will this thread ever die?
11/30/2008 11:58:46 PM
I agree with GoldenViper.It is very easy to fall back on "It's not a choice. It's genetic!" when dealing with the closed-minded because that's the only condition under which they will accept it, and then they can pity the poor soul afflicted with the gay.And, GV, people don't really get to choose their environment. So it still stands that most people don't choose to be gay in the same way that most people don't choose to be straight.
12/1/2008 12:00:05 AM
^ That is very true, but it still helps, IMO, to have good solid evidence.
12/1/2008 12:02:00 AM
12/1/2008 12:03:51 AM
^I still agree.
12/1/2008 12:11:32 AM
^^ culture can't dominate the accounts, I can't see how you're reading that in when the explicitly say otherwise.The first link specifically says most gays exist against a hostile background.And you should know just by living here, at least in any part of the US that's not San Francisco, most people are not going to be too accepting of gays, it doesn't make logical sense for culture to be the determining factor.Considering though it's difficult to prove empirically that people are gay at the age of 2, it probably won't be "proven" for a while that they're born that way. But you can tell from the accounts there that upon looking back on their preadolescent selves, it fits with their adolescent identity of themselves, which highly suggests it is an innate property.
12/1/2008 12:16:16 AM
12/1/2008 12:23:21 AM
http://www.springerlink.com/content/n518663m16636v1k/
http://www.springerlink.com/content/g82x8357418k2752/http://www.springerlink.com/content/trx634t761808391/http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6WMD-45MGSND-55&_user=10&_rdoc=1&_fmt=&_orig=search&_sort=d&view=c&_acct=C000050221&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=10&md5=c8251f48cc7387ba73b7796b4bbe3962
12/1/2008 12:35:48 AM
^ Something seems to have gone wrong. As you may have gathered from my reference to twin studies, I'm aware of studies showing some correlation between genetic similarity and homosexuality.Anyways, I answer your Google book with one of my own:http://books.google.com/books?id=YQX0cyzhTpcC&pg=PA83&lpg=PA83&dq=sexual+orientation+%2B+invention&source=web&ots=sZcCuxvcJI&sig=upfTSay3_Iil5XIXiOn-j4cxzTY&hl=en&sa=X&oi=book_result&resnum=1&ct=result#PPA83,M1Enjoy.
12/1/2008 12:44:20 AM
^ as I previously have said, I am not, nor have I been saying that it is genetic. The research doesn't really point that way, as most of the studies above note.
12/1/2008 12:45:52 AM
^ So which one of those many studies will tell me, as you asserted earlier, that it's not a choice?Le Vay's studies show only correlation. Identify as a homosexual could cause those differences, rather than the other way around.For further problems with Le Vay and the whole business, see here:http://books.google.com/books?id=0AMN4_xZJDsC&pg=PA206&lpg=PA206&dq=le+vay+%2B+correlation&source=web&ots=qYGA5j9NVE&sig=hPTGloQbOuU3E4seQKXD9DpqZfc&hl=en&sa=X&oi=book_result&resnum=4&ct=result[Edited on December 1, 2008 at 1:03 AM. Reason : It's a link war!]
12/1/2008 12:51:46 AM
^ all of them, essentially.The point of them is not to say "hey this is a choice" but they discuss different correlations and pathways that are things you can't actually choose.[Edited on December 1, 2008 at 12:55 AM. Reason : ]
12/1/2008 12:54:13 AM
^ That's shaky to say the least. But I don't mind being born a geek. (And no, I can't change. Even if I were thrust back into impossibility primitive times, this essential nature would remain.)
12/1/2008 1:06:08 AM
^ Not as shaky as your grossly unsubstantiated claim that it's mostly cultural/societal.Are you telling me that you can choose whether or not you're going to have an adrenal hyperplasia in your mother's womb? Because that would be a Nobel-prize winning revelation.[Edited on December 1, 2008 at 1:09 AM. Reason : ]
12/1/2008 1:07:33 AM
Sexual orientation has only existed for a couple hundred years. It's an obvious social construct.
12/1/2008 1:10:56 AM
^ Where should I send your Nobel prize to?I know at least 7 groups of researchers who would like to talk to you as well.and aaronburro just called me to tell you to stop stealing his shtick, only he is allowed to be annoyingly obtuse.
12/1/2008 1:13:33 AM
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12/1/2008 1:24:32 AM
If I am a black person in the 1800s, working in a field for no pay, etc., I am a slave.What stops me from saying "screw this, i'm leaving"? How hard would it really be for me to slip away in the middle of the night, and stop being a slave?By NOT doing this, and staying where I was, like most slaves did, then I am "choosing" to be a slave. Which I guess is technically true, but utterly meaningless to the issue of slavery.
12/1/2008 1:27:40 AM
Again, how is that like choosing or not choosing to engage to sexual activity?Old Kinsey seems to have had a solid grasp of the issue:This problem, is after all, part of the broader problem of choices in general: the choice of the road that one takes, of the clothes that one wears, of the food that one eats, of the place in which one sleeps, and of the endless other things that one is constantly choosing. A choice of a partner in a sexual relation becomes more significant only because society demands that there be a particular choice in this matter, and does not so often dictate one's choice of food or of clothing.Gays and straights only exist because we label them.[Edited on December 1, 2008 at 1:42 AM. Reason : Kinsey]
12/1/2008 1:30:28 AM
12/1/2008 5:21:33 PM
^^ I think we're discussing different things here...You seem to be distraught about the semantics of the words "gay" and "straight," i'm talking about the meaning of these words in the context of the studies that use them.The words themselves have no recognition innately of the spectrum of emotions that go towards defining sexuality, but that doesn't mean the words, when understood to represent thresholds, don't have a meaning. Most people can in fact reasonably and accurately lump themselves under the terms "gay" and "straight" and i'm sure there is a small percentage of people that float in between, but that's not what i'm talking about.Your propensity to lay on one side of the spectrum or the other is primarily out of your own control, which is what the studies i've posted clearly indicate.
12/1/2008 5:46:12 PM
12/1/2008 5:57:15 PM
12/1/2008 6:01:31 PM
Our knowledge of human sexuality has a long way to go. That's the take-home message, folks. Don't mimic us. Instead, avoid jumping to any firm conclusions.Now, back to the fun part:http://www.queerbychoice.com/[Edited on December 1, 2008 at 6:10 PM. Reason : propaganda]
12/1/2008 6:07:12 PM
So here's a question....should gyms like 'Curves' that are strictly for women, be prosecuted for breaking the law?
12/1/2008 8:20:05 PM
^ They shouldn't, and they wouldn't be, and if they were, I predict they would likely prevail in court.Just like eHarmony might have if they in fact had legitimate reasons to not accept gays. But instead, eHarmony CHOSE to settle by creating a gay website.
12/1/2008 8:54:58 PM
hey GoldenViper, just because YOU like to smoke a cock every now and then to prove to yourself how you're not part of the Great Western Patriarchal Oppression of All Things Vaginal ... well, that doesnt mean you're not still out on the far margin of human biobehaviornow, do homosexuals want a permanent relationship, and want to call it marriage, and have all the social/legal/economic rights? thats fine with me. i can think of no reason why they shouldnt.but if you're trying to tell me that gradients of bisexuality is a norm and exclusive preference of one gender is not -- I say thats just bullshit. all recent studies point to genetic link that causes some to have a predisposition towards homosexuality as a variation from the default of heterosexuality. If you insist on going AGAINST the grain of established scientific research, you'll need to come up with some REAL research -- not some Queer Studies Professor who writes longwinded prose about the etymology of the word "heterosexual"[Edited on December 2, 2008 at 2:43 AM. Reason : ]
12/2/2008 2:42:39 AM
^^They did have legit reasons...they hadn't done research on the subject....
12/2/2008 12:11:19 PM
^^ The idea of universal bisexuality isn't new or particularly revolutionary. After all, we can agree, I hope, that humans tend to like being touched, to having their bodies stimulated. Few people, if any, are myopic enough to enjoy only traditional heterosexual intercourse. Many other sex acts work fine regardless of parts. Anyone who likes these acts with people of one sex would also like them with the other. Nothing physical prevents this, but rather mental hangups. I strongly doubt anyone's born with such inhibitions. The whole idea of gender has to be taught. It's not strictly based on scientific criteria. Biologically, we've got diversity beyond the accepted binary. See Sexing the Body by Anne Fausto-Sterling. The research into sexual orientation does not support the mainstream view of sexuality so much as it takes this cultural understanding for granted. See The Mismeasure of Desire by Edward Stein for further criticism and philosophical explorations.
12/2/2008 2:59:42 PM
yeah, yeah, yeah. look... i read Ursula K. LeGuin when I was a teenager, too.but here you're going to need more than some queer "philosophers".so come back when you get some actual data.[Edited on December 2, 2008 at 3:23 PM. Reason : ]
12/2/2008 3:21:34 PM
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12/2/2008 8:12:35 PM
^ because if they're reasoning for not feeling comfortable is that gays are icky, then they are in violation of NJ's law.
12/2/2008 8:24:19 PM
Well I happened to go to mypartner.com and filled out a thing just to see...and there were questions asked that I can honestly say must be unique to the gay community...so clearly there are research items that differ.
12/2/2008 9:29:56 PM
^ actually, that doesn't "clearly" demonstrate that at all, I don't know why you would think that. You don't know what their algorithm is doing, or why, you only know what they are exposing to the user.And that doesn't really have any bearing on this issue either.
12/2/2008 10:41:46 PM