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"AHAHAHAHAHA. in what world? please to come back to reality."

are you serious? what then are real relationships about? maybe i'm crazy.

5/8/2006 11:16:24 PM

Most college students cannot spell relationship

5/8/2006 11:16:57 PM

that $109 could cover like 9 Quizno's lunches you fool

[Edited on May 8, 2006 at 11:18 PM. Reason : -u]

5/8/2006 11:17:08 PM

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"I usually dont do casual dating,i dont have time for that shit, so if I'm out with someone, it is someone i've decided that I wouldnt mind being around more"

Being around someone more shouldn't translate in having to pay all the time, that's my contention. It's nice to see someone reciprocate the generosity you've shown, and I think that shows a lot about someone's personality and the future you could have with someone, since we're not talking about casual dating.

5/8/2006 11:17:38 PM

god dammit, i was about to click post reply in this thread when my poker tournament popped up and I accidentally called an all in and lost, now Im out of it

there went $109

i'll post it here so the world can feel my pain/stupidity

^ I feel you, i was just saying most of the time, once it gets past the dating part it is different

[Edited on May 8, 2006 at 11:18 PM. Reason : .]

5/8/2006 11:17:45 PM

no good. where were you playing?

5/8/2006 11:18:46 PM

real relationships get sour after the honeymoon period.

soon, it will be about trying to keep your dick in your pants, trying to "compromise", trying to make it to the next day without pulling a fucking trigger while the gun is down the bitch's throat.

5/8/2006 11:18:51 PM

pokerstars $100+9 tourney

5/8/2006 11:19:10 PM

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"she also brought up another occasion where she had invited me to come eat dinner with her and her roomate and some friends for her roomate's birthday. we went out to eat at o'charlies and she said that she felt that it was weird that i didn't pay for her that night. "

hahahahahahaha so she invited you out to dinner and then go mad at you when you did not pay for her? i think kayne west wrote a song about her...

5/8/2006 11:19:31 PM

I call it the "esgargs' College relationship without sex for 30 days" challenge.

If you can pass that, I can hope for a glimmer of love.

5/8/2006 11:20:11 PM

Wow Abe...just wow.

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"but that hatred isn't working."

I don't hate you.

5/8/2006 11:20:32 PM

i didnt read the thread i just chimed in, but if that was me and the girl expects that shit and verbalizes that she expects it, then she is most likely immature or a gold digger and either way doesnt respect the guy at all



[Edited on May 8, 2006 at 11:39 PM. Reason : .]

5/8/2006 11:20:56 PM

THE HONEYMOON ENDED WHEN THE $12 QUIZNO'S TABS BECAME UNAFFORDABLE

5/8/2006 11:22:20 PM

^

5/8/2006 11:22:57 PM

I still disagree. The honeymoon ends when the girl throws her entire life outside of her boyfriend away and dissappears into seclusion with him for months and he gets irritated at her not having anything outside of him...then he stops showering her with affection because he knows she will be there and take her for granted and she no longer has an outside circle to return to to give him time to himself and that is when the honeymoon ends. Girls do this a lot and it pisses me off when they are like "But why doesn't he love me like he should?" Because you're forcefeeding yourself to him.

But, I repeat, some girls are not in it for the money.

5/8/2006 11:25:57 PM

well if he ever gets married make sure he signs a prenupt

ive heard divorces are slightly more expensive than submarine sandwiches

5/8/2006 11:26:02 PM

ok i just read it

dude

the point of the friends dinner thing was not truly that she wanted you to pay

it was probably that you did that shit in front of all her friends, i mean honestly, think about that shit, girls are all about impressing their friends, and to her you made her look bad

so that time I am 99% sure it wasnt about the money, more of the gesture, if that makes sense

5/8/2006 11:26:56 PM

pawprint, you're right in your own way...but it's not just the girls who are to be blamed.

Also, ever wonder that you're single just because you're not insane about the idea of a college relationship?

I frankly cannot understand being in a commitworthy relationship until I atleast have a career.

5/8/2006 11:27:49 PM

i hope to God this kid is using protection

pampers certainly cost more than a submarine sandwich

5/8/2006 11:29:51 PM

knowledge is wasted in this thread

time to move it to chit chat and truly let the trolls take over

5/8/2006 11:34:01 PM

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"pawprint, you're right in your own way...but it's not just the girls who are to be blamed. Also, ever wonder that you're single just because you're not insane about the idea of a college relationship? I frankly cannot understand being in a commitworthy relationship until I atleast have a career."

I know girls are not the only ones to be blamed. I have been single by choice since last summer. I go oout on dates and I usually pay or try to leave the tip. If I like the guy and he insists on paying, I will find some way to make it up to him...but I know that I used to be one of those girls who gave everything up for the affection of a guy and it's really just not worth it. You have to love yourself first. I am not really affected by the college relationship idea but it's nice if a guy has a job because it shows he is not LAZY and that he has motivation for his life. I could careless how much a guy makes as long as he is trying to enrich his life and make himself better.

Being treated to dinner is nice, I admit, but that's mainly because I am working 2 jobs and I'm still broke all the time and usually don't go out but it's not a requirement for my happiness.

[Edited on May 8, 2006 at 11:35 PM. Reason : and by "make it up to him" I mean cook for him or buy him someone small...not sex, move along.]

5/8/2006 11:34:50 PM

put it in premium palace

oh wait...

he wont be able to afford that either

5/8/2006 11:35:00 PM

See, you make sense there.

You don't have to be in a relationship just cuz it's cool to be in one.

5/8/2006 11:36:59 PM

i didn't read the whole thread

but

if you can't afford to pay for 2 lunches and switch off every once in awhile then why the fuck are you going out to eat?

and yeah you shoulda paid for her food in front of her friends

5/8/2006 11:38:50 PM

I can see paying for her in front of her friends just because society expects it....but if her friends opinions matter more to her than her own...well, we have a problem.

5/8/2006 11:41:14 PM

^ but there lies 75% of all women, to an extent

[Edited on May 8, 2006 at 11:43 PM. Reason : .]

5/8/2006 11:42:32 PM

why don't you guys just discuss the money issue before you go out to eat?

its as easy as saying "i'll get lunch today" and then next time you go out saying "its your turn"

if we're going out with friends josh usually pays for me, but then i always pay for him the next time we're out

we try to take turns, which i think is fair being that both of us are reasonably broke
also going dutch a lot of times is awkward so its easier to just switch off turns paying

5/8/2006 11:43:48 PM

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"if you can't afford to pay for 2 lunches and switch off every once in awhile then why the fuck are you going out to eat?"

why? because we enjoy each other's company and would rather eat together than not. i can't afford to pay for her because we meet up for lunch almost every day, probably a total of 25 times a month. that's a lot of money on top of the money i already spend on dates and other stuff.

5/8/2006 11:44:00 PM

Dude...If you fall for this shit and let her make you feel guilty now you'll be paying a maid's salary to clean the house you pay for while she sits on her ass and eats bon bons all day a decade from now.

I'm just saying.

5/8/2006 11:44:52 PM

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"actually i live in southern california and i drop like $150 on a typical dinner, or around $50 for lunch or brunch it's called getting a real job and spending real money if you want a real relationship"

He is being smart. If I had all the money back that I pissed away during my last relationship, I would own a rental property and maybe a boat. If your fucking stupid enought to regularly spend $50 on a lunch I wont dog you for it, I have been there. Truth is you may be a few months from realizing that you have nothing in common with her, shes attached to what you provide her, not you, and that she has to go.

Then in hindsight all those $50 lunches wont seem that baller.

If you enjoy eating expensive lunches, and enjoy the girl along as company then go for it. Just dont forget that a nice gesture is no longer a nice gesture once it becomes an expectation. If you build your relationship around wasting money on her then youre setting yourself up for failure.

5/8/2006 11:46:33 PM

^^^ try bringing a lunch next time


you should convince her to do the same

be like "im tryna save money so i can take you somewhere nice"

and then take her somewhere nice every once in a while

[Edited on May 8, 2006 at 11:51 PM. Reason : .]

5/8/2006 11:47:48 PM

This is why American relationships are so fucked up...or prenups are so common.

Materialistic society where people/women can't cook.

5/8/2006 11:56:39 PM

people can cook. it just happens that both of these instances they were meeting out for lunch.

5/9/2006 12:11:02 AM

^^^

ding ding ding

bring lunch! you want to spend time together? fine-- then it shouldn't matter if you're eating pbj from home or quiznos

get creative if you don't have money- i'm not hating on that but this who buys food situation sounds like its affecting the relationship when it shouldn't

what an easy way to solve such a simple problem

plus little picnic lunches are way more thoughtful and memorable

5/9/2006 12:33:01 AM

this is stupid.

5/9/2006 12:33:42 AM

straight guys do not do picnic lunches for their SO's. That's just isn't right.

Bringing a sandwich for her is different, but girls don't sit around and think or tell their friends "Oh man, that was soo sweet that time he brought me a sandwich to eat when we didn't go out for lunch!"

[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 12:41 AM. Reason : ex.]

5/9/2006 12:38:35 AM

obviously you've never had a guy try to give you special attention and impress you

seriously some girls have such low standards

[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 12:40 AM. Reason : sdsdf]

5/9/2006 12:40:02 AM

if you have to even stop and think about how to eat/arrange food, your relationship sucks.

5/9/2006 12:40:19 AM

she's 20, thats why

5/9/2006 12:40:42 AM

Only stupid bitches think picnics are memorable.

There's more to memory.

5/9/2006 12:41:32 AM

you guys are hilarious

i love how people with the least experience with the opposite sex are trying to act like authorities on dating

i guess we all like different things

i like attention and i date the guys who know how to give it to me

5/9/2006 12:42:57 AM

Oh yes, I've had guys try to impress me and be sweet, but picnic's aren't even a way to do it. I'd say 3 years with someone is pretty much the experience I need to respond to this thread.

Is there a rule "Must be this experienced to reply"?

As far as low standards, if it takes a picnic to swoon you-that's pretty low standards.

[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 12:46 AM. Reason : m]

5/9/2006 12:44:54 AM

i mean also that is your personal preference, but when I was 20 i probably thought it was stupid as a guy to do that

but the game changes when you get a little older

5/9/2006 12:46:04 AM

hahaha

hahahahahahaha

hahahahahah

i had a relationship for 3.5 years

i guess i win




i appreciate simple things and thoughtfulness

do you make your boyfriend buy you tiffanys before you'll suck his cock? sounds like an AWESOME sex life



come on bitch, this isn't a pissing contest

[Edited on May 9, 2006 at 12:48 AM. Reason : durrrrrrrr]

5/9/2006 12:46:59 AM

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"i love how people with the least experience with the opposite sex are trying to act like authorities on dating i guess we all like different things i like attention and i date the guys who know how to give it to me"

I love how people with the lease knowledge about someone's personal life are trying to act like authorities on their experiences.

I guess we all like different things

I like to call out bitches that make threads about hooking up with the new office buddy in the COM building right after being dumped out of an old relationship.

5/9/2006 12:47:39 AM

gargs is just having fun with everyone

5/9/2006 12:48:11 AM

One of my pet peeves is a twwer cocksucker (literally) acting like they know shit about me.

5/9/2006 12:48:50 AM

aww gargs thats such old news!!

doens't everyone know that this is what mcdanger is fucking now, champ?

durrrrrrrrrrrr

5/9/2006 12:49:11 AM

You stupid cunt, I'm not trying to out-do you. You win nothing. If you HAD a relationship for 3.5 years, you obviously lost on something.

Yes, it is all a matter of opinion, and I stated mine in saying that the picnic idea was a little dumb for people our age.

5/9/2006 12:49:39 AM

the fact that it's old doesn't make clear your record of not knowing who the fuck treats that open wound pussy of yours right.

5/9/2006 12:49:52 AM