2nd time a charm?

4/9/2008 4:41:21 PM

im married to my ex

4/9/2008 4:41:56 PM

4/9/2008 4:42:12 PM

it really depends on the breakup, how you feel

in the end results are going to vary, you could get back with her and have everything be peaches and cream, or it could turn into a shit storm

it all depends on the bitch

if she crazy as hell, you should probably leave her alone

if she isn't(not likely because shes a woman), well you should probably still leave her alone but at least there is a chance of it going well

4/9/2008 4:44:04 PM

4/9/2008 4:45:38 PM

well she is a woman so there is some level of built in craziness. everything would be OK if the old girl and new girl were down with each other. i mean, hef makes it work with 3 bitches. i figure i could get away with 2?

4/9/2008 4:50:19 PM

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"everything would be OKawesome if the old girl and new girl weregot down with each other"

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4/9/2008 4:52:01 PM

My ex and I had a horribly amicable breakup. We actually still live together for now (financial stuff on my end), and I pay him rent. Some weeks, I'm hardly there, and some weeks, I'm there a fair bit.

Neither of us would take the other back. Ever.


There are so many reasons for you to not take your ex back, but if you want to...well, it's hard to stop someone from making stupid decisions.

4/9/2008 4:55:50 PM

i dunno why everyone is telling him it's a bad and or dumb idea ...depends on the situation...

I've had friends get back with their ex and everything has been working out fine...you need to figure that out for yourself though...

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[Edited on April 9, 2008 at 5:30 PM. Reason : d]

4/9/2008 5:29:15 PM

i would like to know how many happily married couples who have never broken up at one time or another.


and for the love of god, stop making generalizations about relationships! what worked for your relationship won't necessarily work for others.

i've been in two off and on relationships. the first one lasted about a year too long, but i think that is common in "first love" instances. we didn't quite hurt each other the first time, so we came back in for the kill several more times. i am currently back together with a recent ex, and i feel like the break did us good. i know our friends think we have a weird thing going on, but whatever, i know i want to be with him and everyone else's opinion is pretty moot. do whatever is right for you.

4/9/2008 6:13:50 PM

thats sound advice

4/9/2008 6:18:40 PM

yeah thanks for the advice. last night i made a list of 18 things i need in a woman and i figured whichever woman had more of what i wanted i would pick. so i add it all up for new girl and old girl and what do you know, they tied at 15 of 18.

4/10/2008 9:04:12 AM