Found out on my birthday last June that my husband got fucked in the ass by a transgender woman.

So, I kicked him out of the bedroom and into the guest room and told him I wanted him to move out. Then I started dating other guys...and my (not soon enough to be ex) husband found out and got mad at me. So I said to him "What? Are you mad that I'm getting better dick than you?"

Well, now I own this house outright and I get every other weekend child free.

Also I had my gallbladder removed 4 days ago and apparently my digestive system doesnt like it when I eat anything

Also, also...he decided to lawyer up and had to pay a shit ton of money for her to write up the separation agreement. And I fucked with him by making him go get it changed multipletimes before I signed it, since it cost him over $500 every time it needed to be changed.
Right about the time his parents said that they couldnt continue to front the bill for the attorney fees anymore is when he realized that yet again we should have done it how I suggested - outside of attorneys and save money and write our own agreement, back date it, and file it at the court house. But instead he (or I guess his parents) are out a lot of money...unless he decided to ise his share of the equity I paid him to pay them back.

He also had learned how much I did with everyday tasks. I dropped him from my car insurance and because he still hasn't figured out how to change his mailing address, I got a letter in the mail addressed to him. I sent him anpicture of the envelope and asked him if he wanted me to see what the letter that was sent to him said, in order to minimize any sudden movements.he said yes...so I opened the letter, took a picture, and sent it to him. The letter was from his insurance company saying that his insurance lapsed...because he thought the insurance agent was just going to move him over with a new insurance and talk for no more than 2 minutes at a time.


Anyway, Im single and ready to mingle!

Id be happy to answer any questions!

3/16/2026 9:10:29 PM

In retrospect, should you have seen this coming?

3/16/2026 9:13:30 PM

3/16/2026 9:36:46 PM

1. Sorry to hear about your martial woes.

2. If you really want to make your soon-to-be ex mad, you can send him the video of you and I bwning.
He might even get angry enough to throw some napkins.

3. Hey sawahash.

3/16/2026 9:43:44 PM

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"In retrospect, should you have seen this coming?"

Yes. While I was surprised...I also wasnt.

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"He might even get angry enough to throw some napkins"

Now thay is a hilarious reference! I forgot all about that

3/16/2026 10:15:31 PM

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"my husband got fucked in the ass by a transgender woman"

Women don’t have cocks, your husband got fucked in the ass by a dude

3/16/2026 10:25:37 PM

send nudes

3/16/2026 10:48:26 PM

To piggyback off mr green, i was gonna offer $5 per

3/16/2026 10:53:14 PM

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"Women don’t have cocks, your husband got fucked in the ass by a dude"

Yeah, I was trying to keep it PC...but when I'm talking to friends I generally say that he "got fucked in the ass by a tranny"

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"send nudes"

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"To piggyback off mr green, i was gonna offer $5 per"

I mean, I'm not gonna lie, I've had a glow up and there are some pictures on my phone that even I like looking at!
But I also have pictures from that text conversation...
Either way, im probably not gonna send them!

3/16/2026 11:01:04 PM

Your husband is gay, or perhaps bisexual, and enjoys having sex with men that dresses up like women. I hope you got checked for STDs. Did you tell his family why the relationship was ending?

It sounds like he was using you and your relationship as a method of financial support. And was using you as his beard. Glad you had enough sense to get out of that relationship.



[Edited on March 17, 2026 at 8:34 AM. Reason : phew]

3/17/2026 8:33:24 AM

I'm sorry that you're having go through this, but I have to say, hearing your situation wasn't on my Tuesday morning "lemme check TWW bingo card."

This post, for some reason, reminds me of the glory days of this place. I'm sorry thought that it is at your expense.

3/17/2026 8:48:23 AM

^Prob reminds you of the TWW golden age because Sawahash is an OG, and she's been dormant for the past few years. Unlike the ~20 of us that seem to regularly stick around here.

3/17/2026 9:06:05 AM

That and her situation is a little WTF.

3/17/2026 9:09:56 AM

what a wild opening statement

3/17/2026 9:42:33 AM

^^^^
Could be a qntmfred experiment to use ai to resurrect beloved twwers

3/17/2026 9:49:28 AM

qntmbot strikes again...

3/17/2026 10:05:36 AM

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"Your husband is gay, or perhaps bisexual, and enjoys having sex with men that dresses up like women. I hope you got checked for STDs. Did you tell his family why the relationship was ending? It sounds like he was using you and your relationship as a method of financial support. And was using you as his beard. Glad you had enough sense to get out of that relationship."

I did get checked for STDs. I told my family and friends what happened. He says his family and friends know, but I don't think they know the WHOLE story...just the part that he cheated on me.

He most definitely was using me as a substitute for his mom, because he really struggles with general life tasks.

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"This post, for some reason, reminds me of the glory days of this place. I'm sorry thought that it is at your expense."

Listen, I have said many times, if I don't laugh about it I would be crying about it!

Also, last night I posted this under the influence of muscle relaxers and 40 hours of no sleep...so kinda like the glory days!

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"Prob reminds you of the TWW golden age because Sawahash is an OG, and she's been dormant for the past few years. Unlike the ~20 of us that seem to regularly stick around here."

Aww, I'm considered an OG! I thought I came later in the game...but I guess being on here for 20 years counts as something....HOLY FUCK! 20 fucking years!


and yeah, unfortunately this is not AI...this is real life. But honestly, just kinda on par for the rest of all the events in my life!

3/17/2026 10:18:02 AM

^At this point, anyone with >10k posts (excluding aliases) that still posts here is prob considered an OG. I have been talking with most of you fine folks about silly stuff for ~25 years and have no idea who you are in real life, haha.

3/17/2026 10:33:53 AM

In all seriousness, did you guys sit down and have discussions about why he did it, and what he expected going forward? Could you share his answers, if so?

I’m assuming you guys don’t have kids yet?

3/17/2026 10:42:17 AM

I've never met Wraith, yet I found myself strangely concerned about his wellbeing when the federal government started furloughing and RIFing employees.

There was also a moment a couple of months ago when I was debating moving down to Huntsville, Alabama... and I wondered if that's where Wraith resided .

3/17/2026 10:44:56 AM

I know it's easy to feel angry with the affair partner but the person who betrayed your trust is your spouse.

3/17/2026 10:53:54 AM

how did you find out? did his farts have a different timbre?

[Edited on March 17, 2026 at 10:57 AM. Reason : no emoji support in this the year of our lord 2026 ]

3/17/2026 10:56:33 AM

1. Sorry to hear about your martial woes.

2. If he had mentioned an interest in pegging, would you have been up for it?

3. Hey sawahash.

3/17/2026 10:57:50 AM

^^^I didn’t intone any animus towards the affair partner, just more of a “well damn that came out of left field”

[Edited on March 17, 2026 at 10:58 AM. Reason : ^]

3/17/2026 10:58:33 AM

Sorry for your loss!

Thanks for MTWWGA! Making The Wolf Web Great Again NTTAWWT

3/17/2026 11:14:29 AM

^iswydt nttawwt

3/17/2026 11:20:28 AM

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"In all seriousness, did you guys sit down and have discussions about why he did it, and what he expected going forward? Could you share his answers, if so? I’m assuming you guys don’t have kids yet?"

We didn't need to have anymore discussions about it after I found out. We had been having conversations about his lack of interest in the activity for years at this point, so when I found out it answered a lot of questions. It also hurt more because he knew how hard it was for me to not feel wanted by my own husband, he would see me crying myself to sleep after he would blame me for his lack of interest and he just sat there knowing that all he wanted was a dick in his ass.

Also, we have 2.5 year old twins. Took 4 years of trying for them because of the combination of my endocrine disorders and the fact that asking him to have sex with me 3 times a month was apparently too much for him.

Part of me feels like that is why I got twins...God was like "yeah, she's not gonna be able to get him to knock her up again, lets just give her two for the price of one"

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"I've never met Wraith, yet I found myself strangely concerned about his wellbeing when the federal government started furloughing and RIFing employees. There was also a moment a couple of months ago when I was debating moving down to Huntsville, Alabama... and I wondered if that's where Wraith resided ."

You didn't care about my well-being? My job was no longer safe and then my marriage fell apart!

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"I know it's easy to feel angry with the affair partner but the person who betrayed your trust is your spouse."

Absolutely. One thing that makes me even angrier with him is the fact that I have been using derogatory terms to describe this person, and not their preferred pronouns. But based on the text conversations they had no idea that he was married with children. He didn't even tell them his real name. But I don't blame them at all for it, he was the one who made that choice.

Once he said "It was a one time mistake I made" and I was like "so you mistakenly got onto tsdating.biz and mistakenly got into a conversation with a person who you knew was trans, then mistakenly called me while I was on my way out of town to visit a friend and tell me that you were feeling sick and ask if my parents could watch the boys that night, and then you mistakenly dropped our children off with my parents, and then mistakenly drove an hour and a half a way to meet this person, and then mistakenly took off your pants and got on all fours, and then mistakenly continued the conversation with this person after you left, and mistakenly said that next time you want this person to cum on your face, and mistakenly made plans to drop off our children again while I was offshore fishing? Cause I'm pretty sure all of those actions were pretty intentional"

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"how did you find out? did his farts have a different timbre?"

hahaha, not that I noticed.
So my birthday is June 5th. Last year leading up to my birthday he was extra dismissive of it - he never really did anything for my birthday, always was kinda annoying to me - The morning of my birthday he didn't say anything until he was walking out the door "Oh, happy birthday"
Didn't really speak to me at all during the day until I asked him that afternoon if there were any plans for dinner and he asked me if I wanted to make dinner that night, and I was like fuck that!
Then that evening, he got on his X-Box and played COD Zombies until he went to bed.

Something just didn't feel right and for the first time in our relationship I decided to go through his phone. I checked his text messages and there wasn't anything there, his Facebook messages nothing there, emails and nothing. So then I just started scrolling through his apps and I saw an app called Burner Phone and I clicked on it and there was one conversation. So I clicked on it and scrolled the to very beginning of the conversation and started reading.
While I was scrolling this was my thought process:
Well he's cheating on me, so obviously it's not a medical reason why he can't get a boner.
Ew, she's ugly, if he was gonna cheat on me at least make it worth it
Why is she sending him a picture of her holding a soft dick?
Why does she want to see a picture of him bent over with cheeks spread?
Um, I think that is her dick.
Um...she is not a she
Um...he was the receiver
I need to document this, cause wtf?

So I started taking picture of the conversation with my phone cause I needed to make sure that I wasn't seeing things and so I could have evidence.

I also found the Ring footage of him coming back to the house that night, and he wasn't walking any differently....so maybe it wasn't the first time?

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"1. Sorry to hear about your martial woes. 2. If he had mentioned an interest in pegging, would you have been up for it? 3. Hey sawahash. "

1. Thanks, but honestly I'm living my best life now! I'm happier now and feel more complete than I have in years!

2. Maybe? I dunnno honestly, but he never asked me, so I don't know.

3. haaaaaaaaaay

3/17/2026 12:29:55 PM

Oh man, it really sucks to have to find out that way. How are the twins handling things?

And what a bag of dicks to blame you for his lack of arousal, knowing the whole time he wanted to play for the other team. That kind of stuff makes me angry.

3/17/2026 1:02:53 PM

Honestly, I think the fact that they are so young and wont have memory of life before is a blessing. But they are handling it as well as any 2 year old would. Throwing tantrums cause I served their food on a plate instead of a bowl.

He is a good dad though, so as long as he can stay off drugs and doesnt bring sketchy people around I am more than happy with 50/50 custody.

Oh, did I mention that 4 years ago I found out he was hiding a coke addiction from me by waking up to him sitting in his piss on the couch and not breathing because he got some coke laced with fentanyl and I had to perform CPR at 6 am. And because he had been sitting cross legged for hours overnight he almost lost a leg (although, we all know that I have a thing for guys missing legs) and caused irreversible damage to his heart. So he spent a week in the ICU andnI had to call and tell his mom what happened almost exactly 2 years after his sister died from a fentanyl OD.
Then once we was recovered he started to blame it on me to family and friends saying that I was overbearing and I drove him to it...even though he told me and the doctors he had been addicted before we even started dating.

One reason why I think I finally got pregnant when I did, because he had cleaned up.

But yeah, the moment there is any sign of drug use or sketchy people, I will take full custody and get child support.

3/17/2026 1:33:19 PM

LOL

sorry, the lead-off sentence was hilarious


but I'm sorry that you had to be the victim of that

probably for the best anyway. marriage is for the birds

3/17/2026 1:37:36 PM

Man, my life is so simple.

I'm sorry for your situation, fellow Wolf Web user!

3/17/2026 1:44:52 PM

Do you think napkin boi ever took dick to his ass in exchange for coke?

3/17/2026 1:47:55 PM

I feel like i should go to church after reading some of this!

3/17/2026 1:53:52 PM

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"Do you think napkin boi ever took dick to his ass in exchange for coke?"

Absolutely.

3/17/2026 2:06:46 PM

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"I've never met Wraith, yet I found myself strangely concerned about his wellbeing when the federal government started furloughing and RIFing employees. There was also a moment a couple of months ago when I was debating moving down to Huntsville, Alabama... and I wondered if that's where Wraith resided ."

Thank you for thinking of me! It has been a difficult year for sure but I am hanging in there. I do in fact reside in Huntsville so if you end up here sometime in the future, hit me up and we can throw napkins at each other!

3/17/2026 2:41:58 PM