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NCJockGirl
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I dont know why I fucking do it... Oh now I know why... its emails like these :
***history...girl puts an ad up, I respond and she wants a picture right away. Im not too comfortable with that without building some kind of dialogue that lasts more then 1 email. Told her I wasnt comfortable with that but would understand if she didnt want to respond. So I dont hear from her and then 10 days later....This is how it goes.....

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"well, pictures are pictures. if you don't want to send me one i understand, but i am going to have to be honest here - i, like many people, am a bit superficial. granted, looks are not everything, but if i can't see you before i meet you it seems almost pointless to me. i mean, here i am posting an ad, putting my shit out there, quite willing to show whatever is needed of me, and i don't have someone that will meet me halfway.
i would like to be met halfway. however at the same time i understand. i am just unsure if i want to waste my energy on someone that will not be straightforward with me in that way. if you think i am a skeezy old guy that is not something i should have to suffer for, and i am not interested in typing e mails back and forth, nor meeting in a blind date kind of setting - that makes me uncomfortable for many reasons too numerous to go into here.
i am not trying to be bitchy in any way or pressure you into something you are not interested in doing, please understand. but when i said in my post to send a picture, i meant it.
perhaps this will ease your mind - you can find me here
XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
but if that is not enough, then i am sorry, and that is that.
i don't mean to be an ass, in all honesty. but at the same time, i cannot help but feeling a little put out as well."


So, I say....
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"wait a minute...who is this"
I go back to see if I know whose address it is so I go and respond again with
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"Ahh yes,
well it took me a while to figure out who you were since apparently i wrote you back 10 days ago and you never got back
yes i think its superficial, i do believe in building some kind of good faith before I actually send a picture. i never said it had to be in excess of emails to send a picture but more then one is probably best, especially if someone doesnt return an email in a proper amount of time.
if you think someone responds kindly to someone out of the blue emailing them and giving them the shit you just gave me youre probably mistaken
have luck finding someone!
if youre trying not to be bitchy in the email that you sent , you failed miserably"


she says
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"you responded to my ad on cl. it has taken me a while, but i wanted to clear things up.
that's all."


WTF, this bitch aint even cute!!!!

11/17/2008 5:15:24 PM

wdprice3
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well, that's CL for you.

DUR

11/17/2008 5:15:49 PM

NeuseRvrRat
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than

than

than

11/17/2008 5:17:51 PM

NCJockGirl
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Again another message
I am just leaving it as it is
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"i am sincerely sorry i have offended.
i have not been online in a long time. that is the truth. sincerely. which is why it has taken me this long to get back to you. and i wouldn'y have if i wasn't interested in some way.
if that is the way you feel about it, again, sorry about that. i am just trying to help you understand where i am coming from. there is no need to attack my character.
i am just very tired of playing games with people. i am tired of getting the runaround. i am tired tired tired of being honest and not being trusted. that is all. i am not saying you have played games with me... but it does grate on someone after a while, the not trusting.
if that cannot be established, what is there?
that is all i am saying. good luck to you as well.
see you."

I dont care then or than.... I dont need to use it in my career when half the people I work with cant spell shit either

[Edited on November 17, 2008 at 5:18 PM. Reason : ...]

11/17/2008 5:17:54 PM

ambrosia1231
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well, that's CL for you.

DUR

11/17/2008 5:17:59 PM

Fareako
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WORDS

11/17/2008 5:20:07 PM

wdprice3
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how about this.

forget that you don't like penii, and you can hook up with me

11/17/2008 5:21:00 PM

ambrosia1231
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Quote :
"I dont need to use it in my career when half the people I work with cant spell shit either"


That's some pretty shitty logic.

By that logic, I only need to put forth 50% effort at work, since most everyone else does.

You're just passing up a pretty easy way to make yourself stand out in a positive way. Which, apparently, it just fine with you.

So never mind to the point I was making.

11/17/2008 5:22:02 PM

NCJockGirl
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vagina who?
i like cock now

11/17/2008 5:22:17 PM

Fareako
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ambrosia1231: Grammar Nazi, RAWR RAWR RAWR

11/17/2008 5:23:59 PM

chembob
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^^haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

11/17/2008 5:24:55 PM

NCJockGirl
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if you were where i am now you probably wouldnt give a shit either.
i work in a field where its physical labor, so where is it that spelling makes a huge difference there?

11/17/2008 5:25:50 PM

NeuseRvrRat
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it makes a difference if you want to prove yourself to not be ignorant

11/17/2008 5:26:45 PM

ambrosia1231
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Fair enough.

I was going on the assumption it's like all these engineers here: "None of us learned grammar, so we all suck at it, so why should I learn now. It doesn't matter since we all suck equally."

^To be fair, poor grammar != ignorant.

In the context I speak, it's more about professionalism (and perceived intelligence) than about actual mental capacity.

[Edited on November 17, 2008 at 5:27 PM. Reason : ldkjf]

11/17/2008 5:27:14 PM

EMCE
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you
me
my bedroom
a tub of butter


let's make it happen

11/17/2008 5:27:28 PM

chembob
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i already called dibs.

11/17/2008 5:28:28 PM

EMCE
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I guess we'll let her make that decision then

11/17/2008 5:28:58 PM

wdprice3
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^^4 minutes too late

[Edited on November 17, 2008 at 5:29 PM. Reason : ^]

11/17/2008 5:29:07 PM

EMCE
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but I really like her guys.....
always have

11/17/2008 5:29:55 PM

NeuseRvrRat
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i consider everyone to be a complete dumbass until they prove otherwise

she hasn't proven otherwise

11/17/2008 5:30:07 PM

chembob
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TOO BAD

11/17/2008 5:30:12 PM

EMCE
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11/17/2008 5:30:52 PM

ambrosia1231
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Quote :
"i consider everyone to be a complete dumbass until they prove otherwise

she hasn't proven otherwise"


<3

And an asshole
And untrustworthy
And generally unsavory

11/17/2008 5:30:59 PM

NCJockGirl
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I think I have proved to myself that I am educated since I went to college and have a degree.
With that being said, youre right...I could make myself better and want to improve on grammar and spelling. I think I do when it comes to stuff that counts such as resumes and papers. However, when it comes to online emails, chat or message boards, I dont feel the need to prove myself to anyone

11/17/2008 5:31:38 PM

NeuseRvrRat
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and a flaming homo


that's right folks, i clinch my cornhole whenever i'm in unfamiliar company




[Edited on November 17, 2008 at 5:32 PM. Reason : AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHH COLLEGE DON'T MEAN SHIT BITCH]

11/17/2008 5:32:13 PM

wdprice3
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BUT THE INTERNET IS WHERE IS MATTERS

11/17/2008 5:32:21 PM

NCJockGirl
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apparently wd, it does because its all real!

11/17/2008 5:34:05 PM

ambrosia1231
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It's not about 'proving'

Good grammar is a habit

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"I think I have proved to myself that I am educated since I went to college and have a degree."


This is nothing personal, okay?

But having a degree doesn't mean shit. Nor does the lack of a degree.

Granted, it's a safer bet to assume that, say, an engineering or physics graduate holder has at least a modicum of booksmarts, than, say, to assume the same of a fashion or sociology degree. And, here I am talking at the BA/BS level.

By itself, that piece of paper ain't shit as a means of assessing intelligence.

Again, nothing personal. I don't even know you online at all.

11/17/2008 5:34:42 PM

NCJockGirl
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i disagree
but im not going to continue since this wasnt a thread on that

11/17/2008 5:36:02 PM

wdprice3
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so.... what are you looking for in....this thread?

11/17/2008 5:38:21 PM

NCJockGirl
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it was a good excuse to find some cock...and it worked

11/17/2008 5:41:43 PM

EMCE
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I was looking for a relationship

11/17/2008 5:42:39 PM

NCJockGirl
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if by relationship you mean i get to do whatever i want and tell you what to do then fine..we can have one

11/17/2008 5:43:50 PM

BubbleBobble
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oh hai jockgirl

11/17/2008 5:44:26 PM

NCJockGirl
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heyyyyyyyyyyyy(limp wrist)

11/17/2008 5:46:33 PM

BubbleBobble
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it's ok

you can do it without the limp wrist now, it's not the 90s anymore

11/17/2008 5:47:41 PM

keeeeler29
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11/17/2008 5:52:56 PM

ncsuapex
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Quote :
"SUNBURY, Pa. — A Pennsylvania woman charged with her newlywed husband with killing a man they met through Craigslist admitted to the slaying in a jailhouse interview with a newspaper and said she has killed more than 20 other people across the country, claims police said they are investigating."

2/16/2014 9:19:22 PM

Str8BacardiL
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being murdered?

2/17/2014 3:06:57 PM

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