http://www.economist.com/news/science-and-technology/21583593-using-social-network-seems-make-people-more-miserable-get-life
10/3/2013 8:24:43 AM
I never deactivated it, but stopped posting a few months about 3 years ago. People thought I died. I had a small up swing in texts wondering if I was OK and then when everyone found out I was OK it was back to normal.
10/3/2013 8:40:28 AM
Does Facebook make people unhappy? Or do people make themselves unhappy?Instead of measuring yourself against and competing with your acquaintances, people need to just live. When You see someone posting awesome pictures, you should feel genuinely happy for them IMO. Reflect back on what's holding you back from posting something awesome, that's what you should be unhappy about.
10/3/2013 8:46:59 AM
facebook does not make me unhappy...part of that is limiting my friends list to actual friends
10/3/2013 8:52:41 AM
^^I think part of the idea is that you only get a small glimpse of that person's life. And usually it's a glimpse of their best. Then you think "why isn't my life like that?"But also, by your reasoning, nothing should make people unhappy. We're not all zen masters, though.[Edited on October 3, 2013 at 8:55 AM. Reason : .]
10/3/2013 8:55:31 AM
I don't think Facebook makes me less happy either. But I've never taken enough time off from it to see how I'd feel without it.
10/3/2013 8:55:47 AM
^^ I don't disagree with any of that, butI just think that people shouldn't blame a website for their unhappiness, when that unhappiness is a product of their own personality/creation. Even if they logged off Facebook, my guess is they'll still be unhappy or jealous about someone or something else.But to answer your questions I've never deactivated my Facebook but have thought about it before. I've def gone through long periods of not logging on. No one checked in on me but I'm really not that active on there anyways
10/3/2013 9:06:56 AM
10/3/2013 9:19:35 AM
I've recently deactivated because no one i know IRL actively uses it anymore, and if i'm not using it i don't want my information displayed anymore. Therefore i could care less what people i don't have any contact with anymore are up to.Of course it might make someone jealous because it only shows the best highlights of people's lives. If you looked back at your own life through rose tinted glasses it'll look pretty awesome.Basically people get depressed because they don't have enough "best highlights" to post compared to other people, making it seem like their life sucks. I'm willing to bet that 90% of the time, the people that look like they're having a great life on facebook, have a slew of debilitating real life issues and aren't doing that great.
10/3/2013 9:22:30 AM
I deactivated last night, but had to reactivate this morning to ask someone a question whose phone number I don't have.lol
10/3/2013 9:55:56 AM
I was going to deactivate just because people were getting annoying as fuck. The dumb rednecks from back home that talk all about their baby momma drama and the stupid political posts have just gotten to be too much. The main reason I keep on is because I follow all of the restaurants around town. Knowing about daily specials (meals, not discounts) has affected my dining choices a ton of times. Its also my main photo storage spot. I need to find an alternative for that.I think I might create a fake account and only follow restaurants.
10/3/2013 10:00:03 AM
I have it, but I really don't use it that much, other than to see pictures of my friend's kids.I very rarely find that I have something I want to say to everyone I know at the same time.
10/3/2013 10:01:41 AM
I deactivated cause people sucked, and you can't be wildly inappropriate anymore.It'll occasionally come up amongst friends that I'm not on there, but for the most part, nobody cared.
10/3/2013 10:03:36 AM
10/3/2013 10:03:46 AM
i just hide people from my facebook feed, its an option in the drop down box
10/3/2013 10:04:41 AM
I'm sorry but how could you not bold this line
10/3/2013 10:06:21 AM
The only thing that pisses me off about facebook is reading stupid status updates.[Edited on October 3, 2013 at 10:12 AM. Reason : ]
10/3/2013 10:11:11 AM
I went on Facebook after reading this.
10/3/2013 10:11:40 AM
I deactivated my profile for like 2 years. I'm not sure if I was happier, I don't consciously feel less happy or anything now. The first thing I did when I reactivated it was delete everyone that I didn't want anything to do with. For the most part I don't think its a negative thing in my life other than the fact that I look at my phone a lot more instead of maybe doing something else. Definitely a huge time waster.Its pretty great to be able to keep in contact with people who are far away. I'm not going to text like everyone I know once a month just to remind myself that they exist. The main reason I reactivated it was for networking / booking shows. Its really unbeatable for that shit. These are all things that nobody knows. I'm the first person to say this ever.Actually it was pretty great not having a facebook. I'm Krallum and I approved this message.[Edited on October 3, 2013 at 10:27 AM. Reason : on second thought]
10/3/2013 10:26:20 AM
As an experiment, I've deactivated my Facebook account. I'm doing it for the duration of the government shutdown, so I have no idea when (if ever) I'll reactivate.Observations: * I don't feel any happier* I came back to TWW for the first time in years.
10/3/2013 11:14:15 AM
^ you deactivating your account make me sad. One time I deactivated me account and a friend texted me thinking I deleted her. Silly people.
10/3/2013 11:21:00 AM