shoot him in the pinky toe and go elope
2/12/2006 6:53:25 PM
dude, maybe he's also really looking to see how you act when asks you a question. if/when you disagree with him, just don't be a smartass to him. probably natural for him to still want to be protective of his daughter, whether it's misplaced or not.
2/12/2006 6:59:15 PM
2/12/2006 7:05:16 PM
so i guess no one has real facts
2/12/2006 7:10:53 PM
i guess it's kinda hard to have facts about all the people not killed accidentally
2/12/2006 7:31:21 PM
There are no real facts in regards to this issue. It's too heated and all studies will have some bias.It's your house, your decision.
2/12/2006 8:19:34 PM
could you pick an apple off your gf's head?
2/12/2006 8:49:21 PM
durr, sure a guy breaking and entering isnt innocent, but are you gonna say that shooting him is fine if you feel even remotely threatened. im sure it isnt a black and white issue when it comes to getting charged. i bet if you killed some 15 year old who broke in to steal some booze there'd be a bit of interest there.either way equating breaking and entering to shooting someone (especially without warning) is ludicrous.
2/12/2006 9:15:11 PM
^ whose house are you casing right now
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2/12/2006 10:17:55 PM
^ Ding-ding! We have a winner.
2/12/2006 10:22:28 PM
Indubitably
2/12/2006 10:30:28 PM
i appreciate the effort here.but this is more the type of stuff im looking for.
2/13/2006 12:21:24 AM
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2/13/2006 7:45:28 AM
okay well she first better be trained to use the gun. A gun in an untrained person's hands is usless. I also believe that having a gun in the house is fine. I have some where I live and if someone tried to break in i would shoot them. However if its in the day time in North Carolina you can not just shoot a someone for breaking into your house. They have to have shown a weapon and you must feel your life is at risk. At night time you can shoot anyone who breaks into your home because they are considered armed and having intent to hurt you. This of course is only in applies to whether or not you might go to jail. The person's family can still sue you in civil court. best option is to just call cops and avoid confrontation.
2/13/2006 8:51:06 AM
2/13/2006 10:09:58 AM
http://www.thewolfweb.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=307166That is about the only statistic I need for keeping a gun in my house. I have heard plenty of stories similar to that one (actually carrying the gun as a deterent rather than a knife). Of course, I live in Fayettenam...so I gotta watch my back, B.[Edited on February 13, 2006 at 10:25 AM. Reason : s]
2/13/2006 10:22:11 AM
Mr Grace,I don't normally post on TWW (long time reader though). This is a hot issue for me though. My best recommendation would be to read "The Bias Against Guns" by John Lott. It is a dry read (I didn't make it through more than half of it) but it has real research/numbers to back up the rhetoric. Obviously, this book is not objective, but it probably has the kind of TRUE information you're looking for. Also, I found this website http://www.johnlott.org/. It looks like you can sign up for a username/password and download some of the data.Hope this helps,Mike
2/13/2006 11:31:26 AM
As much as anecdotal evidence is worthless, it may be worth bringing up the point that by the time the cops arrive, most crimes have already been commited and have been over for quite some time. When this happenedhttp://www.thewolfweb.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=271785it took the cops 45 minutes from the time we called them to tell them bullets were comming through our windows to the time they arrived. And they had a substation 10 minutes down the road. From that experience, I personaly would not be too keen on waiting for the cops to come to my aid when someone has broken into my home.
2/13/2006 12:12:27 PM
2/13/2006 12:38:01 PM
^ I'm not sure if you meant burglary, but the definition of robbery is taking something by force.^^ Calling the police is a must when stuff like that happens, but I agree a firearm and training is a good insurance policy in case shit hits the fan.[Edited on February 13, 2006 at 12:56 PM. Reason : .]
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2/13/2006 3:38:54 PM
but that is the beauty of nc lawyou can shoot someone that breaks into your house without warningbecause then they will be dead so there is only one side of the story that gets told[Edited on February 13, 2006 at 8:43 PM. Reason : .]
2/13/2006 8:42:44 PM
excuse me mr. burglar man, could you please.... BANG your dead
2/13/2006 8:52:00 PM
"put your hands in the air, and leave my house"
2/13/2006 8:55:12 PM
you can do that if you wantbut nc law allows you to shoot if you want[/discussion]
2/13/2006 8:57:22 PM
2/13/2006 10:43:00 PM
That'll learn 'em.
2/13/2006 10:47:01 PM
Excerpted from the North Carolina, Concealed Carry Handgun Training Manual, Published by the North Carolina Justice Academy, Written by Inst. Steve Johnson:1) North Carolina Common LawUse of force to protect a person(1) Justified Self-Defense A citizen is legally justified in using deadly force against another only if: (a) The citizen actually believes deadly force is necessary to prevent an imminent threat of death, great bodily harm, or sexual assault and(b) The facts and circumstances prompting that belief would cause a person of ordinary firmness to believe deadly force was necessary to prevent an imminent threat of death, great bodily harm, or sexual assault, and(c) The person using deadly force was not an instigator or aggressor who voluntarily provoked, entered, or continued the conflict leading to deadly force, and(d) Force used was not excessive - greater than reasonably needed to overcome the threat posed by a hostile aggressor. (2) Duty To Retreat Before Using Deadly Force Unless and exception such as those listed below applies, a citizen must retreat before using deadly force if retreat is possible.ExceptionA. There is no duty to retreat before using deadly force if the assault threatens imminent death or great bodily harm - a murderous or felonious assault or sexual assault.ExceptionB. There is no duty to retreat before using deadly force if the victim is on his or her own premises, or on his or her business premises, or is at home. (4) Deadly Force in Defence of OthersA Citizen may intervene and use deadly force in defence of another person when, under the facts and circumstances, it reasonably appeared necessary to save the other person from imminent threat of death, great bodily harm, or sexual assault but only to the extent the other person was entitled to use deadly force in self-defence.(5) Deadly Force MAY NOT Be Used: (a) To Stop a Simple Assault.The exact point in time a simple assault becomes deadly is often unclear. Repeated blows to vital body areas, choking, continued beating on a helpless or weakened victim, are some indicators.(b) Because of the Use of Violent Language § 14-277.1. Communicating threats.(c)] Because You Are a Victim of Past Violence and Fear Future Violence(d) Because a Trespasser Refuses to Leave(e) To Arrest a Criminal or to Prevent a Criminal's Escape b. Use of force to protect propertyThe law does not permit the use of deadly force solely to protect property, or to preventtheft, or to regain stolen property. An owner CANNOT shoot at a thief - before, during, orafter a theft. The same rule prohibits deadly force to prevent injury or vandalism to property. A different rule applies if life is imminently threatened at the same time property is taken. Deadly force used to prevent an armed robbery is force used to protect life, not to protect property.
2/14/2006 12:11:38 AM
I look at it from an economic point of view.For the intruder, it's risk vs. reward. Every job has risks associated with it. Construction workers risk falling off a building, electricians risk being electrocuted, etc. If your job is breaking into houses to get free stuff, you risk getting shot by the homeowner. If you are not prepared to take that risk, get a new line of work. For the homeowner, if you wake up in the middle of the night and discover someone is in your home, you have to make certain assumptions about the intruder. Is he a petty thief trying to steal your $20 VCR, or is he murderer that intends to kill you and your family? How the homeowner acts in that split second can make the difference between life and death. I believe it is in the homeowner's best interest to assume the worst and act accordingly. If he was indeed there to harm you and you killed him, then you have just saved the lives of yourself and your family. However, If you falsely assumed he was only there to rob you, then you have just put your family at risk. The key is that you do not have time to determine the intruders intentions before taking decisive action.
2/14/2006 1:47:21 AM
^Well said
2/14/2006 6:58:59 AM
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2/14/2006 7:40:53 AM
Haha there are plenty of women who are very good with guns and if they own them they should have proper training/experience with them. There are the idiots out there who do buy a gun and never use it and have no idea how, but in most cases they take the time to learn to use it and would be just fine.I didn't read the whole thread but the general idea seemed that you didn't think guns should be present in the home at all. I apologize if that is not the case. Still, breaking and entering into someone's home is a threat to the safety of the people there and anyone who does that at all should at least be threatened with a gun. Then, if they don't leave or if they have a weapon they are threatening the safety of the people in the home and it is perfectly reasonable to shoot them right there.
2/14/2006 8:51:29 AM
***Josh8315 pulls a gun on an intruder***"Put your hands in the air, and leave my house""OK. OK, man, don't shoot."***intruder put hands in air, slowly walks towards door, then bolts into another room******Josh8315 can't/won't just shoot him in the back....******the intruder evades Josh8315 long enough to pull their own gun******a gunfight ensues******Josh8315 thinks to himself***"Damn, I should've shot him in the knees when I had the chance."***Josh8315 is shot dead, raped and robbed. In that order.***
2/14/2006 9:13:57 AM
2/14/2006 9:34:32 AM
The women I have seen at the range are pretty hardcore.
2/14/2006 12:31:49 PM
you should ask about his feelings teaching your future son how to hunt or somethingto like test the waters and stuff
2/14/2006 12:36:49 PM
^^^dick cheney knew how to use a gun huh?
2/14/2006 12:46:18 PM
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2/14/2006 1:08:34 PM
the probability of any of these situations is astronomicalstop being so god damned paranoid
2/14/2006 1:10:19 PM
i asked theduke### to comment on this so we'll see whats what. a marine would know how to use a fucking safely and correctly better then myself or anyone else in this thread.
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