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Str8BacardiL
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Page two says you are.

6/10/2007 10:57:08 AM

Seotaji
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i think most people are assholes, including me.

what you did is nothing worse than what other people are doing to each other.

your wife needs to get a grip.

6/10/2007 11:42:26 AM

RattlerRyan
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I joke with my friends all the time, but for christ's sake I don't tell them I have cancer to get a rise out of them.

6/10/2007 2:32:26 PM

Wolfpacker06
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Not an asshole.

Your wife needs to get a sense of humor about it. I bet she doesn't have brothers.

In fact, I will donate $10 to leukemia research if she has brothers, because if she did then she would understand.

6/10/2007 9:38:16 PM

hooksaw
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"you probably had already cemented your status as an asshole long before this incident took place"

6/11/2007 12:40:17 AM

Pred73
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^^ My wife does have a brother, but he's nothing like me. He's the more sensitive type. Or as I like to call him, a big soggy vagina. But if you still want to spot leukemia reseach the sawbuck, you'd be doing some good.

6/11/2007 10:14:53 PM

ncsuamyk
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so how do you know he's not messing with you this time?

6/11/2007 11:19:05 PM

Pred73
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I visited him in the hospital. He's telling the truth.

6/11/2007 11:22:04 PM

ncsuamyk
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i'm sorry that sucks. hopefully he'll recover.. leukemia isn't the death sentence that it used to be.

6/11/2007 11:57:29 PM

JennMc
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Honestly, when people are sick, they really want people to treat them normal and not dwell. I have also been on the receiving side of the joke and speak from experience, he knows that you did not believe him at first and was joking. Honestly, your friend most likely is not dwelling on it, so you should not dwell either.

Take the family dinner at the hospital or gift cards for food. If he has family staying at the hospital with him, it gets expensive quick and you often forget to take care of yourself.

6/12/2007 11:30:25 AM

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"^ Oh, I am an asshole no doubt. I just don't think I was under these circumstances.
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If you define yourself as an asshole, you probably were being one in this circumstance.


If the guy had joked about having potentially-fatal medical conditions before, then you're not an asshole.

If he hadn't joked about that before, then you're an asshole.

6/12/2007 11:45:53 AM

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