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11/8/2007 9:57:05 PM

I haven't read it, but the quote's damn near unmistakable.

^^That's good. Keep on wif yo bad seff!

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 10:00 PM. Reason : redirect, dammit.]

11/8/2007 10:00:10 PM

i'm pretty positive mine is not

but i'm having fun in the meantime

11/8/2007 11:16:39 PM

11/8/2007 11:16:50 PM

she certainly is

11/8/2007 11:17:03 PM

why roll your eyes??

11/8/2007 11:17:15 PM

oh chembob

11/8/2007 11:18:24 PM

evlbuxmbetty

11/8/2007 11:18:38 PM

yeah why roll your eyes chembob

11/8/2007 11:19:44 PM

b/c chembob agrees w/ me

11/8/2007 11:20:29 PM

you know how i knoe youre the one

cause i just farted and the dog walked away and youre still here

that or you dont have a sense of smell

11/8/2007 11:20:31 PM

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"i'm pretty positive mine is not but i'm having fun in the meantime"

because that's only gonna end in heartache for the other party. and that's kind of low.

11/8/2007 11:20:47 PM

how is having fun in life a bad thing?

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 11:21 PM. Reason : whats the point of living if you dont have fun?]

11/8/2007 11:21:21 PM

you have no idea what my relationship is like

if anyone ends in heartache its gonna be me, i promise, i'm just putting it off as long as possible

pathetic i know

11/8/2007 11:21:29 PM

and plus, i'm not looking to get married so why dump a guy who is perfectly fine for just enjoying college with?

11/8/2007 11:21:56 PM

so did sonia use you for the dick?



come on chembob.... thats a good thing.

11/8/2007 11:22:09 PM

I'm just gonna go with the flow

11/8/2007 11:23:02 PM

11/8/2007 11:24:09 PM

no but when has that stopped me?

11/8/2007 11:24:19 PM

HOLY DRAMA BATMAN

11/8/2007 11:24:21 PM

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"She's gone! Oh my God, she used me. I was used. I was used! Cool! "

11/8/2007 11:25:44 PM

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"why dump a guy who is perfectly fine for just enjoying college with?"

As long as he's comfortable with the fact that it's not serious, whatever.

11/8/2007 11:28:54 PM

he is def. less serious than i am about our relationship

if that is possible or makes any sense

11/8/2007 11:29:55 PM

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"you have no idea what my relationship is like"

actually, i do have some idea, by virtue of knowing you and your bf

11/8/2007 11:30:10 PM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XaIGPlfH_rs

11/8/2007 11:30:14 PM

you do, and i am happy that we're all buds

but dont assume that he'll be the one left broken hearted, he wont, i'm positive

11/8/2007 11:31:26 PM

i was speaking in general, that's how it would go

but yea, i know why he won't be. but really, don't delay the inevitable. it will only hurt more.

11/8/2007 11:33:13 PM

wtf...some of the people on this site act like you have to marry the first or second person you date

and get married by like 23 or some shit

[Edited on November 8, 2007 at 11:33 PM. Reason : its mind boggeling ]

11/8/2007 11:33:23 PM

^you'd be suprised at most people's mentallities

11/8/2007 11:34:03 PM

everyone is different, my parents got married when they were 21ish

my cousins got married at 34

both marriages worked out fine as far as i can tell, i'm trying not to assume that i'll be like my parents

11/8/2007 11:34:39 PM

23 isn't that young, man...

11/8/2007 11:35:05 PM

it may not be young for you

it is old for some people, even people i know who are in school

i have friends who got married when they wer 16 (erm, i must say "yikes" to that tho)

11/8/2007 11:35:49 PM

I'm 23 and don't want to get married yet!

11/8/2007 11:36:42 PM

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"I don't really care either way"

wow, that's one marriage to last for the ages

11/8/2007 11:37:23 PM

And to answer the original question.

Yes, he is. Very much so. It's absolutely sickening how dopey in love we are with each other, how happy we make each other, and whenever we go on vacation, we get asked if we're on honeymoon.

11/8/2007 11:42:04 PM

^aw

11/8/2007 11:43:03 PM

23 is young. seriously.

"if/ when he's ready, he'll tell you

why are women in such a rush? i mean, he's with you now isn't he? that says a lot"

"In the meantime, just fucking enjoy your life."

Very much agree to these sentiments. Chill the fuck down wimmenz.

11/8/2007 11:43:29 PM

Ryan and I have a blast on our vacations and we both want the same thing out of life. It's awesome.

11/8/2007 11:50:55 PM

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""if/ when he's ready, he'll tell you why are women in such a rush? i mean, he's with you now isn't he? that says a lot"

It's not about rushing into marriage. It's about wanting to know if the other person is as serious about you as you are about them. So after a while, if I'm serious about things and you're going to play the "I don't know" card, then you aren't nearly serious enough about me to warrant the relationship continuing. There's absolutely no rush to the altar or some kind of need to take things that seriously at the beginning, but if you're going to use me (knowing you'll dump me later) just to waste my time, get the fuck out.

11/8/2007 11:54:29 PM

stop talking about this mess

11/8/2007 11:55:29 PM

^^Pretty much my sentiment.

11/8/2007 11:56:40 PM

she'll definitely do

11/9/2007 12:14:37 AM

I may "settle" one day


but right now... I'll be damned if I "settle"

11/9/2007 2:54:53 AM

I didn't read all this. I see no point in dating somebody exclusively if I don't see myself with that person ni the future. That isn't to say I only date seriously or that once I have a girlfriend I think she'll be there forever. I just don't see the point in going through all the bullshit of a relationship if she isn't at atleast a helluva prospect.

11/9/2007 4:31:15 AM

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"I'm 23 and don't want to get married yet!"

11/9/2007 5:02:57 AM

^^ agree

i'm not hearing wedding bells everytime i start dating someone, but the thought runs through my mind so that i know i'm dating someone worthwhile.

i would certainly "date" someone that i knew i wouldnt marry upon first looking at them, but i wouldnt get in a serious relationship with them.

i have no desire whatsoever to get married anytime soon but i also want to make sure i'm dating possible contenders for when the time is right

11/9/2007 8:57:22 AM

ill never settle. I'd rather be single then with someone whose not everything i think i deserve. And i'm not talking unrealistic standards either.

11/9/2007 9:20:38 AM

Yes my so is the one.

I got married at 23 and I don't think that was too young for me but I am aware there has to be certain commonalities that will hold you together and if those are not there then you should just have fun. I don't really see the need to be in a relationship anyway if you are not looking for the one. Be single, not attached (that is when the one seems to surface-out of the blue) so that you can do whatever the hell you want without bringing someone else into the decision process.

I really hope people don't stay in relationships not to be lonely and that is never a reason to get married either!!! That is a reason I believe most women and some men need to calm down when it comes to desperation for marriage.

I found the one and I love him! He was definitely only a friend before we started dating and I think that is what has allowed our relationship to be grounded. Foundations need to be laid and a fuck buddy is not that foundation. I think the thing that lets me know he is the one is that he has made me sooooo angry but I am able to get over myself because I have an understanding with myself that I will love him as much before being angry as I will be after. We are both people that are very loyal and know ourselves pretty well and that helps as well. We can separate ourselves from one another without fear of falling apart.

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11/9/2007 9:35:58 AM

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"ill never settle. I'd rather be single then with someone whose not everything i think i deserve. And i'm not talking unrealistic standards either."

loooooooooool

11/9/2007 9:42:18 AM

We went and got the marriage license this morning

11/9/2007 9:55:54 AM