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8/16/2008 6:50:32 PM

yes
especially this year since it was 10 years ago that i was dumped
i thought he YES he was the love of my life and often wonder if he turned me into a total dyke
i think not, since when i was with him i was thinking about women but it still makes me wonder about him. i dont know exactly what happened to him like if hes married or has kids and i dont think i ever want to know.
half of me still loves what we had back when and the other half despises him

10/10/2008 7:48:45 PM

so really you are bi.

10/11/2008 5:25:06 PM

tomorrow would have been our 1 year anniversary. lost her real early to her ex-fiance, then another guy.

they all fuck up and im still around, a special person to her, but one that she's convinced wouldnt fit with her. im the one who knows her habits and knows how to treat her right.

we fight so much because she thinks im too committed, but she joked as recently as a month or two ago about us getting married still. i just need to find someone else and let things go on their course.

gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

10/11/2008 10:08:30 PM

Yep, every day. And I probably will until the day I die.

I do.

I do, but after it's all said and done I stopped beating myself up over it. I don't think either of us knows what happened. Ultimately we ended up being awesome friends.

I don't regret it at all. She's part of the reason I am who I am today. I dont think I could ever repay her for that. I still love her for that very same reason.

I'm trying to get over her, and trying to stop missing her since she's moved away, so no I wouldn't want to bring her back. If she came back on her own, that would be a very different (and highly unlikely) story.

I couldn't compare her to anyone, that wouldn't be fair.


Because they'd never live up to her

10/12/2008 3:01:38 AM

no i dont think i am bi

10/12/2008 6:23:58 PM

^^

nick, are you referring to the girl you were going out with when you still had the white mazda.

[Edited on October 12, 2008 at 9:39 PM. Reason : d]

10/12/2008 9:38:56 PM

You ever think about them? yes

Keep in touch? one keeps in contact with me, the other no (year+ relatioships in both cases)

Wander if things could/should have taken a different turn? nope!

Regret? not at all - I learned things from each relationship

Wish you can bring them back? def. not - MUCH better apart

Compare with current partner? n/a, single

10/12/2008 10:17:17 PM

^^ That would be the girl I wasted 3 years of my life on. That is definitely not the one i'm talking about here.

10/12/2008 11:29:10 PM

If I wasn't married I'd probably play the "what if" game more often. But I'm happy that everything steered me to the place I am now, so I can't really have too many regrets. They can't compare with my husband.
I get curious about what happened to everyone, not just exes. If they e-mailed or something I wouldn't ignore them, but I'm not going to go out of my way to say anything.

10/22/2008 8:59:40 PM

You ever think about them?

Well sure. They are a part of my past. There will always be thoughts. Albeit not frequently.

Keep in touch?

I do with one of them.

Wonder if things could/should have taken a different turn?

I used to.

Regret?

Not at all.

Wish you can bring them back?

Nope.

Compare with current partner?

The girl I'm with now is the girl of my dreams. I wouldn't compare her with anyone. She'd blow 'em out of the water.

10/23/2008 11:02:47 AM

-You ever think about them?

Yes. Not very often though.

-Keep in touch?

I talk to one of them occasionally.

-Wonder if things could/should have taken a different turn?

No.

-Regret?

No.

-Wish you can bring them back?

No.

-Compare with current partner?

Nope.

11/9/2008 4:40:02 AM

I have no interest e being involved romantically with anyone I dated in the past. However, my first two relationships were with people who I considered to be my best friend before we took things to the next level. Honestly, I regret that because I miss our friendships. One in particular I wonder about frequently and have in the past tried to contact, only to find that I was the only one who moved on from the break up and wanted to be friends.

11/25/2008 8:25:23 PM

You ever think about them?
My first "love"...I think about him only when I'm bored or thinking about how lucky I am now to have my current boy.

Keep in touch?
We went for a year without speaking. I felt like things were ended rather....awkwardly...so I called him one day and just said that I forgave him and hoped he forgave me..for all the mean stuff we did to each other. Kinda wished him the best and that was that. He wanted to chat and I didn't. Then he would call me randomly...once a month or once every other month. Then one day I got an IM from him saying he got what he deserved...apparently the girl he dated after me dumped him and refused to do the whole long distance thing...(which I never understood because I was the one who didn't wish to continue our dating when he moved away but put up with his poor behavior for two months before finally calling it off..) but anyhow, after that I told him I didn't know why he called because it did make me feel strange, like dredging up the past. He hasn't called since.

Wander if things could/should have taken a different turn?
I think it's funny you put "wander" and then said "taken a different turn"...ahaha.

Regret? I regret being so jealous over him while we dated but I realize now it was simply my own insecurities with me glaring through. I am thankful we didn't date any longer than we did because I don't feel like it was very healthy. I DO REGRET GIVING HIM MY NCSU BLANKET TO USE. I asked for it back a few times and sent all his stuff back but for some reason, he still has it.

Wish you can bring them back? Not at all. I saw him out one night over Christmas break a few years ago...I was actually hanging out with a guy I was dating(hi chris!)...and I left quickly so I wouldn't have to do the whole awkward conversation.

Compare with current partner? No comparison. Totally different people and situations. I do realized what love is now instead of obsession.

[Edited on November 25, 2008 at 9:33 PM. Reason : .]

11/25/2008 9:29:11 PM

Its always good to stay classy when dealing with exes. It is also a good thing for your current GF/BF to see that you are civilized by nature, not by circumstances.

11/27/2008 4:51:33 PM