Since nobody has said it yet, high school parties are just as debaucherous as college parties, if not moreso.

Apparently, we're okay with people of the same age having drunken sex together, but it's totally outrageous when there is an age difference. Drunken sex is what it is, and it's not always pretty.

8/27/2006 10:58:28 PM

here here!

8/27/2006 11:02:45 PM

It's his house so he can do whatever he wants.

8/27/2006 11:39:03 PM

Yep.

8/27/2006 11:40:18 PM

I think you did the right thing. I mean, technically you were "contributing to the delinquency of a minor" by having high school chicks drinking at your house. If that girl had screamed rape the next day you would be wrapped up in their problems.

When I came to college one of my roommates used to let his little bro and their friends come up to Raleigh every once in a while and get crunk. No fucking way would I have let one of my friends fuck a 16 or 17 year old in my house regardless of the law.

8/28/2006 12:43:07 AM

For page two:

One of my closest friends is two years younger than me. When she was a junior/senior in high school, and I was a freshman/sophomore in college, she always came out with me. Nobody ever considered her age, and she always seemed to fit in. I think there may have been a few times when she felt uncomfortable, but I was always drunk so I never noticed. Maybe there were some people, talking shit, like, "OMG, I can't believe she brought that high school girl." But whatever, she was fine. Partied with me all the time, had a few boyfriends, and managed to keep her pants on until she went to college.

She's the coolest girl out there...

8/28/2006 1:17:21 AM

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"but I was always drunk so I never noticed."

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"managed to keep her pants on until she went to college."

8/28/2006 9:15:25 AM

i was thinking the same thing

8/28/2006 12:34:28 PM

im pretty sure NC law is that 16 is consent age IF other party is w/in 4 yrs, else 18

i dont feel like finding the GS, someone more motvated help pls.

8/28/2006 12:44:50 PM

Oh Jealousy...

I would only kick them out because it was my couch. The rest is immaterial and you were just being protective and possibly jealous.

Who cares is she's drinking and having sex at 17? You obviously encourage the former and it sounds like she's down with the latter. So there's nothing inherently wrong with what went on except that it was your couch.

8/28/2006 1:19:55 PM

^you are a fucking idiot. So what happens if he did let things go its course, they did have sex, and then she woke up the next day regretting it. Tells her parents or whoever. Not only would the fact that she was drunk make it rape, the fact that she was drunk would throw her "age of consent out the door". And without her consent, given her age, her parents could have then pressed charges b/c she was under 18.

So this all goes down, guess who the next person to face charges would be....Brass Monkey

And since he is a college student in Raleigh, NC, the RPD would have thrown every charge possible at him too. From nuisance party, underage drinking, contributing to a minor, unlawful sale of alcohol, and so on.

Yeah jealousy haha good one. You've got to realize that all a girl has to do is tell the cops that she said no or that she felt forced into it and a guy is truly fucked whether she was all over someone's dick or not. His word against hers and They could ruin your life pretty quickly.

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8/28/2006 2:15:03 PM

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"4 or 5 years difference is nothing. [anecdotal] I'm 4 years older than my wife, and my dad is 8 years older than my mom. [/anecdotal] shit like that is very common. "

that has nothing to do with spookyjon's comment. he didnt mention the age difference.

shit, my parents are 17 yrs apart, so do you think it is cool for a 33 yr to have sex with a 16 yr old, beyond the legal implications?

8/28/2006 2:18:58 PM

^^IF you believe drunken hookups and/or underage drinking are bad, then you've got an argument.

But her age is immaterial since she's of legal consent age in NC.

It would have been rape no more than if two adults get drunk and screw.

If they were at the "offending" dude's house there would be nothing wrong with this.

8/28/2006 2:41:15 PM

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" so do you think it is cool for a 33 yr to have sex with a 16 yr old, beyond the legal implications?"

Sure, as long as it's consenting, I see nothing wrong with it.

8/28/2006 2:51:21 PM

^be goddamned if I do.

If she ain't AT LEAST 25, I ain't touchin' it. And that has to be a mature 25. I'd actually prefer 28-33 myself. I'm now 35 (but I admit, I don't act it).

8/28/2006 3:16:13 PM

whats it matter, it was your place, you have the right to kick them out regardless

8/28/2006 5:02:56 PM

1) Kick the guy out.

2) Do the high schooler.

8/28/2006 5:06:46 PM

8/28/2006 9:24:38 PM

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"Sure, as long as it's consenting, I see nothing wrong with it."

One day you'll have a daughter and some creepy 35 year old will try to hit it.
She'll be all naive and stupid like all the other 16 year olds.
Some dude that you think is a total loser will start calling her and bringing her gifts.
He'll drive a shitty car and have a cheap haircut, but he'll have a crappy job that gives him more money than most 16 year olds.
He'll buy her stupid shit and take her for ice cream whenever she wants it.

And you'll be like "fuck no, get the fuck out you creepy loser."

8/28/2006 9:56:38 PM

I think you did the right thing. I mean, I can say I went to a few NCSU parties when I was 18. Of course, I was of legal age and technically I had graduated high school, but I still wasn't in college yet. I did hook up with a couple of guys after parties. However, we always went back to his place. I think it's fucked up to hook up with someone at someone else's house. I mean, damn, do you have to spread your horniness all over someone else's house?

Oh and what was their reaction when you kicked them out btw? I hope they didn't get pissed? I bet they were shocked when you went in and busted em up...wtg .

8/28/2006 10:26:53 PM

yadda yadda yadda cock block yadda yadda yadda

8/28/2006 10:40:39 PM

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"Sure, as long as it's consenting, I see nothing wrong with it."

so then what is the low point in terms of age for you?

b/c i know in high school i wasnt mature enough to intelligently make that kind of decision

8/28/2006 11:38:51 PM

For me, it's whatever is legal. Obviously, this is all hypothetical for me since i'm married now. There's no line that can legitimately apply to everyone.

For some people it can be very young, for others it can be very old. Some 14 year olds are more capable of handling the repercussions of being sexually active than some 21 year olds. You can't know how sexually mature someone is till after you've had sex and have to deal with them afterwards.

Hypothetically, i would sleep with a 16 year old if the opportunity presented itself, but I would not date someone that young. I'm not the type to equate sex with love and feelings and all that jazz.

8/29/2006 12:00:12 AM

So who did she go home with?

8/29/2006 12:40:21 AM

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"^^IF you believe drunken hookups and/or underage drinking are bad, then you've got an argument. "

I am not arguing whether i think either is bad, I am arguing that b/c of the situation Brass did the right thing. What that guy at his party was doing could have led to big problems for all of the parties involved. And the fact that she was a minor and drunk and unable legally to consent to sex just makes things worse.

Hey maybe this chick is a slut and goes to parties every weekend and hooks up on couches.....I dont know and don't really care. All i am saying is that it only takes one time for one chick to say she regretted/didn't remember/didn't want to have sex with some dude and whether or not that was the case or not that guys world would be turned upside down.....


There was a topic about this last semester i believe where some girl slept with some dude at a party and she said he raped her. It was also said that she basically just regretted having sex with him and that is why she said it. Just not a situation you want to have any involvement what so ever with. Not something i want going down at my house.

8/29/2006 12:43:11 AM

if she would have screamed rape later or gotten preggers he'd have been in a LOT of trouble.

he did the right thing, but maybe she deserved a good drunk fuck and wake up crying

8/29/2006 1:11:41 AM

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"im pretty sure NC law is that 16 is consent age IF other party is w/in 4 yrs, else 18"

16 is the absolute age of consent. No limitations at all.
The 4 year rule kicks in at 13 or 14.



Her: age 13-15
If you are less than 4 years older, everything's fine.
If you are 4-6 years older, class C felony.
If you are more than 6 years older, class B1 felony.

Her: age 16+
Go to town on that.

As long as she's not drunk.

http://moraloutrage.net/staticpages/index.php?page=Northcarolina

[Edited on August 29, 2006 at 1:34 AM. Reason : ]

8/29/2006 1:27:36 AM

AHA, 1 and KeB don't have enough close friends to know what it means to be close.

KeB, if you're confused about what I'm referring to, check the seventh or eighth post on this page where you agreed with 1 that I've been so drunk that I've completely missed the past six years of the lives of my friends...

8/29/2006 2:42:14 AM

damn, remind me not to go to Brass Monkey's parties

8/29/2006 7:58:30 AM

16 is the age of legal consent in NC, so you were worried over nothing.




Personally, I think it was a pretty douchebag move. UNLESS, you were trying to tap that for yourself and needed him gone. But yeah, if you allow underage drinkers at your party then I don't understand why you have a problem with it... Drunk sex is a great thing, and most of it isn't rape.

It's only when girls realize the guy wasn't "HOT AS FUCK" the next day then press charges that it is rape.


Again, that was a douchebag move.

8/29/2006 8:34:23 AM

I think its only cockblocking if one of your boys was getting it on and you stormed in as Captian Chastity. If its some random dude on your couch then kick his ass out. Fuck that noise, I woulda done the same even if the chick had been older.

8/29/2006 10:09:44 AM

Regardless of the "cock block" aspect of the story, I'd be damned if I'd let someone make me feel uncomfortable while in my own home. You have the right to tell people to stop doing shit or leave no matter what it is... whether its walking with their muddy shoes on your carpet or raping an underage intoxicated girl on your couch.

8/29/2006 10:16:25 AM

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"random dude on your couch"

All random couch people should be outside with the doors locked before you pass out.

8/29/2006 10:28:51 AM

I would have been more worried about the diseases they leave behind.

8/29/2006 4:42:50 PM

shit I don't like to mess with girls that are under 21

8/29/2006 6:26:06 PM

If you're worried about getting involved in a rape case, you might also want to protect your ass from facilitating underage drinking as well. Aside from that, I would have kicked them out of my house. They can make babies on their own time.

8/29/2006 6:35:17 PM

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"I think its only cockblocking if one of your boys was getting it on and you stormed in as Captian Chastity. If its some random dude on your couch then kick his ass out. Fuck that noise, I woulda done the same even if the chick had been older"

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8/29/2006 9:06:27 PM