011 at 10:41 PM. Reason : ]
2/19/2011 10:36:59 PM
2/20/2011 8:54:18 AM
In all reality - middle class is just a "stereotype"If anything the PARAMETERS for what one considers "middle class" are shifting Twenty years ago, a place like Brier Creek would have been considered "rich" or "wealthy" or whatever you want to call itToday it is "middle class" to those who live thereLeaving a disproportionate number of those trying to achieve "middle class" status, behind
2/20/2011 2:55:08 PM
http://www.visualizingeconomics.com/wp-content/uploads/occupations.png$250k? Middle class? LOLs...1936http://www.roperld.com/economics/graphics/IncDist1d.jpg1990:http://gumption.org/1993/memo/landmarks/us_income.gif[Edited on February 20, 2011 at 4:07 PM. Reason : ]
2/20/2011 4:01:32 PM
dude...you are inadvertently selling your own argument down the river with those figures. everyfuckingone knows that $250k/year puts you financially ahead of the vast majority of Americans. That does not remove it from middle class. It is upper middle class. I'll agree that it's toward the top of what can still be considered middle class, but it is still middle class.more importantly, it is also obvious to even a casual observer that the distribution of income is not bell-shaped. That is, in fact, precisely why $250k/year is middle class. Middle class doesn't mean any sort of middle quartile or quintile or whatever. It seems that you are again confusing "working class" with "middle class". If you look at your income graph from 1993, the mode is about $11,000/year. If you adjust that for inflation, it's about $17,000 in today's dollars. Please tell me that you don't consider that income to be middle class, as it is working class, at best. If you want to define the middle 50% of earners as middle class, the 75th percentile looks to be about $35,500 in 1993, or roughly $54,000 in today's dollars--which would define the upper boundary of "middle class" by that definition. If you define anything above that--say, $55,000/year, as too rich to be middle class, then this discussion is over, because you are a fucking idiot. If not, then I have to wonder at what percentile--if not the 75th--you would define as the upper limit of "middle class"...Shall we go to the 90th percentile? Adjusted for inflation, I currently make a little more than that. Am I one of the rich? Well, it looks like I'm probably richer than 90% of Americans in terms of income, and probably at least that percentile in terms of net worth. Hopefully in another 4-5 years I'll be up near the 95th percentile. That still won't make me rich. It makes me incrementally better off than a mechanic or teacher making half my salary. I can drive a somewhat nicer car, and have a motorcycle and jet ski, and a slightly above-average house, and take my vacations to places like Vail and Breckenridge, or Peru, or whatevly er instead of Myrtle Beach...and when I go out to eat, I might spend $15-20 on a meal routinely instead of $12 at Applebee's, but none of that is a rich man's lifestyle.This is why I say that $80k. or $100k, or $250k does not make you removed from the middle class. You still are constrained to a "normal" lifestyle. Especially towards the upper end, you can make extravagant purchases and do extravagant things from time to time, but you still cannot really live an extravagant lifestyle. Furthermore, you are almost certainly still working for a living, and doing so at a "normal" job.[Edited on February 20, 2011 at 5:35 PM. Reason : ][Edited on February 20, 2011 at 6:18 PM. Reason : ]
2/20/2011 5:33:08 PM
2/20/2011 8:45:00 PM
2/20/2011 11:22:35 PM
On page 1, Gapetto forgot to stop and think about inflation. 1million dollars won't be shit in 40 years.
2/22/2011 12:06:03 AM
2/22/2011 12:12:19 AM
Does anyone really think the problem with Medicare is that rich old people are fleecing younger generations? Sure, there are people that receive SS that don't need it. There are many more elderly people that absolutely depend on it for survival.The humanitarian thing to do is to figure out how to phase out Social Security without cutting people off immediately. The worst, least compassionate thing we can do is pretend there isn't a solvency problem and keep an unsustainable program going down the same path that it has been, until one day, the check doesn't buy nearly enough. What do poor old people spend the majority of their money on? Energy, food, and health care.. The monetary policy that has to be adopted in order to fund budget deficits, year after year, is directly responsible for the cost increase of food and energy. "Medical inflation" is, in large part, due to ill-advised subsidies.
2/22/2011 12:37:18 AM
A single payer system would have fixed all of that. Bulk.
2/22/2011 12:52:15 AM
2/22/2011 12:53:52 AM
What new system do you propose for us to take care of the elderly and disabled?
2/22/2011 12:58:28 AM
When you dispense of the idea that there was ever really a "lockbox" or a "trust fund," it's hard to say what money belongs to who. The money that is being taken out of my check every week belongs to me, until the government says it belongs to someone else. If it had actually been a forced savings program, well, I wouldn't support it, but that's not at all what it turned out to be. There is no difference between what is going on now with entitlements and a ponzi scheme, except that you participate in a ponzi scheme voluntarily (though, perhaps not knowingly).
2/22/2011 1:00:19 AM
2/22/2011 1:03:02 AM
^^^Social Security has nothing to do with the disabled, and it isn't the federal government's job to manage people's personal finances so they don't have to be the Wal-Mart greeter and eat cat food when they're 87 years old...but since we, as a country, would not be willing to say "Whatever dude, you're the fucking moron who didn't see fit to save any money for the last four goddamn decades. Sucks, huh?", I would propose that doing something kinda like the healthcare mandate (except for retirement savings, in an IRA or something) would at least be less offensive and more sensible than Social Security (that's setting the bar low, I know).^ Technically you are correct, although having to pay into it and then not getting at least that amount of money back out is some major bullshit.
2/22/2011 1:03:43 AM
Social security IS sustainable though. Its worked all this time what is different all of a sudden? I just put a balanced budget on your desk that involves only reducing social security payments to the rich. If population increases, deductions also increase. As long as taxes aren't too low and enough money stays in the system, it will be a continuous loop with a decade of deficit here and there followed by a decade of surplus here and there depending on age distribution in the population. Just because it costs a lot doesn't make it unsustainable.
2/22/2011 1:12:25 AM
2/22/2011 1:27:07 AM
2/22/2011 1:32:15 AM
2/22/2011 1:45:26 AM
2/22/2011 8:47:53 AM
2/22/2011 11:32:16 AM
You mean what you posted in another thread? Surely you don't consider that a balanced budget, do you? You understand that the categories listed in that nytimes article are complete budgets for a liability and could not be entirely eliminated easily as clicking an X on a box.
2/22/2011 12:03:21 PM
$250k means so many different things based on where you live. $250k in Louisburg, NC goes a heck of a lot further than $250k in Los Angeles, CA. Add kids to the mix and $250k looks very, very different.
3/17/2011 10:52:57 AM
3/17/2011 11:31:35 AM
^^Living in an expensive city is, itself, a luxury.
3/17/2011 1:45:17 PM
I feel it's really about two things. The measure of financial freedom you have when you're not working and the type of work you do to earn that freedom.
3/19/2011 10:58:15 PM
What's the best way to expand the middle class?Change the definition.
3/20/2011 8:40:46 PM
Best way to destroy the middle class? A spendthrift Congress aided by a diabolical Federal Reserve chairman.
3/21/2011 12:09:57 PM
middle class is whoever the politicians pander to
3/21/2011 12:14:57 PM
middle class is any family with either one full time worker or two part time workers throughout the year. Many Americans do not satisfy this definition.
3/21/2011 12:17:28 PM
3/21/2011 12:30:46 PM
People have needs. Cities do not. If the high cost of living means no one is willing to pick up your trash at a low wage, then you will either learn to live without garbage collection or you will pay a high wage. There is no law of economics that says garbage collectors or store clerks must receive low wages.
3/21/2011 5:38:08 PM
there are several economic laws explaining why garbage collectors and grocery store attendants will always make comparatively less than other more skilled workers. they may make more working in NYC or LA than in other regions of the country, but it still amounts to a low standard of living. there's a reason why all cities have areas where apartments and houses are much cheaper than others; the city can't function without them.
3/21/2011 5:55:15 PM
3/21/2011 6:30:07 PM
To me middle class is around 60k.
3/21/2011 7:51:54 PM
3/22/2011 12:10:54 AM