go inside and take a number2
12/27/2007 8:47:10 PM
all i have to say is..HHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA[Edited on December 28, 2007 at 1:56 AM. Reason : d]
12/28/2007 1:55:45 AM
...lift with the legs?
12/28/2007 1:59:43 AM
12/28/2007 2:05:44 AM
12/28/2007 2:40:59 AM
I sir, am a fucking chode. I always open doors for my wife. (along with removing and putting on her jacket, pull chairs out, etc.)
12/28/2007 2:46:43 AM
i just dont get it...i mean to me its a waste of like 20 seconds...all over a door? is she lazy? is she weak? is she cripple(not your wife, rhetorical questions)...i dont see how opening a car door is being respectful? i'd respect her more if she would open the door on her own and not wait(or hope) for me to do it
12/28/2007 2:49:47 AM
Just the traditional "gentleman" behavior. I figure like this, with all my crap she puts up with.. along with her possessing the vag and the ability/willingness to carry and birth a child... it's 20 seconds of my life I'm willing to sacrifice.Plus to me, it feels so pimp walk her over to the door and open it, etc... then walk over to my side like "Yeah ladies, your man doesn't do this for you."
12/28/2007 2:53:21 AM
12/28/2007 2:55:10 AM
Well regarding car doors, she opens her own door to get out. I was referring to her getting in.
12/28/2007 2:55:59 AM
i mean i see your point, just in my opinion there are better ways to be a "gentlemen" than that...i'm one of those people that likes to be efficient...so when i insert my key and unlock all the doors, i expect her to promptly open the door and sit in the vehicle...i never even thought people actually did that in real life to be honest...i figured they just did it in moviesidk i guess maybe i should start doing it...maybe i would and some chick would think to herself, "i'm gonna give him a bj cause he opened a car door for me"i will say this...i'm am the ultimate door holder like going into buildings...i always hold the door for people...to me thats being courteous
12/28/2007 2:57:10 AM
12/28/2007 2:58:02 AM
oh ok, for some reason i thought we were opening the door to let her out of the car.i guess i open it for her because i don't have power lock, but i don't usually wait and close it, that feels childish to me
12/28/2007 2:59:57 AM
all i know is i automatically do not want a female that thinks this is respectful or wants a guy to do this
12/28/2007 3:01:20 AM
12/28/2007 3:02:41 AM
If she EXPECTS it, she can walk.If she appreciates it, that's okay with me.
12/28/2007 3:03:04 AM
idk, i guess cause i'm like the nicest most courteous guy i know, i feel like i shouldnt have to open a car door on top of how nice i am...but the holding a door open thing is common decency..i always say thank you when someone holds it open for me, and always say you're welcome when they say thank you...i hate when people dont say thank you......does your wife say thank you when you open the door for her? do you see any added benefit other than she thinks you are nicer than most guys?[Edited on December 28, 2007 at 3:05 AM. Reason : ^true...if she asks me to i guess i would but dont just expect me to do it]]
12/28/2007 3:04:54 AM
i always open the door for my girl.here's a pic of her.
12/28/2007 3:07:13 AM
She always says thank you... which I find to be pretty awesome. As far as the benefits, I guess at this point, it just helps to reassure her that she married the right guy (on top of everything else). But really, it's something to impress in the dating stages then becomes a behavior I've held up. I've always believed that when it comes to relationships, people should start out how they can hold out. In other words, dudes that give flowers, etc every other day and buying jewelry for every monthly anniversary... usually screw themselves over cuz they can never keep that up if the relationship goes long-term. Granted, the relationship should be about more than that... but you're just setting yourself up for the "But you used to..." conversation later.Sorry for rambling.
12/28/2007 3:11:25 AM
well i guess if i let her know that i dig girls that open car doors on their own because its something i consider to be a dumb thing to do, hopefully if she digs me she will understand...its only fair...girls want equality well there it is
12/28/2007 3:12:57 AM
Hey, everyone is different. I've met ladies that hate a guy that tries to be all "gentlemanly" and want to open their own doors, don't like getting flowers, etc. But if you lay your cards out from the beginning, I think you'll be in good shape. That way you'll be sure to avoid opening doors for ladies against your will.
12/28/2007 3:15:17 AM
true...you seem pretty wise
12/28/2007 3:16:02 AM
12/28/2007 3:17:07 AM
RIP
12/28/2007 3:18:59 AM
12/28/2007 4:48:53 AM