1/28/2013 4:41:19 PM
About fucking time.And, yeah, The Girl Scouts are pretty cool about this sort of shit.
1/28/2013 4:47:20 PM
The madness continues.....Politicians in uniform think that sexual assault is a problem in the military because men and women aren't together enough. http://freebeacon.com/dempsey-combat-ban-contributed-to-sexual-assault-problem/Now boy scouts think that, despite expelling 5000 men as scout leaders over the past 50 years for possible sexual abuse (by men against boys, of course), adding open homosexuals to camping trips is an excellent idea. http://www.wptv.com/dpp/news/national/boy-scouts-of-america-molestation-sex-scandal-files-eight-palm-beach-county-men-on-blacklistWhat could go wrong with gay men and young boys in the wilderness?
1/28/2013 5:55:52 PM
Really? Do you also think all the pedophile Catholic priests are also gay?http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html
1/28/2013 6:15:27 PM
1/28/2013 6:23:30 PM
http://www.cnn.com/2013/01/28/us/boy-scouts-policy/index.html?hpt=hp_t1
1/28/2013 6:40:36 PM
1/28/2013 6:42:22 PM
Gay Scout Denied Eagle Award Says He Believes in God
1/28/2013 7:39:00 PM
1/28/2013 7:47:37 PM
Most pedophiles are male, why even allow male scout leaders? Clearly just having the penis leads to child raping.
1/28/2013 7:55:52 PM
^^ reminds me of[Edited on January 28, 2013 at 8:01 PM. Reason : .]
1/28/2013 7:59:57 PM
1/28/2013 8:01:56 PM
^http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html
1/28/2013 8:04:13 PM
They don't even say how many of those convicted of "sexual assault against a child" had abused boys.That's just a little bit relevant, you know.Besides, it works against you anyway. Sexual deviants are significantly over-represented in the very groups you cite. Gays, lesbians, and bisexuals all totaled are no more than 5-6% of the population, under generous definitions. http://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/Gates-How-Many-People-LGBT-Apr-2011.pdfYet, 13% of those child-abusers were called bisexuals (by people that were highly motivated to understate the number of gays and bisexuals in that offending population).So, are you now willing to say that the paper you just cited shows that gays and bisexuals are at least twice as likely to molest children in general, not even mentioning boys in particular (which would tack on an order of magnitude)?[Edited on January 28, 2013 at 8:17 PM. Reason : s]
1/28/2013 8:15:55 PM
Not all homosexuals are pedophiles, kind of like how not all gun owners kill children
1/28/2013 8:27:37 PM
^^No, because none of them were gay, and all of the bisexuals preferred women over men. It's not about sex, it's about age.
1/28/2013 8:32:27 PM
"Suppose Mark Foley had been caught having sex with a dog. And it was a male dog, so he announced, 'Yes, I'm gay.' Would people go, 'Oh, well that figures?' No! They'd go 'What the hell does that have to do with it? You were fucking a dog!' And that's really what should be happening here."
1/28/2013 8:41:00 PM
who gives a fuck? if you don't like it, don't let your kid participate.bullshit like this distracts americans from real issues.
1/28/2013 8:58:58 PM
Does the reverse hold true? If young boys are under the same threat by gay or straight men, then are young girls just as vulnerable to gay men as straight men?That's about how much sense this makes.
1/28/2013 8:59:16 PM
yeah, lol at you people saying that older men touching younger boys isn't homosexual behavior.it's not all about them being gay, you're correct about that. it's all about them being fucked up and gay.
1/28/2013 10:06:32 PM
^,^^ I'm not sure what impugning normal gay people serves then. Perpetual fearmongering of the gheys is directly akin to the hackneyed tripe that white women should watch out for the black man because he's sex-crazed. It's specious and insulting for someone who appears to have attended college. Why not just be happy that one of the most supposedly hallowed organizations in America is taking steps towards finally joining the 21st century? Does that threaten your self-perceived power structure or own sexuality? Sheesh. [Edited on January 28, 2013 at 10:20 PM. Reason : ---]
1/28/2013 10:20:08 PM
Gay men are not at any more risk than heterosexual men to sexually abuse children. If they were, you would hear a lot more about teachers abusing their students. Try to find a news article from a reputable source about a gay man in a position of authority abusing children and I will find you 100 about a supposedly "straight" man doing it. Of course you don't want to let your kids be around the wrong type of people, but that is strictly a character issue and has nothing to do with sexual orientation.Most of you are intelligent enough to realize this, thankfully. I'm not surprised to see that the resident dipshits, Tuliplover and MisterGreen, are the only ones worried about this though.
1/28/2013 10:48:57 PM
I was under the impression that the opinion of those two was laughed at in the 70's as being ridiculous and against all evidence to the contrary i.e. Anita Bryantit's 2013 for fucks sake
1/28/2013 11:52:52 PM
1/28/2013 11:58:19 PM
where do people like tuliplovr come from?geeeeeeeeeeeeez
1/29/2013 12:12:27 AM
1/29/2013 1:53:32 AM
I grew up at a summer camp where we had both openly gay counselors and campers. I lived in cabins with those in each category. At no point was I ever afraid of being sexually assaulted or harassed. But this conversation is completely off topic.The fact of the matter is that BSA is supposed to create brotherhood and instead has spent this long creating hate.Scout Law:
1/29/2013 4:42:41 AM
^^ You know why I'm focusing on the abuse of boys instead of all children? Check the thread title. It says BOY Scouts.To the rest of you, it is obvious that reality has not made a single dent in your ideology.Then again, it's expected. There was once an outspoken gay man who flaunted his sexual predation of teens, who felt odd for messing with a 24 year old (because he had never had someone so old), who lobbied for cult leader Jim Jones to get custody of a child (whom Jones would later poison), who told a young, suicidal former 'lover' not to make a mess when he killed himself, who false-flagged the bombing of his own store to ramp up support for his cause, and who lied about his military record for the same reason.And this is just what we know from writings and interviews with his friends and sympathizers. This person now gets a holiday in his honor and a movie that does a very nice makeover on his vile life.If Harvey Milk can be changed from absolute scum to patron saint, then there isn't a whole lot you all won't defend.[Edited on January 29, 2013 at 5:34 AM. Reason : carrots]
1/29/2013 5:27:05 AM
Noted heterosexual Thomas Jefferson raped his slaves.What was your point again?
1/29/2013 7:18:53 AM
1/29/2013 7:24:23 AM
And the old woman at the beginning of Titanic is a fictional character and its not a true story about her survival
1/29/2013 7:26:50 AM
1/29/2013 8:15:27 AM
^^ You didn't say, which means that your contributions are equally worthless to this topic, which means that your contributions are as equally as worthless as all of your other contributions.
1/29/2013 8:19:19 AM
I'm a Cub Scout leader and 1 of 3 Eagle Scouts in my family and I'm in Scouts in fucking Carrboro. We don't have anybody that is openly or closeted gay that I know of and to be honest I really don't care much either way. Bottom line, I'm not leaving my kid alone with anybody I don't trust, straight or otherwise. And as an involved parent who really enjoys scouting, I'll be at everything. So I'm not worried about it either way, and really, nobody else should either. We are trained on two-deep leadership, so no scout is left alone with one adult. The ridiculous bullshit that National used to do where they would cover up and not share information about leaders exploiting children is done. With the litigious nature of society today if they tried covering up that shit now, they would have a PR and legal nightmare on their hands. So now instead of protecting the leaders, they are protecting the scouts. If you are even accused of something you are immediately banned from EVERYTHING until a scouting & legal investigation is completed. You are basically guilty until proven innocent, which is kinda fucked up if you are truly innocent, but better to err on the side of caution with young impressionable children involved.
1/29/2013 8:27:36 AM
1/29/2013 8:36:06 AM
Once again, your opinion is worthless.
1/29/2013 8:46:17 AM
Once again, this thread is completely off topic. If you want to discuss a fake correlation between homosexuality and child abuse then please by all means talk about it somewhere else.This is a huge step forward in a world striving for equality between all humankind.
1/29/2013 3:29:02 PM
I can tacitly go along with the notion that if the BSA is a wholly private entity that receives 0 taxpayer money, then they can be however repugnantly discriminatory they wish. They just simply weigh the cost/benefits of the negative image vs. whomever is paying their bills. While I was never a scout and find them a little cultish when I encounter them on trail, I applaud their step forward into the 21st century.
1/29/2013 4:01:49 PM
I got my Eagle, I loved being in the scouts, but over the 6 or so years that I was involved, I saw things change quite a bit, from a troop that valued educating kids in outdoor activities and leadership to a bureaucratic nightmare that would send kids home for failing to meet the strict handbook dress code requirements.This was more of an issue with the individual troop politics and adult leadership, but its a similar tale to what's happened nationally over the last few decades. At the moment I'm not sure I'd get my son involved with Scouts, I believe the lessons taught through scouting can be accomplished through a number of other groups. If the BSA changes its tune in the next few years and becomes accepting, not just tolerant, of ALL young men then I'd be glad to get my son involved.
1/29/2013 6:13:11 PM
I have found quite the opposite myself. In my area it is a lot more lax than it was when I was in Scouts in eastern NC. Carrboro area it least has all different types of Troops to choose from. A couple are super strict types, a couple are for the really rich kids who travel to like Spain and Brazil to go mountain hiking, and some are just middle of the road. I am very excited about that as my little rural area had only two real Troops to choose from. Love the variety available up here.
1/29/2013 6:25:35 PM
^^^IIRC it does receive some taxpayer funds
1/29/2013 6:41:19 PM
Good grief, I just did a quick google about the preferential treatment that the BSA gets from the federal government, and it's quite staggering. The whole damn thing is quite a mess.
1/29/2013 7:00:55 PM
^^ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boy_Scouts_of_America#FinanceIt's a 501-c-3 which means it enjoys the tax breaks of a not for profit org, but it does not receive funds from the govment. At least not in the direct sense. It is one of the largest 501-c-3's out there, at this receives special sponsorships and partnerships with organizations that receive tax payer money like the armed forces and other government groups with like minded ideals. ^^^ Yeah I was thinking more on the national scene. There were 4 troops I was involved with as a scout in Raleigh. My home troop and 3 others that some friends were in that we partnered with sometimes for scout camps and other fee heavy trips. Our troop started really laid back on a lot of the BS stuff and mainly focused on outings and helping kids advance that wanted it. By the time I left they spent more time discussing proper uniform requirements and they made advancement and merit badges priority number for everyone over all aspects. 2 of the other troops were like this, sticklers for uniforms, but had kids that never slept in tents. The other troop was as laid back as it got. I liked that troop, and there were only 8 kids in it, so everyone had their eagle by 15.[Edited on January 29, 2013 at 7:11 PM. Reason : ]
1/29/2013 7:10:44 PM
Here's an instance of the government back financial benefits to the group that I remember reading about a while back:http://www.towleroad.com/2008/05/bigot-boy-scout.html
1/29/2013 10:36:10 PM
^ You can find instances of things like that in almost any 501-c-3 group, especially one that represents itself as building moral character and advancing leadership among young men.There are a lot of groups that receive funding from the Feds, but the Scouts aren't one of them.Granted, they do benefit from low/no rent tax payer facilities, but it's a HUGE grey area because providing for 501-c-3's is a two way street. For instance the benefits a lot of military bases give to the Boy Scouts makes the Philadelphia story look like chump change, but they see the Scouts as a an excellent recruitment pool. The same can be said for municipal, county or state facilities. A lot of scouting involves community service, and more often than you would think, those services are provided for the community that houses them. For example, the church that sponsored my troop growing up had about a dozen community service projects that directly benefited the church.Not to mention a lot of these facilities are provided for use due to the fact that they'd otherwise sit empty during meeting times. All it takes is an adult leader who is active in the community that operates the facility to lobby for free meeting space.Is it immoral to exclude gays and atheist from the BSA? Yes. Is it illegal? NoIf they receive a check from congress to subsidize some of their operating cost then they have no right to discriminate. But they are a private group, who doesn't receive federal money to subsidize anything. Every group out there has the to negotiate with government groups for reduced rent/costs, the BSA just happens to be very very good at it, in part to their long history and strong ties to a TON of community, municipal, federal leaders & decision makers
1/29/2013 11:07:23 PM
^ and there are probably a bunch of troops across the country that have or accept gays "under the table" (either by not asking questions, or just doing it without talking about it).You have to break an egg to make an omelet though, and although I support the Boy Scouts, at least some troops need to feel the pinch to force inevitable policy changes from the top down.Blocking them out of facilities, etc., was a necessity.
1/29/2013 11:16:16 PM
1/29/2013 11:27:22 PM
1/30/2013 1:27:33 AM
Call 972-580-2330 and say you're "FOR" the proposed policy change (allowing gay members): https://www.facebook.com/jelewis2/posts/499270440124991
1/30/2013 7:01:47 PM
http://news.yahoo.com/super-bowl-interview-obama-speaks-gay-boy-scouts-220243458.html
2/3/2013 8:33:37 PM