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settledown
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jesus fucking christ

kids are cool and shit and your whole life changes, but you don't have to forget who you are

all these fucking parents (mostly moms) that completely replace their sense of self with their stupid baby DRIVE ME FUCKING CRAZY

also, you care way more about your kid THAN ANYONE ELSE IN THE WORLD. that's a good thing and that's how it's supposed to be. BUT IT ALSO MEANS MOST PEOPLE DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOUR KID BEYOND SUPERFICIAL PLEASANTRIES.

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6/20/2012 10:29:14 AM

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haha ok then

[Edited on June 20, 2012 at 10:53 AM. Reason : .]

6/20/2012 10:30:11 AM

Str8BacardiL
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I have this same sentiment.

Girls/Women I used to know replace every single pic on their profile with pics of their kid(s). Its cool to have pictures of your kid on your profile...but you still have an identity. I am guessing that is part of the reasoning behind the new banner pic on profiles, one can be for family and shit and one can be a head shot of the actual user but some have not figured it out yet.

6/20/2012 10:34:15 AM

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do you feel better now that you got that out?

6/20/2012 10:36:40 AM

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someone's offended

6/20/2012 10:39:15 AM

Str8BacardiL
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Me or the OP?

6/20/2012 10:40:09 AM

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http://youtu.be/tJRzBpFjJS8

6/20/2012 10:42:02 AM

elkaybie
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i'm only slightly offended b/c I'm sure this is in response to my most recent WATYA posts. especially since the birthday is coming up and i'm kind of consumed in that right now.

however, he doesn't know me IRL to really know how much sense of self i may or may not have given up b/c i had a kid.

like right now, i'm trying to figure out what matinee i'm going to see tomorrow b/c thursdays are the days i dump my kid off with my parents so i can go be me for 6 hours. but he doesn't know that b/c he doesn't know me.

so...headhunter, prometheus or exotic marigold hotel?

6/20/2012 10:44:49 AM

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yes, and its 100x worse if theyre a military wife.

a mid to late 20s military wife with 1-3 kids whose husband is in the service and she sits at home all day on fucking facebook?

they better pray im never in a position of power because i will exterminate them like hitler.

6/20/2012 10:46:30 AM

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coulda done without the child nudity itt

6/20/2012 10:47:14 AM

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^Exactly.

6/20/2012 10:47:37 AM

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Headhunters is subtitled, but pretty good.

Prometheus is visually awesome, too.

The indian chick in Most Exotic is most exotically naked. Depends on what you're into.

6/20/2012 10:49:45 AM

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hey I got deleted.


[Edited on June 20, 2012 at 10:50 AM. Reason : .]

6/20/2012 10:50:11 AM

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Moms be sensitive

6/20/2012 10:51:00 AM

settledown
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elkaybie, it's pretty weird that you assumed this was about you

we don't know each other - like, at all - and we're not facebook friends

IRL and facebook are the venues where most of this fuckery occurs

on TWW it's lost in all the tits and parrot gifs

[Edited on June 20, 2012 at 10:51 AM. Reason : hahaha, this thread got Str8BacardiL defriended?]

6/20/2012 10:51:17 AM

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drama ITT

6/20/2012 10:52:23 AM

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and on June 20 2012, the last thread on tww was created right before the site was shut down for distribution of child porn.






... meanwhile, WRAL is smiling.

6/20/2012 10:52:53 AM

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i assumed it was b/c i've seen you make other posts or threads based on what goes on in the WATYA thread before (I *think* you may know what I'm talking about here).

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"hahaha, this thread got Str8BacardiL defriended?"


nope...he just noticed. i defriended a whole bunch of tww'ers (and a slew of other people) that i was friends with on fb many many months ago.

SEE? that's why you were defriended. didn't even notice i was gone til now

[Edited on June 20, 2012 at 10:55 AM. Reason : ]

6/20/2012 10:53:00 AM

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I will agree with this sentiment.

I am paranoid and hope it doesn't happen to me one day.

My facebook is out of control with this mannnn

6/20/2012 10:53:00 AM

settledown
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is moms be sensitive the new bitches be crazy?

^^ i have definitely gone on rants related to the thinking thread before. i believe the last time was about how piddlebug is a controlling, passive aggressive, jealous sad sack

6/20/2012 10:53:13 AM

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I think you are being overly sensitive LKB

6/20/2012 10:54:02 AM

settledown
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maybe she dropped you because you like Nickelback

6/20/2012 10:55:13 AM

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bwahahaha

6/20/2012 10:56:15 AM

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sooo why don't you just block or unfriend the offender on fb?

6/20/2012 10:56:30 AM

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WTF is WATYA?

Bitches be cray cray.

6/20/2012 10:56:44 AM

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6/20/2012 10:57:00 AM

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this post is a normal reaction from someone who doesn't have a kid.

6/20/2012 10:57:28 AM

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^this, and...

some people change when they have kids. they move on and no longer have interest in doing some things they used to do (and things that some of their friends may still do). It sucks but it's life.

[Edited on June 20, 2012 at 10:58 AM. Reason : k]

6/20/2012 10:58:10 AM

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i usually hide them

i still like who they were and who they are behind the mommy martyr exterior

defriending is reserved for serious shit

like being a Glenn Beck fan

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"this post is a normal reaction from someone who doesn't have a kid."


HAHAHAHahhahahahahahahahahha

6/20/2012 10:58:24 AM

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I just un-liked Nickelback.

6/20/2012 10:59:14 AM

settledown
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i'm not fucking talking about not going out and getting wasted anymore

i'm talking about COMPLETELY REPLACING YOURSELF WITH YOUR BABY

denying yourself the simplest of pleasures so other mommies will think you're the best mommy and be jealous

turning your back on all of your interests EVEN THOSE THAT ARE COMPATIBLE WITH YOUR NEW FAMILY

6/20/2012 11:00:43 AM

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Sometimes you can tell when that shit's about to happen, through clues and whatnot. And that's when you get blocked on FB

6/20/2012 11:01:35 AM

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+1,000

Same goes for when you get married - I don't need a post every hour reminding us you found the love of your life and are, GASP, married.

Btw, LK, you are definitely not one of these moms

6/20/2012 11:01:36 AM

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EVERYONE'S GETTING FUCKING HIDDEN

6/20/2012 11:01:40 AM

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^^

6/20/2012 11:02:35 AM

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My sister was briefly one of these moms. EVERY freaking post on facebook was about her breastfeeding or some poopy diaper.

She got over it, and is awesome now.

6/20/2012 11:04:29 AM

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i have friends who got married and only have 1 fb page between them now


trust issues?

6/20/2012 11:04:37 AM

settledown
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interesting

so it is possible for someone to recover from this disease?

[Edited on June 20, 2012 at 11:06 AM. Reason : ^ FUCK I HATE HATE HATE THAT. SusanAndJohn Smith.... UGH]

6/20/2012 11:05:54 AM

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Quote :
"Btw, LK, you are definitely not one of these moms"


i hope so. i like to think it's b/c i strive to get a gold star on stfu parents

6/20/2012 11:06:17 AM

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LIKE MIKEANDSUZY SMITH

That is the most ridiculous shit ever, if you think your spouse having their own FB is going to automatically make them cheat, you do not have much of a spouse.

Did anyone see the thing recently where this couple was arguing about cheating over their SHARED facebook. I am not sure if this was a couple from TWW or maybe from me growing up/HS. It was funny as hell, you could not tell who was posting what and went on for like pages.

[Edited on June 20, 2012 at 11:08 AM. Reason : .]

6/20/2012 11:06:52 AM

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Ahahahahaha LK

I'll let you know if I submit a screenshot for you

6/20/2012 11:08:13 AM

settledown
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to answer an earlier question

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"do you feel better now that you got that out?"


yes, i feel much better

it's been building up for a while now

6/20/2012 11:08:26 AM

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settledown is right....

this happened to my mom unfortunately. her kids were her life and now that we're all grown up and gone, she doesn't know what to do. her and my dad are retired, in their early 50's, and don't have any sense of self because everything revolved around the kids for the past 25+ years. now they're in this weird "self-discovery" period where anti-social tendencies and depression happens. i've recommended all sorts of hobbies / activities, but unfortunately it's not up to me to figure it out for them.

so yeah....this shit is real.

6/20/2012 11:08:49 AM

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i just hold my tongue bc i no longer live near them

6/20/2012 11:09:19 AM

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I vote for exotic marigold hotel


Also, I hate it when women are mean and bitchy to other women who do choose to have a life outside of their kids. It's crazy the amount of scorn new mothers get if they even dare to leave their baby in the care of someone else for any amount of time.

Last weekend I was overhearing two women talking, and the one woman was yelling at the other for not bring her child, and she said that she has been with her child since birth, he's never out of her sight really. The child looked to be about 3 or 4 years old was talking and everything. While I was a bit by that, it's not like I would be actually tell her she's fucking weird, she can do what she like.

I just feel bad for that woman's husband.

6/20/2012 11:11:49 AM

settledown
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afripino highlights a very real and very sad side effect of this shit

6/20/2012 11:12:44 AM

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I purposely moved withing walking distance of my parents so when the little ones come along they can spend some quality time over there.

6/20/2012 11:13:27 AM

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hey seth


lets make a baby

6/20/2012 11:13:37 AM

H8R
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this shit is killing fb

6/20/2012 11:14:23 AM

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so is



although I lol'ed at the name

6/20/2012 11:14:49 AM

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