10/6/2009 4:28:34 PM
I got to Page 5, got bored, and decided to fast forward.I was not raised as a member of any religious faith. Mom and Dad used to goto church a long time ago, but by the time I was born they had abandoned religion.They never tried to make me go to a church, or read any holy books. To this day, we've never had a discussion about my faith/beliefs, or theirs, but I don't think there would be any surprises or ill feelings on either side.
10/6/2009 4:35:22 PM
d357r0y3r, just want to say good for you. It's tough to do that for some people. My parents don't care either way, even though they're religious (though very liberally so). They joke with me about it sometimes, etc, but honestly nobody in my family has ever been mean to me or treated me differently. That's probably partially because they like to pretend it isn't true, but it hasn't ever caused any issues.
10/6/2009 5:04:09 PM
http://www.thewolfweb.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=578263
10/6/2009 5:07:53 PM
10/6/2009 8:47:19 PM
Just remembered, I actually have an on topic comment After my parents divorced (as my mother was moving her things out no less), my grandmother told me right there that she thought it was brought on by lack of church going.When writing cards to me, my grandparents always remember to write something about Jesus... I'm atheist. I hate being dishonest, but I really don't know what there is to gain by telling them.
10/6/2009 9:51:14 PM
You would be a man proud of who he is.
10/6/2009 10:42:37 PM
Oh god you sound like oprah telling a fattie that she's beautiful... His choice has nothing to do with being proud or not... It makes him a pragmatist and a normal person
10/6/2009 10:53:04 PM
Read through page 9 so far. He're my story: I didn't have to surprise my parents that I'm an atheist. It was obvious given that they took our family to church every week for 18 years and I never cared to join or get baptised. I don't know if my extended family noticed, but I'm not going to bring it up.For the first few years of my life I believed in God because I didn't know any better. I think I started having doubts around middle school. My church was like the opposite of Radio Shack: you have questions, they don't have answers. Essentially it came down to faith and I didn't have any. Many days I wanted to pretend that I did so I could fit in better, but I had to stick to my principles. Even though I never "felt the presence of God", the religion still had a hold on me for several years. It took me a long time to shake off nagging thoughts that Hell existed, that original sin made sense, etc. Eventually I just recognized it as silliness.I do have to confess that I went through that phase in college where I stayed up late at night giggling over the Proselytizer Questionnaire and dreaming that I would save the world from its misguided ways. Now atheism isn't a real priority for me and I don't care about "converting" people--partly because I know I can't, partly because I just don't care, and partly because I can't promise their life would be better without religion. I do think it's important to speak up when it affects government policy though.Now, the best advice I have is: if you choose to argue for atheism, always argue on your level, never on their level. Arguing on your level goes like "There is no reason to believe in an intelligent superpower. Doing so raises more problems than it solves. It is not practical to believe such a thing and there are no good arguments to the contrary." Arguing on their level goes like "If God exists, (something) doesn't make sense. Therefore, God doesn't exist." They have a trump card when you argue on their level. It's "God can do anything." They don't care about contradictions. Jesus could've said "seven equals three" and it wouldn't have made a difference. You have to attack the assumption that God exists in the first place.d357r0y3r, all of your "arsenal" was on their level. The problem of evil? Who cares? If you assume for the sake of argument that an omnipotent being runs existence, your opinion on suffering is irrelevant. You sign away your right to use logic when you make that assumption. For their arguments, call them out as what they are. Pascal's wager? Irrelevant to the truth. Inspired by God? Circular reasoning.
10/6/2009 11:31:23 PM
^ qft
10/6/2009 11:36:44 PM
^^is kinda what i was getting at with not wanting to get into theology
10/6/2009 11:38:12 PM
Theology is like philosophy except even more intellectually dubious
10/6/2009 11:41:37 PM
to believe or not to believe....
10/7/2009 12:39:07 AM
My wife was raised catholic and went to catholic school for much of elementary school. I think like many other people, she was fine with pretending she believed... until it came to confirmation, and she was supposed to spend all this extra time preparing, she cut it off there.Although the couple catholic masses I've been to over the years were way more interesting/entertaining to me than the christian megachurch I used to go to.[Edited on October 7, 2009 at 3:33 AM. Reason : ]
10/7/2009 3:33:07 AM
Good post, Shivan Bird. You're right that there isn't much of a point in arguing with a theist/Christian. They've basically already admitted from the get go that they believe something for no good reason. If that's the case, I'm probably not going to be able to convince them of anything. Maybe there will come a time where I decide it's a waste of effort to change anyone's mind or to make them see why their particular belief is wrong. In real life, I pretty much already have come to that conclusion. But, on TWW, I'll argue for the sake of argument and defending my position, even if that means getting into the specifics of the religion.
10/7/2009 8:45:40 AM
goddidit!
10/7/2009 9:16:05 AM
10/7/2009 10:16:07 AM
We had my grandfather's funeral last week. He and my grandmother were members of the same Presbyterian church for 70 years, had raised my parents to go to church every sunday and had probably given tens of thousands of dollars to the church over the course of their lifetime. The memorial service was at the same church, and my grandmother asked the pastor for a non-religious eulogy! Turns out neither of them were believers. However, they did believe in the value of spirituality and the Presbyterian church.The pastor was super-cool about it. He gave a very moving Eulogy without invoking Jesus or the Bible. He did quote the Hobbit at one point!
10/7/2009 10:21:57 AM
^ they had to keep their appearance up...
10/7/2009 5:43:00 PM
kto add to this threadwhile riding to Augusta today with my boss he starts talking about god and all that.. eventually asks me if i believe in god, i say no not really.. he says that if i believe in isaac newton and aristotle and other people that history talks about then i have to believe in jesus/god/blah blah blah because it was all recorded in the same way.i didn't even know how to argue with that.
10/8/2009 3:23:43 PM
Isaac Newton actually believed in God. He even tried to mathematically decipher the end of the world, in the year 2060. Pretty wild, isn't it, for a man of science?[Edited on October 8, 2009 at 3:39 PM. Reason : -]
10/8/2009 3:24:57 PM
^it's not that crazy. not all aspects of math/science contradict religion so clearly. and he lived a long time ago, long before darwin.i've seen creationist propaganda type videos where they rattle off a list of famous scientists who believed in god (pasteur, newton, faraday, kepler) but they all lived before darwin's discoveries.
10/8/2009 5:22:54 PM
You forgot Albert Einstein.
10/8/2009 10:06:56 PM
Ha, right. This is why it's important to come up with a coherent definition of God, rather than just assuming that, like other words in english language, it has a similar definition for most people that use the word. Let's look at some possible definitions, based on what I've gathered:-A supreme being that created everything, controls everything, knows everything, hears our prayers, and adjusts the world based on those prayers-A supreme being that created everything and put the universe into motion, hears our prayers, but doesn't interfere-A supreme being that created everything, but we know nothing about-Synonymous with the unseen mechanics of the universe that we don't yet understand, but nevertheless are responsible for the events that manifest in the real worldAnd there are certainly other valid definitions. The "God" that Einstein could be said to believe in is the final definition. That God has very little in common with the first definition, which many Christians today believe in.
10/9/2009 9:36:48 AM
Einstein didn't believe in God.
10/9/2009 9:39:09 AM
10/9/2009 9:43:27 AM
^^Yeah, but you can obviously take quotes of his that make it seem like he does. That's why it helps to clarify what he was talking about. I suspect that many scientists that are theists, or deists, are driven more by social pressure to conform than a desire to explain the unexplainable. No scientist that stayed true to the scientific method could use God as an explanation for anything. If they did, it would be purely on the basis of conjecture. I don't care that there are many intelligent scientists that claim to believe in God...they're ultimately making an argument based on faith, which I can throw out as a legitimate argument immediately.[Edited on October 9, 2009 at 9:48 AM. Reason : ]
10/9/2009 9:47:06 AM
That's not exactly a difficult task, saying that believing in God cannot be proven through the scientific method, any simpleton can understand that. The more compelling point is that these brilliant men of science, that constructed the cornerstones of understanding the natural world through physics, did believe in God. For whatever reason, that, is far more profound, than any naysayer shooting fish in a barrel.
10/9/2009 10:07:06 AM
Yes but they also lived in a time where you were burned alive for being a witch.
10/9/2009 10:20:04 AM
Interestingly enough, the human experience involves quite a few dynamics. You might be surprised to find out that scientists are not robots, in fact, but have complex lives just like the rest of us humans. A lot of them even love another person, which is a completely illogical situation to put oneself into and can not be defined or defended with sound arguments.To summarize, scientists have emotions...[Edited on October 9, 2009 at 2:56 PM. Reason : s]
10/9/2009 2:56:01 PM
In fact, the man the proposed the Big Bang Theory was a Catholic priest.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Georges_Lema%C3%AEtre
10/9/2009 3:11:57 PM
This should be food for thought for the anti-theists. A lot of their adamant reasoning and logic are based upon the findings which came from individuals that they would in turn, ridicule. How wonderfully ironic.
10/9/2009 3:44:22 PM
Mine is based on the fact that there has been absolutely 0 evidence for the existence of a god. Whatever theories or facts that men have found through science based on logic and reasoning, I accept. Their personal beliefs that are based outside of that realm are worthy of ridicule.A lot of smart people have a lot of ridiculous ideas.[Edited on October 9, 2009 at 3:56 PM. Reason : *]
10/9/2009 3:55:49 PM
Knowing this doesn't change my mind about theism. I understand the social and philosophical reasons why people embrace religion.Just because LemaƮtre couldn't deal with his mortality doesn't mean he wasn't a brilliant scientist.
10/9/2009 3:55:52 PM
^^^^BBT, I love that show!
10/10/2009 12:27:46 AM
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10/10/2009 10:50:10 AM
christian doctrine would say that they are all the same... their god has many names. come on... you have to know this.... the level of complete ignorance from people who run around debunking the bible is just embarrassing.[Edited on October 10, 2009 at 10:56 AM. Reason : s]
10/10/2009 10:55:31 AM
10/10/2009 11:03:23 AM
10/10/2009 11:12:20 AM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Russell%27s_teapot
10/10/2009 11:16:03 AM
thxu
10/10/2009 11:18:58 AM
How did the universe that this teapot is in come into existence?
10/10/2009 11:30:37 AM
That's pretty irrelevant to what we're discussing here.
10/10/2009 11:40:40 AM
If an entity created the universe, is it not also plausible that they may be a china teapot in orbit around the sun? If man were of consequence of some accident, then there would be no particulars as to why there would be a teapot there. Belief isn't wholly rational in an empirical sense, but isn't terribly unsound either.
10/10/2009 11:46:37 AM
10/10/2009 11:57:12 AM
yea but the teapot doesn't have a bible that proves its existence
10/10/2009 11:58:25 AM
Why again is it stupid to deny the existence of this teapot?
10/10/2009 11:59:01 AM
^I don't know. Ask FeebleMinded.
10/10/2009 12:02:01 PM
its hard to argue with infallible arguments
10/10/2009 12:02:39 PM