bitches can be so stupid
2/21/2007 5:28:22 PM
2/21/2007 5:32:47 PM
2/21/2007 5:43:01 PM
2/21/2007 5:44:32 PM
Seriously.... would you really want to be married to this girl for all of eternity??[Edited on February 21, 2007 at 6:14 PM. Reason : ]
2/21/2007 6:14:04 PM
WELCOME TO MY FUCKING PAINFAMILIES FIRST IN MORMONISM - WAIT YOU LEFT THE FAITH, OMG WE MIGHT DISOWN YOU
2/21/2007 6:17:07 PM
speaking of mormonssome chased me down today , gave me a 10 minute speech (woulda been longer if i hadnt said im going to be late) , told me to pray so i can see the light, and then proceded to ask if they could have my phone number so they could follow up on my 'praying'. [Edited on February 21, 2007 at 7:39 PM. Reason : o]
2/21/2007 7:18:39 PM
skank, hello this is robster's wife and i am a member of the LDS faith. There are many topics flying around on this thread which i could clarify, but I'm just going to reply to your apparent frustration. It sounds as though she eventually decided she did want a temple marriage even though maybe at first it didn't seem as important or she thought you would be able to find interest in her faith. The temple is the house of the lord and HE wants everyone to enter. They must prepare themselves first.It is not a secret place it is a sacred place. I am sorry that things didn't work out with your girl as you thought they should. It sounds as though there were some communication errors and perhaps a change of heart on her part. I know there is a God who loves all his children and wants them all to be happy. I have found happiness with my "temple marriage" and i know it can last past this life and into the eternities. She wanted that and probably wanted that for you too, but you have your agency and she can't change that. (sorry for the lengthy response, but this is a topic near to my heart)
2/21/2007 7:57:47 PM
i don't mean to be offensive, but you people are silly...oh wait a minute, yeah, i did mean to be offensiveYOU PEOPLE ARE SILLY
2/21/2007 9:31:26 PM
2/21/2007 10:13:45 PM
2/22/2007 1:07:42 AM
2/22/2007 1:20:21 AM
Come Robster's wife, let us go down together. The information against this church is sufficient for my needs. Besides, we must remember that the church has become nothing more than philosophies of men mingled with scripture. As for you skankinande, I can show you all the tokens and signs of the priesthood, if you give me the day your wife went through the temple I can tell you her temple name and if I'm in a good mood, I can arange for an area that looks like the sealing room and conduct you guys through the cultish practices and seal you and your wife for all time and eternity.
2/22/2007 7:25:31 AM
go down where .. what are you talkin about?
2/22/2007 9:47:43 AM
I was waiting for your responses nutsmak. Pretty much I believe that she wanted us to happen but her parents and "leaders" have been dropping hints the whole time we have been together and it has been heightened by our impending marriage. If she wasnt still living at home then it wouldnt have been a problem but she was. I dont want to ever see her parents or any missionary again in my life. I think I am starting to deal with it, it just sucks that I had done nothing wrong.
2/22/2007 10:29:12 AM
2/22/2007 10:36:47 AM
Your right man, it sucks. Probably sucks alot for her though to, cause she most likely loves her family more than she does you ... just a guess ... and so her decision was not just about you and religion, but one of you and her and her and her family (not that they would disown her, but rather just feel dissapointed). Ill tell ya what ... even with my wife and I being the same religion, its hard enough to constantly work out little differences of opinion and become selflessly involved in a relationship... even with small differences in the "zeal" that one has regarding their religion, things can be hard at times. As you can see from my wifes post above she is much more "interested" in and zealous about beliefs, while I just enjoy the ride for the most part, because it does bring happiness to my life, but its not an active interest of mine. I just enjoy a "christian life", and thats what it comes down to for me.Even if she was willing to marry you, chances are it wouldnt have worked out. She would always have at least some pull towards the religion, and you would probably always feel a little bit out of place with things when family or church things came up.Maybe thats too honest for you, but its easier to take the pain now than later on down the road.[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 10:40 AM. Reason : .]
2/22/2007 10:39:28 AM
Nah man, she has had the full court press put on her. She felt as though her parents would disown her, she knew nothing of the religion but what she had been told. I would ask her basic questions about it and she had no idea. She was scared and very impressionable and is living under their roof. While we were in Raleigh she was a different person, I just hate she had to move home cause they crushed her spirit. Just because you have fallen into the trap robster doesnt mean everyone willingly goes.
2/22/2007 10:57:23 AM
So you wanted to be the influence on her religious decisions rather than her parents. You're way more intimately involved in the situation (obviously) but have you ever considered that she was making her own religious decisions - or was it extremely obvious that others were attempting to make them for her? I would encourage and teach my children to be married in the temple, but in the end it's their life. I'll respect their decision.I once broke up with someone I was dating for this exact same reason. We didn't even make it close to an engagement, we only dated a few months. I didn't get any leader/missionary/parental pressure. Heck, I just remember it hitting me one day... I thought about the path I was on, about it's logical conclusion, and I decided to change that path.[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 11:07 AM. Reason : -]
2/22/2007 11:05:31 AM
But the religion has an overbearing pressure on its members. My problem is the lack of free will that they teach, that and that everyone else is going to hell. If it was her then bravo, but you dont know her parents and the kind of pressure that they put on her.[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 11:09 AM. Reason : I wish I had cheated on her or something, that would have at least made it seem real.]
2/22/2007 11:09:11 AM
2/22/2007 11:09:49 AM
2/22/2007 11:15:31 AM
Sigh... this is why I don't believe in following a specific religion. In 2001 when I wrote my paper for Philosophy of Relion (3 out of 108 students got an A, I was one of them) there were 5,803 VERSIONS of the bible in ENGLISH ALONE. This of course is a version based upon other versions (generally) that are translated from hebrew that was written by monks who took stories from apostles (old guys) which had first account information about events (supposedly). Now lets look at this... That's like saying your Sisters, Brothers Cousin who knows a guy, that wrote down the recipe about a cake that some guy saw being made... You don't for one minute doubt the words that are in that book you read? The foundation for ALL religions is blind faith as a basis. I'm not saying the teachings are wrong, I'm not saying the point is not important... I'm saying that you should not view religion like this and quote the bible. That's like quoting Star magazine as fact. Openly admit that you agree with this lifestyle, not that "god told you to" or "the bible tells me to". Don't be a lemming... be an open minded individual.[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 11:29 AM. Reason : !]
2/22/2007 11:28:15 AM
2/22/2007 11:28:44 AM
lol i always get a good laugh whenever someone starts quoting the bible.... b/c just about everything in it can be contradicted by something else in it....
2/22/2007 11:34:25 AM
such as?
2/22/2007 11:46:38 AM
Every mormon I have ever known was a great person. My mormon neighbors bring over cookies and brownies often, and their daughter refuses to take money for watching our dog. Never will you a find people more scrupulous.[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 12:06 PM. Reason : O I SPELT STUFFZ WRONG LOL]
2/22/2007 11:49:05 AM
nevermind the fact that they're all raving lunatics
2/22/2007 11:57:31 AM
MORMON.IT IS SPELLED "MORMON".Christ.
2/22/2007 11:58:32 AM
^^^^ I really hope you aren't asking me for an example....the easiest and quickest is, "eye for eye", then "do unto others"there are many many more though[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 11:59 AM. Reason : ^^]
2/22/2007 11:59:35 AM
Yes, "they're all raving lunatics." What are you, then, if you actually believe that?
2/22/2007 12:08:52 PM
correct?
2/22/2007 12:09:23 PM
Oh, that's actually the wrong answer. The word I was looking for was, "ignorant." Good effort, though.
2/22/2007 12:10:31 PM
DOH!
2/22/2007 12:18:25 PM
2/22/2007 12:21:54 PM
can't we all just agree that god is dead? we're just going to rot in the ground when we die? its so much easier. no burden whatsoever!
2/22/2007 12:25:06 PM
well that's what's gonna happen to your physical body, definitelyrather you will turn into a slimy mush.... thanks to how people get buried nowadays inside super sealed boxes in concrete.....
2/22/2007 12:34:56 PM
In order for God to be dead, he had to be alive at some point. I'll be the first to say that I don't believe in God, but because I know and respect people that do, I can't jump on the "everyone that is religious is a bad person" bandwagon.
2/22/2007 12:36:30 PM
I guess you can look at it this way: be happy you didn't end up with someone that can't make up their mind, and whose opinion is easily swayed (meaning mostly by her parents). Better it didn't happen AFTER you got married....[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 12:41 PM. Reason : (]
2/22/2007 12:41:20 PM
2/22/2007 1:01:25 PM
2/22/2007 1:10:30 PM
you guys are taking all of this too seriously. Of course you will have hardcore mormons, like this guys girlfriend and her family, but you also have mormons who are mormons but dont really practice the lifestyle. They have sluts, emo kids, preps, and every other kind of clique you can think of. This guy just got screwed over by the girls family who clearly are hardcore.
2/22/2007 1:11:25 PM
2/22/2007 1:13:35 PM
On that note, would it be wrong if I posted nudes on our wedding site?
2/22/2007 1:16:55 PM
depends on your religion.....ZING
2/22/2007 1:19:36 PM
^^^ 2 for me
2/22/2007 1:23:06 PM
double post[Edited on February 22, 2007 at 1:24 PM. Reason : .]
2/22/2007 1:23:46 PM
Sorry for your loss, man, but it sounds to me like you're better off.Just be happy in the knowledge that when she dies, she'll realize that she made a mistake.Actually, she won't realize anything. She'll be dead.
2/22/2007 1:37:40 PM
Thats the one good thing about this, I will never have any regrets, all of that mess is on her end.
2/22/2007 1:40:08 PM
Raige
2/22/2007 1:41:31 PM