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11/15/2007 12:25:30 PM
In all honesty... if I see a guy and he's cute and i catch him checking me out, I just say "hey there" smile and walk on... if he likes me, he can pick up the convo, if he doesn't he can walk on. If he likes me and is chicken shit not to continue the convo, I wouldnt care to talk to him anyways cause I like that are outspoken and confident... I like being verbal to people and I am not afraid of expressing my opinion good or bad.
11/15/2007 1:24:12 PM
11/15/2007 1:26:36 PM
honestly... what is the worse a person would do to you.. surely they wouldn't kill you (i might but thats beside the point) A freindly hi or smile can always have potential for more [Edited on November 15, 2007 at 1:29 PM. Reason : sdf]
11/15/2007 1:29:18 PM
yeah, but this is one of the many reasons that women help objectify themselves. anyway lets do lunch k?
11/15/2007 1:30:26 PM
this is what happened to me walking into foodlion about 30 minutes ago[Edited on November 15, 2007 at 1:30 PM. Reason : .]
11/15/2007 1:30:41 PM
when i am at the lake i always avoid eye contact with females because once i make eye contact and speak i never see them at the lake again (jk )
11/15/2007 1:31:49 PM
the first step into becoming a non-pussy, is when they give eye contact, just give the head nod. it gives them the impression you arent a complete pussy ass nigger, and are somewhat outgoing.
11/15/2007 1:33:11 PM
i try not to look or stare because i dont want to come across as creepy or OMFG RAPIST or anything like that
11/15/2007 1:34:55 PM
i just give a slight wave/nod combo, and if she gives me any kind of reaction 7 times out of 10 she best be ready to talk to a stranger
11/15/2007 1:35:06 PM
Can't we look around without it being questioned?!?! GAH!!!
11/15/2007 1:35:17 PM
^^^[Edited on November 15, 2007 at 1:35 PM. Reason : .]
11/15/2007 1:35:20 PM
11/15/2007 1:37:00 PM
honestly the older i get the less i care about my hair
11/15/2007 1:38:03 PM
Threads like these make me want to stop saying "Hey" to a lot of poeple that I walk by. If someone is looking at me or we are walking by one another, I always say "Hey" or something along those lines. It is completely non-interest based and nothing but being friendly.
11/15/2007 1:38:54 PM
dnl, let me tell you a secret - appearance means 99% of everything, don't the old 'looks don't mean anything' ruin your life.
11/15/2007 1:39:40 PM
11/15/2007 1:39:42 PM
i just am too shy to talk to a random stranger...i only like talking to people i have a reason to talk to
11/15/2007 1:40:06 PM
I'm surprised no one has told DNL that it's because he looks like a trout.
11/15/2007 1:40:09 PM
We can see where this came from Sorry Josh I had to do it... so LOL ok?
11/15/2007 1:40:19 PM
aaaaaaaaaahaahahhahahahha that picture is awesome
11/15/2007 1:40:48 PM
hahaha
11/15/2007 1:41:49 PM
I don't think its just you or your age group DNL... It seems to me that the majority of guys that end up speaking back and even saying "How are you?" (To which I reply, "Good, how are you?") tend to be older men - like 30+.
11/15/2007 1:45:14 PM
do you get more looks when you wear full body camo?
11/15/2007 1:46:15 PM
most people don't mature into adults till about 26+[Edited on November 15, 2007 at 1:46 PM. Reason : especially women]
11/15/2007 1:46:34 PM
ESPECIALLY WOMEN
11/15/2007 1:47:13 PM
hot girls are intimidating to younger guys. they think oh i'd never have a chance with her, but just don't know she is waiting for anybody to say anything to her, and thats why you see lame guys with hots chicks all the time, because they said something to her when she needed someone to speak to her.
11/15/2007 1:48:20 PM
you kids are sadits easy to talk to womencause they're peopleand, like most people, they're insecurethey won't shut you down unless they're with a group of their bitch friends trying to front like they're cool
11/15/2007 1:49:03 PM
Yeah.. I am with Bethaleigh... I like to say hello to pretty much everyone... I just enjoy talkin to people that are outgoing... Alot of people that shy away from a friendly convo I wish would open up or not be so uptight... Life is too short to stay closed up... You never know what people you meet might actually be your best friend or your hunny dew
11/15/2007 1:50:11 PM
^^ haha that quite funny but truejust hollar at the next hot chick you see and watch your charm bedazzle her[Edited on November 15, 2007 at 1:50 PM. Reason : asdfa]
11/15/2007 1:50:16 PM
11/15/2007 1:51:02 PM
Dude, we took a break during the afternoon Saturday while we were hunting and went into the nearby town to the Wal-Mart for a neck warmer (ate lunch while we were there) and I was, of course, in full camo. I know that women hunters are not all that common, but damn! People act like they have NEVER seen it! So, yes, I get more in full camo. But I was talking about like times when I go to the grocery store or gas station.
11/15/2007 1:51:42 PM
this may sound conceited but sometimes i deliberately dont look at a hot broad just so i hope it makes her feel like "man he didnt look at me, i must be ugly"...that way i win
11/15/2007 1:51:58 PM
ha ha thats funny.. I know a lot of guys are prolly like that... oh man the games we "say" we dont play
11/15/2007 1:54:10 PM
11/15/2007 1:56:06 PM
as a rule of thumb, don't ask for the number within the first two sentences of talking to a white girl - this really creeps her out unless you are bill gates or brad pitts[Edited on November 15, 2007 at 1:57 PM. Reason : asdfa]
11/15/2007 1:57:41 PM
I'm too shy to really just approch a guy I don't know, so I hope they make the first move, and if they don't then I really don't pursue it any further. Its frustrating because any of my friends would tell you I never shut the hell up, but when it comes to meeting new guys I have nothing to say.
11/15/2007 1:59:19 PM
you are just scared you are going to have to fuck
11/15/2007 2:01:20 PM
thrillercan i get 'dem digits?[no rape]
11/15/2007 2:02:35 PM
thrillercan i get 'dem digits?[no rape on the first date]
11/15/2007 2:03:10 PM
I mean... I am pretty sure it all has to do with a person's security. I think I am somewhat fairly secure with myself. If I say hey and they shoot me down, then you think i will say hey again? nope but i wont cry about it. Once a person comes to grips that they aren't all that to everyone but are all that to some people, then making eye contact wont be an issue with people...I think more confident people will make eye contact, Asshole self conceited and riteous people will ignore eye contact and those that aren't confident will look down...
11/15/2007 2:05:16 PM
I might get in trouble for saying this, but I've found the best way to talk to someone you just met, is to force yourself to not care about how the conversation goes. For whatever reason, it works. But I'm a natural introvert and it is work for me to talk to people I don't know, it doesn't come naturally.
11/15/2007 2:06:07 PM
one other factor is that 9/10 a girl has a project going or has a man. and 9/10 if they do they won't cheat or its hard to get through to them.
11/15/2007 2:06:47 PM
squirtcan i get 'dem digits?[no rape]
11/15/2007 2:07:01 PM
i'll be honest...within 5 seconds of seeing any broad i think in my head if i would do her or not
11/15/2007 2:07:03 PM
just treat them like normal ppl instead of pieces of meat... talk to them in a friendly non creepy way and see how it goes, might not go at all, or might go very well.. either way it's not going to go anywhere if you dont try
11/15/2007 2:07:56 PM
i thought that was natural.
11/15/2007 2:07:59 PM
appearance, dnl, appearancebetter keep your hair cut or at least brushed, lol
11/15/2007 2:08:21 PM
11/15/2007 2:08:44 PM
only thing about this is that its kind of, i dunno, hard/odd for two people to be walking opposite direction then one turn around and get the other to stop and talk
11/15/2007 2:09:50 PM