Don't wait until Tuesday

Saturday night is date night

Don't call her until tomorrow afterrnoon, and then set something up for Saturday

I know you were trying to stray from a conventional first date, but a nice dinner and movie date Saturday is fine

But make it classy, and don't use your student ID for cheap tickets

Assuming all goes well, do your hockey deal Tuesday (tho I would argue that thats kind of a niche date and the majority of girls wouldn't be in to it)

The 3rd date is usually the date where you both kind of decide if you want to keep it going or break it off, so make sure you have all of your affairs in order

The 3rd date is also the one where people end up banging for the first time

But if you play your cards right, you'll end up banging Saturday night, and thus be one step ahead of the game

4/2/2009 10:09:32 AM

If they dont bang after the first date (or before) then i dont bother with a second or third date

4/2/2009 11:04:12 AM

Here's the ONLY thing that stands out at this point...she went to UNC (I know, I know)...so of course she wants to watch the UNC game on saturday. I'm pretty sure she was planning on going out with a bunch of her friends (1 of which will be one of my ex-gf's...we're cool though...she's the one that set us up kinda)

So I may end up going out with that whole group on saturday (if she asks me to come)...but it wont really be a "date"...

She's definitely into hockey...so i'm sure she'll enjoy tuesday night.

Maybe I set up a lunch date for saturday...and maybe meet up again for the basketball game that night...

[Edited on April 2, 2009 at 11:19 AM. Reason : .]

[Edited on April 2, 2009 at 11:26 AM. Reason : .]

4/2/2009 11:17:23 AM

I tend to avoid multiple encounters on the same day

You want to leave them wanting more, and you want them to have to wait a day or two to see you again

Seeing her a few hours later will reduce the demand since the supply appears to be so readily available

4/2/2009 11:23:11 AM

good point. hmm.

4/2/2009 11:25:53 AM

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"But make it classy, and don't use your student ID for cheap tickets"

hello, i'm your date. i like to pointlessly throw money away.

oh yeah and don't watch the basketball game with her. just hold out until tuesday. if you're an ncsu basketball fan, either you're going to be annoyed at all the unc fans cheering their team on for a final four victory or you'll be the ass who's happy that they lost. or you'll have to fake it all and that's a bad way to start a first date.

[Edited on April 2, 2009 at 11:48 AM. Reason : .]

4/2/2009 11:42:51 AM

why not do sunday brunch?

4/2/2009 3:23:16 PM

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"If they dont bang after the first date (or before) then i dont bother with a second or third date"

you're 24 and you still have this mentality?

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"don't use your student ID for cheap tickets"

i dont think there's anything wrong with that.

4/2/2009 3:50:33 PM

I wouldn't rush into things here man. I'd wait until Tuesday if I were you. If you happen to seem overly eager, that can send a girl running before you blink an eye. Plus, if you act like you are busy or you might be dating other girls, she'll probably want to see you more to win you over.

Once you get a couple dates in, then you can see her more often.

4/3/2009 9:12:36 AM

Well, I asked her what she was up to this weekend and she actually asked ME out tonight. I told her I'd let her know something around lunch time today.

4/3/2009 9:35:03 AM

Oh nice, as long as she asks you out then go for it. But you still have to make it a challenge for her to keep her interest!

If you go out tonight, I wouldn't see her again until next week sometime, possibly Tuesday's game.

[Edited on April 3, 2009 at 10:16 AM. Reason : )]

4/3/2009 10:14:38 AM

tl/dr whole thread, and it's Friday. Always next week

But, on Wednesdays you can go to Red Room off Glenwood Ave. They have a deal every Wednesday where you get a 4 course meal with a different glass a wine for each, and it's 20 bucks a person. 40 bucks for 4 glasses of wine each, 2 tapas, 1 main course, 1 dessert. I haven't done it, but my sis and her bf have gone twice and love it.

Also, agree with jazz.

4/3/2009 5:48:20 PM

You people think too much about dating. Just hang out doing stuff you both enjoy, and everything should fall into place. The best boyfriends I had didn't require 'dates'- we hung out, ate some dinners together, and eventually ended up in bed when the time was right, and became a couple shortly after that.

4/3/2009 5:58:01 PM

It seems that easy in a females mind, but unfortunately it's not.

4/4/2009 2:20:35 PM