I just roll my eyes to myself when I see him post

1/25/2012 12:25:24 AM

yeah, him

1/25/2012 12:26:31 AM

me?

1/25/2012 12:26:55 AM

4^ had she actually agreed to go or had you said "thurs 8 o'clock at xxxx *wink*" and got an eye roll?

1/25/2012 12:28:03 AM

nope, it was a real date. We had actually scheduled the week before but she cancelled then saying her car broke down. I assumed she was blowing me off then so i didn't call her again, and she texted me asking to reschedule. We set it up for sat night. I texted her 'just got here' after I parked and she said 'ok'.

1/25/2012 12:30:33 AM

hey look...a new message from the same weirdo who keeps making new profiles and messaging me from them...

it said the exact same thing...word for word....as the last thing...

except he changed "i made this profile today" to "i made this profile recently"...

[Edited on January 27, 2012 at 2:29 PM. Reason : asdf]

1/27/2012 2:29:04 PM

i know one of the aces from the previous page

good times

1/27/2012 2:33:32 PM

I've seen one of 'em, and she's bangin' to say the least. I've never seen so many guys strike out with the same girl in one night.

1/27/2012 2:43:50 PM

ace of diamonds is smoking hot

1/27/2012 3:29:15 PM

had a really good relationship from there for about a year and a half, but recently re-activated the account when we broke up (she moved). not really having the same luck this time around...

1/27/2012 3:29:23 PM

i might just have finally had success on pof but i'm not counting chickens before they hatch

1/28/2012 4:34:03 PM

I am quite tempted to try this...just can't make that leap

1/28/2012 4:48:08 PM

I don't know what it is but I NEVER get a reply from the girls I'm interested in, even when they come to my profile first (or multiple times). I get messages from mingers who may or may not have kids and be general fuckups all the time though.

1/28/2012 5:00:20 PM

I think I get a reply from like 1 in 10

1/28/2012 5:09:10 PM

yeah the first time around i got replies from like 1 in 10, but this time it's basically nothing. not sure what it is, because i'm clearly awesome...

1/28/2012 5:19:44 PM

can people see your pic? I don't even get how this works.

do you just download it from an app store?

1/28/2012 5:26:11 PM

http://www.okcupid.com

there's an app for smartphones, but i'm pretty sure it makes it look like you're logged in 24/7 so i uninstalled it.

1/28/2012 7:12:25 PM

Quote :

"yeah the first time around i got replies from like 1 in 10, but this time it's basically nothing. not sure what it is, because i'm clearly awesome... "

Nobody's publishing analytics of this stuff at this point.

I hate to be a conspiracy theorist, but OKC was bought by Match.com. Honestly, it might be better to look for a site where you pay when, and only when, you meet someone. There are lots of ways the site management can game this to not give any more results. One could make the argument that it would make sense to randomly lose messages to counter the M to F ratio, but I don't believe that for a second. The reply rate was published to be 27% on OKC, and from what I've read on forums, it's no where near this anymore, but someone needs to community source analytics because the sites can't be trusted. You're more likely to buy a premium account if no one replies and that's a hard fact to ignore.

1/28/2012 8:14:14 PM

My reply rate is easily 1 in 4 and I get a handful of messages out of the blue, as does my roommate.

Pro-tip: Get a more interesting profile.

[Edited on January 28, 2012 at 10:40 PM. Reason : .]

1/28/2012 10:40:10 PM

write my profile k?

1/28/2012 10:41:40 PM

"Your face is great, but we're gonna need to put a bag over that personality."

1/28/2012 10:43:13 PM

geez thanks vinylbandit

1/28/2012 10:46:03 PM

Quote :

"Pro-tip: Get a more interesting profile."

Doesn't explain messages that don't even get a profile view after they're sent. You can still argue the profile picture, but not the profile.

1/29/2012 12:01:55 AM

You know you can browse anonymously, right?

[Edited on January 29, 2012 at 12:08 AM. Reason : .]

1/29/2012 12:07:38 AM

depends on the site and the level of membership.

1/29/2012 12:49:14 AM

^ I dont think it matters on the level of membership. You can have a basic membership and view anonymously but you lose visibility into who visits your page if you do this.

1/29/2012 12:50:27 AM

on OKC you can copy the link to the profile, log out, and then view it. If it's public then you can view it without registering a hit, if it's restricted to OKC you can't.

1/29/2012 9:28:01 AM

uuuuuh i literally joined like 5 minutes ago b/c i was bored and my social life needs HALP

wtf 7 messages? already? now i'm all

1/29/2012 4:08:57 PM

lol, they be creepin

1/29/2012 4:10:32 PM

I kind of want to join to see the caliber of women that message me.

1/29/2012 4:11:54 PM

the kind that would slash your tire with a spork

[Edited on January 29, 2012 at 4:12 PM. Reason : cause they all that way ]

1/29/2012 4:12:17 PM

I'm slashing grimx's tires TAHNITE

1/29/2012 4:33:44 PM

they're already all slashed

1/29/2012 4:42:32 PM

1/29/2012 4:43:27 PM

^wow

1/29/2012 6:15:38 PM

Quote :

"uuuuuh i literally joined like 5 minutes ago b/c i was bored and my social life needs HALP wtf 7 messages? already? now i'm all "

Please post the worst messages here.

Thanks in advance.

1/29/2012 6:47:00 PM

i'm pretty sure your roommate was one of my "matches" on okc

1/29/2012 6:51:31 PM

My roommate?

1/29/2012 7:15:52 PM

is your roommate a friend from raleigh who went to san antonio with you to work?

1/29/2012 7:18:20 PM

Sort of. He's my roommate because he's the co-founder of my business and we're all down here living together.

I was confused because whenever I think of "my roommate" I think of someone else, and not the 3 people I'm currently living with. Once I scrolled up and saw what I'd said before, it all made more sense.

1/29/2012 7:20:56 PM

it's time to move on stein

embrace your new life

1/29/2012 7:22:48 PM

Well if it allows you to sort by join date when you first join you can expect a flood because of all the guys who have exhausted everyone already on there. Also I'm assuming OKC is free which means there are a ton of people who aren't really there to find someone. That's why I went with match when people are willing to pay for the service you know they are fairly serious at least. It took me quite a while but I was finally successful and found a girl perfect for me. So it can definitely work if you are patient.

1/29/2012 7:23:06 PM

haha...

well one of your co-founding friends was one of my matches...

at least until you guys moved and, i'm assuming, changed your location to san antonio instead of raleigh...


it was a really random as hell way that i figured out he was your roommate as well

[Edited on January 29, 2012 at 7:25 PM. Reason : i have zero patience...that's why i suck at internet dating ]

1/29/2012 7:23:46 PM

ddk should link her profile so I can send her s

1/29/2012 7:29:53 PM

dude at least k8 didnt end her username in "-asaurus" or "-inabox"


what the fuck is the deal with that shit? why are tons of girls making stupid names?


and posting pics holding guns?

weird ass okc trends

1/29/2012 10:33:01 PM

post

1/29/2012 10:34:40 PM

guns?

really?

1/29/2012 10:37:33 PM

haha waiting for responses sucks. ffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu impatience

1/29/2012 10:39:32 PM

the girls want all the crazies. just say you got issues and you're looking for a girl to change you

1/29/2012 10:43:45 PM

I think I'm going to use that on a random chick for the lulz

1/29/2012 10:47:28 PM