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Gøldengirl
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There is no ex I would want back except my 1st bf. He's my best friend and we have talked about getting back together lots of times.

but no one else.

8/11/2006 3:24:14 AM

joe_schmoe
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he just wants some familiar sex on the nights he can't get no strange.

8/11/2006 3:33:01 AM

hunterb2003
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sadly there is one

8/11/2006 7:37:31 AM

MrUniverse
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surprisingly if i had to only pick one girl to ever date again it would be my first serious girlfriend from HS

8/11/2006 8:10:37 AM

Crede
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I hear emo music is good for this type of stuff.

8/11/2006 8:45:59 AM

DROD900
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Quote :
"negative ghostrider"

8/11/2006 8:49:07 AM

Deshman007
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8/11/2006 8:51:57 AM

Crede
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"If you so strongly hate someone you once dated, it sure doesn't say much for your ability to make a wise decision, now does it? (Refering to why you wanted to date in the first place.... understandably, hind sight is 20/20)

Why would you have dated someone in the first place, if they really are a bad person?

The only exception I can think of is someone who put on a front to get with you, then turned psycho."


People change. Expectations change. Honeymoons end.

[Edited on August 11, 2006 at 9:02 AM. Reason : .]

8/11/2006 8:56:16 AM

Arab13
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meh, either way really...

have some interesting prospects currently...

^ rather people don't change, while usually good can also not be good

8/11/2006 9:19:07 AM

abonorio
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hahahahahahahahaha... um no. I did a HUGE upgrade.

8/11/2006 9:19:56 AM

Crede
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People most definitely change. We just don't want to accept that 99% of the time.

8/11/2006 9:34:38 AM

Arab13
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true, that would be the cause of most breakups I suppose, especially in this age range...

8/11/2006 9:37:17 AM

josephlava21
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waaaaaaah, i want my ex back, waaaaaaaaaaaaah, in my beer

8/11/2006 9:52:05 AM

tartsquid
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I can say with 100% certainity that I would not date either of my exes again, even if I were alone because of it.

8/11/2006 9:54:05 AM

CPKontalonis
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I miss having sex with a lot of my exes. that's about it. I'm sure they miss it, too.

8/11/2006 10:08:32 AM

Stiletto
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If you'd asked me about two months ago, I would say "yes".

At present, no, I do not want my (most recent) ex back.

8/11/2006 10:14:30 AM

bassman803
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i wouldnt go back to my ex, if only because we've come too far after the breakup to really have another meaningful relationship without any weird feelings


i'd rather be alone the rest of my life than downgrade, though....i think the past two years pays testament to that fact

8/11/2006 10:14:50 AM

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I don't want any of mine back

life is good


but there is only one of them that I'd ever date again if it came down to it

8/11/2006 10:16:22 AM

chillinman
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there are a few that i would definitely date again, all of my relationships ended on good notes, meaning they are still my friends that i still talk to on a fairly regular basis

how can you just never talk to someone again after being so close? that person is now part of your history and believe it or not they had an affect on you that helped shape you in some way.

dont burn your bridges, you never know when you might need to call on that person again for whatever reason

8/11/2006 10:37:10 AM

Crede
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Not that I want any of my exes back but because I burn every single bridge I've crossed when it comes to relationships it wouldn't happen even if I did. And I like it that way.

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"how can you just never talk to someone again after being so close?"


Because you have to let go after a while and stop being so close. Let it die.

[Edited on August 11, 2006 at 10:40 AM. Reason : .]

8/11/2006 10:40:08 AM

BobbyDigital
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I guess that's the only way to handle it if you are too emotionally insecure to handle being friends with an ex.

8/11/2006 10:51:37 AM

Crede
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I'd really like to beleive one can remain "good friends" with an ex after they break up but I've never seen it truly happen in the long run.... it's always just one long and drawn out release of each other that ends sometime after you make a thread about wishing to get back together with your ex and sometime before you realize there is a lot of life to live and a lot of other people out there. I'd prefer to sever things sooner rather than later and get on with my life. Guess that makes me emotionally insecure.


[Edited on August 11, 2006 at 11:06 AM. Reason : .]

8/11/2006 10:57:18 AM

BobbyDigital
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You can do all of that and still remain friends with the exes, obviously not in every case if the ex never gets over you, but I've only got one such ex out of 6 serious relationships.

Hell, I had 2 exes at my wedding.

8/11/2006 11:15:48 AM

slackerb
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^^Yup

[Edited on August 11, 2006 at 11:16 AM. Reason : ^^]

8/11/2006 11:16:08 AM

Stiletto
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Wasn't there a thread about being friends with exes?

Something about "only after you're fucking someone new"

8/11/2006 11:23:22 AM

TJB627
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"The only exception I can think of is someone who put on a front to get with you, then turned psycho."


That's definitely what happened with my last girl, girls are crazy, B.

8/11/2006 12:19:04 PM

slackerb
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There's no sex like ex-sex.

8/11/2006 12:29:26 PM

Deshman007
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^HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

8/11/2006 12:30:34 PM

ncsuGALxcPaC
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1.) Dated when I was a freshman in high school and he was a senior in high school... then when I was a freshman in college and he was a senior in college and then on and off a few more times... If I was single and he wasn't in MD, I would probably date him again. geez.

2.) No way in hell. Cheater and a liar.

3.) Nope. Nice guy, but we ended for a reason or 12340197417 reasons.

I am dating the best guy I have ever dated now though. So it's all good. Sorry for all the people who want their ex's back.

8/11/2006 12:34:46 PM

Crede
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"You can do all of that and still remain friends with the exes, obviously not in every case if the ex never gets over you, but I've only got one such ex out of 6 serious relationships.

Hell, I had 2 exes at my wedding."


Great, good for you. Turns out that you are the exception to the rule. Encouraging people to remain friends with their exes (because it apparently has worked for you) while they are still not confident in themselves and are even viewing their past as a "mistake" is very detrimental advice. You're giving a lot of people false hope. For every BobbyDigital there are 50 guys who keep hope that their ex will get back with them and struggle to maintain some sort of friendship with the ex in order to chase that hope. Note the title of this thread, it's not "WHO IS FRIENDS WITH THEIR EXES" it's rather a call for someone to step in and say "It's over man, move on." I wish people would have said that to me much sooner in the past so I could have moved on a lot quicker.

8/11/2006 12:46:50 PM

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the pattern is full

8/11/2006 1:01:57 PM

MinkaGrl01

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^

I am happy with where I am and with who I am wiith right now that I can't think of going back and dating my exes.

The guy I dated in 05 was the worst boyfriend I could ever think of for myself. Not only would I not date him again but I will never date actors again because of him.

[Edited on August 11, 2006 at 1:07 PM. Reason : ]

8/11/2006 1:03:47 PM

Wolfpacker06
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I don't want any of my ex's back...the pattern is full...if you know what I mean

8/11/2006 1:05:16 PM

LRlilDaddy
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breaking up on bad terms is childish. if you hate your ex that is probably because you were young

8/11/2006 1:47:29 PM

Str8BacardiL
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I dont hate my ex, I wish her well in finding someone else to torment.

8/11/2006 2:08:52 PM

dagwood
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I want my money back! She can burn.

8/11/2006 3:40:00 PM

blasphemour
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i would take an ex or 2 back. or at least hit it for ol time sake.

8/11/2006 3:43:58 PM

Jeepman
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i'll have to pass on my ex's. my current gf is much better than they were

8/11/2006 3:49:24 PM

susie Q
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I wanted my ex back. I got her back. Now she's in my kitchen fixing my dinner. It's good to be back

8/11/2006 9:43:24 PM

Crede
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YOU LIKE GIRLS?!?!?!?!?!!?!!

8/11/2006 9:49:25 PM

susie Q
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8/11/2006 9:55:16 PM

Crede
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^ fosh. But watch out for the homophobia in sports talk.

8/11/2006 9:57:51 PM

humanlitesho
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My ex was still in the beta stage of testing. I prefer the complete release version.

8/11/2006 11:58:11 PM

bgmims
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I probably could be friends with my ex no problem, but her boyfriend keeps getting pissed when I remind him that every time he kisses her, its like he's licking my asshole...cause his bitch tossed my salad

8/12/2006 12:28:57 AM

bgmims
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Susie Q, something just isn't right about your girlfriend. Is she....black?

8/12/2006 12:31:25 AM

TheLoveTool
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"NCSUWolfy, I've noticed in your elaboration on the definitions of upgrades and downgrades that you tend to view people in static states. Maybe that's the source of the problem? Nobody is really a permanent upgrade, and nobody is really a permanent downgrade, except my really hot girlfriend whose ass is a total upgrade from my last girlfriend's."


I have to agree with this. I would say I want my ex back, but she has changed since then. If she were the person she was when we broke up, then I'd want her back, but in her current state, I have no desire to date her. People change, whether its the ex or you.

8/12/2006 3:54:06 AM

budman97420
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Paging GaniteBalls yet again

8/12/2006 3:56:13 AM

pawprint
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This thread is a good way to break up your current relationship...on purpose or by accident.

"Look at this thread I made on TWW baby!"

8/12/2006 11:02:44 AM

Kiwi
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Why would I want an upgrade when I've already got the best?

8/12/2006 12:22:56 PM

nastoute
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we're not dating, kiwi...

are we?

8/12/2006 12:25:54 PM

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