4 pages of madness

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" So let’s compare: a woman’s lust for attention versus a man’s desire to consume or waste things — something very manly indeed. Take throwing a sandwich in the street for example. Do you know what’s better than throwing a sandwich in the street? That’s right, throwing two sandwiches in the street. Now what if that sandwich cost twice as much as the first? What if you had to wait in line again to get it? I would probably still do it and I’m betting that most men would. But what if dealing with two sandwiches cost you your dignity, your job, and your soul? Women, of course, have none of those things — or at least don’t have 2 out of 3. That’s why when we change ’sandwiches’ to ‘men’ and ‘throwing them in the street’ to ‘getting any kind of attention from them’, we can easily draw the conclusion that women would do anything, and would stop at the destruction of nothing, for more of it. "

4/9/2008 1:28:22 PM

hahahahha, this kid is clueless

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"I don't get this I'm basically picking her over my ex, and I'm an asshole?"

YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING HER A FAVOR BY PICKING HER? ARE YOU THAT FUCKING SELF INVOLVED? ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS?

(for page 4)

[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 1:29 PM. Reason : 4]

4/9/2008 1:29:01 PM

ThePeter, dear, it's best not to copy shit off of menarebetterthanwomen.com if you want to be taken seriously

4/9/2008 1:29:10 PM

yea dude youre a piece of shit

4/9/2008 1:29:56 PM

haha, why would i post in chit chat if i wanted to be taken seriously

4/9/2008 1:30:14 PM

true

4/9/2008 1:30:30 PM

Oeuvre, like I said

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"She has started to make the choice to forgive me for my mistake and instead focus on the love she feels for me. She told me last night that her expressing this love is the best feeling on earth, and can overcome anything at all."

4/9/2008 1:30:31 PM

you should just slit your throat IMHO

4/9/2008 1:33:04 PM

how can she forgive you for something she doesnt know the whole truth about

4/9/2008 1:34:29 PM

This is why I hate romantics. They think that this intangible feeling of "love" can overcome anything in the damn world. It's just a feeling, an emotional reaction that lasts for a few moments and then disappears. You can't define your entire life by those terms, it's totally irrational.

4/9/2008 1:36:01 PM

The Judge, like I said

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"YOU LIED TO HER AND YOU HAVE NOT BEEN HONEST. SHE IS FORGIVING YOU FOR WHAT SHE KNOWS YOU DID TO HER"

Why tell her at all? Why tell only half? You could've just not said anything at all and that would've made you more of a man. As it is now, you're feel vindicated for your gf forgiving you although you essentially lied from omission. You're a weak son of a bitch.

4/9/2008 1:36:30 PM

so, lemme just make sure i've got all this straight:
1. you had sex with some random girl and possibly knocked her up (so you didn't use a condom and shes not on bc?)
2. you told your ex about hooking up with the random girl and she got upset, so then you started having sex with her?
3. you told your current gf about the first girl, but left out the part about possibly knocking her up and failed to mention to sober sex with your ex
4. you told your current gf you love her, because you thought that'd get her to forgive you quicker
5. you then became annoyed with the current gf when she was upset about your cheating, saying you've had a bad week and she should have been there for you...
6. you then sweet talked her into coming back over and then instead of the "making love" kind of sex that might have actually helped your relationship out, you got rougher with her... i mean, she was gonna cry during or after the sex anyways, but you just had to go and make it worse
7. now you're "allowing" her to call you her BF and basically feel like she should be grateful that you've "picked" her


did i miss anything here?

8. oh yea, I forgot about exposing your current girlfriend to a myriad of STDs that its possible that either of the other two girls have. (you should go get STD testing. cause shes REALLY gonna hate you if you gave her some disease, in addition to cheating on her.)
9. and then theres the fact that you're hurting a girl who is already emotionally vulnerable, because of her history of abusive relationships. lucky girl, shes in an emotionally, instead of physically, abusive relationship now

[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 1:40 PM. Reason : oops, misnumbered]

[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 1:42 PM. Reason : .]

4/9/2008 1:37:29 PM

where did evan go?

4/9/2008 1:37:31 PM

^^ pretty spot on. This guy is scum.

4/9/2008 1:38:48 PM

^^^ good summary of the thread but what happened to #8?

4/9/2008 1:40:31 PM

You guys make things seem a lot worse out of context

I don't know if that girl is pregnant or not, I've been making sure to avoid her, unfortunately, it seems my friend who was out at the bars with me that night went home with her friend and now they're hanging out, but I'm not going to be seeing her again hopefully


I was drunk the first time I fucked my ex, so its not like I completely made the decision to start that

I can't state enough how happy this relationship can and is making my gf. She's coming from a long history of depression, and you can't put a premium on her smile. She's a sweetheart.

4/9/2008 1:43:37 PM

Quote :

"This is why I hate romantics. They think that this intangible feeling of "love" can overcome anything in the damn world. It's just a feeling, an emotional reaction that lasts for a few moments and then disappears. You can't define your entire life by those terms, it's totally irrational."

no, i think they WANT to think that "love" can overcome anything.
it really can't. but then they feel bad thinking they must not love the person enough if they can't forgive them for whatever atrocities have been committed



^if you actually cared about her, you wouldn't have done this to her in the first place.
but, after doing it, your choices should have been to either
1. not tell her any of the shit you've done. cut all ties with the other girls. never do anything like this to her again. and basically be worthy of her trust.
2. tell her you're scum, and what you did (closure helps), and then end it.

[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 1:46 PM. Reason : .]

4/9/2008 1:43:42 PM

soooooooo.....if I get drunk and kill someone, i shouldn't be held accountable for my actions?

4/9/2008 1:47:04 PM

define "drunk"

4/9/2008 1:49:34 PM

I don't know how this thread got so negative, I'm being given some tough decisions to make and I'm right now going with being good with my girlfriend

4/9/2008 1:51:17 PM

hahaha, you put yourself in the decision to make these "tough decisions"
and have made a big mess of things thus far, it seems like

4/9/2008 1:52:06 PM

it has become negative because you are depriving a girl the ability to make a full decision herself by lying to her.

4/9/2008 1:52:54 PM

PAGING Amsterdam718

oh wait

...

4/9/2008 1:56:36 PM

(he is amsterdam)

4/9/2008 1:57:12 PM

I think right now is the issue of me trying to find an adult way to integrate my ex into my life in a mature fashion. I want to know how we are supposed to act now that she's kind of hinting at breaking up in June and what that should mean to me. I don't know if its a good idea to go to her place for lunch, so I didnt today

4/9/2008 1:59:48 PM

dude really? You hve no love whatsoever for your gf.

If you did... this is how your next conversation with the ex would go

"Look, it's been fun, the weekend was a mistake... I think it's best that we not talk to eachother anymore."

Most people can have friendly relationships with exes... you cannot... you sleep wtih them and cheat on people.

[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 2:04 PM. Reason : .]

4/9/2008 2:04:22 PM

I think the solution to that issue is to cut her off for the time being.
Obviously you can't trust yourself around her, so until you can you should avoid contact, so you don't put yourself in another one of these "difficult" situations.

4/9/2008 2:04:58 PM

But thats the thing, what kind of person would I be if I couldnt "trust myself around her". Thats avoiding the problem and not dealing with it.

4/9/2008 2:06:14 PM

If you avoided her, you would be a person who realizes that you two have a connection (but there are obviously reasons yall broke up, seeing as shes your EX) that will take time to dissipate, and you would avoid her until that time. For everyone's sanity and emotional wellbeing.

4/9/2008 2:08:22 PM

and for the sake of TDUB not getting another one of these threads

4/9/2008 2:09:47 PM

THIS THREAD IS USELESS WITHOUT PICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4/9/2008 2:16:41 PM

I just felt really shitty about this

4/9/2008 2:57:07 PM

why you bein a dickhead for?

4/9/2008 3:03:43 PM

All of a sudden the gravity of shit just hit me

I dunno I almost felt sick for a second

4/9/2008 3:04:26 PM

is that what I think it might be?



His conscious?

I really was beginning to think he didn't have one.

[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 3:25 PM. Reason : .]

4/9/2008 3:25:21 PM

Fuck, all of a sudden I feel so bad (no homo)

I'm really serious, all of a sudden my face is burning and my ears started ringing, remembering all this bad shit.

I'm really fucked up now. You all are going to be happy that I am but I've been through shit myself, I've had shitty relationships before and I've had my heart broken.

WTF

4/9/2008 3:36:40 PM

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"WOMEN AND DOING THE RIGHT THING "

oxymoron

4/9/2008 3:39:15 PM

do yourself a favor and break your ball of sunshine's heart one more time. Tell her everything. She probably will not be with you any longer, but at least you can move on.

And if she stays with you, you better worship the ground she walks on.

4/9/2008 3:39:19 PM

or at least find real people to listen to you. this would be much easier for you if you had a friend

4/9/2008 3:40:02 PM

I might need to see somebody, like a professional. For a second i was like fuck it i wish i were dead. Thinking about all the terrible shit, i cant even think of a good relationship, i've been fucking hurt, and now i'm doing it to her. Is that what this is all about? its acting out how i got my heart broken, subconsciously now i want to destroy her innocence.

4/9/2008 3:45:23 PM

^ No but that's an excuse to help make yourself excuse the fact that you lied and hurt someone... IF someone did it to you first, you morally equate it so as to make yourself the victim.


You can pay me and I'll let you sit on my couch and I'll talk to you.



(for real, this is amsterdam... talking about a therapist now)

4/9/2008 3:47:12 PM

well i promise that tdub is not the right place to take your real problems.

i think you know what you need to do

[gun][/head]

4/9/2008 3:47:50 PM

I swear to God, some of you people will believe anything

4/9/2008 3:51:25 PM

you're a fucking dick man, trying to trivialize this shit, i have people who have PMd me and really listened

you'd be surprised at how many people on this website actually are compassionate and insightful when that's what you need most

4/9/2008 3:54:25 PM

OK GODAMMIT

JUST PLZ TO MAKE

***THE JUDGES PERPETUAL TALK ABOUT MY EX GF AND CUMMING INSIDE DRUNK HO'S THREAD***

4/9/2008 3:55:56 PM

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"trying to trivialize this shit"

you did that when you made this thread

4/9/2008 3:57:36 PM

4/9/2008 3:57:42 PM

You know what, fuck it

Next few days I'm gonna get an alias and post a bunch of absolutely ridiculous bullshit and rile all you kids up over some make-believe drama. Just like this guy is doing.

[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 3:58 PM. Reason : You'll all buy it even though I just told you I was gonna do it. I mean, for fuck's sake]

4/9/2008 3:57:54 PM

postits

4/9/2008 3:58:42 PM

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"The Judge All American 2355 Posts user info edit post"

i think that would be a record for posts with an alias

4/9/2008 3:58:51 PM