stupid.

5/13/2008 4:46:03 PM

iawtc

5/13/2008 4:46:31 PM

stupid.

5/13/2008 4:46:37 PM

tell that to my mom

she's 42, married almost 22 years.

5/13/2008 4:46:57 PM

stupid

[Edited on May 13, 2008 at 4:47 PM. Reason : ^ eh, my parents were married at 18 and 19...divorced at the 25 year mark]

5/13/2008 4:47:37 PM

^^ different era. parents got married when they were 19, and are still together (almost 35 years now)


nowadays, i agree, it's not a good idea.

[Edited on May 13, 2008 at 4:47 PM. Reason : .]

5/13/2008 4:47:40 PM

true

5/13/2008 4:48:31 PM

doing that is for MORMONS.

5/13/2008 4:49:07 PM

seemed to work out great for the FLDS.


oh wait

5/13/2008 4:49:27 PM

depends on the people. For most people on here, anytime before they're 30 is stupid

5/13/2008 4:49:48 PM

only christians do this

because they can't bwn in sin

5/13/2008 4:54:14 PM

5/13/2008 4:55:38 PM

Quote :

"stupid."

5/13/2008 5:05:50 PM

Quote :

"COMPLETELY FUCKING RETARDED"

5/13/2008 5:06:44 PM

Quote :

"COMPLETELY FUCKING RETARDED"

My god damn ex is now engaged.......a month after disappearing on me.

5/13/2008 5:30:19 PM

stupid.

5/13/2008 6:05:56 PM

married before 35 is dumb

5/13/2008 6:06:33 PM

marriage is awesome.

5/13/2008 6:09:42 PM

Marriage...

why fuck up a good thing.

5/13/2008 6:12:53 PM

marriage (at times) is awesome

5/13/2008 6:14:56 PM

phew good thing my gf is 21, so when we get engaged in the next month or so itll meet tww approval

5/13/2008 6:20:56 PM

polygamy is better?
while open marriages are best?

5/13/2008 6:23:09 PM

polygamy would not interest me....can only imagine the underlying jealousy. now an open marriage...that I think I could go for.

5/13/2008 6:25:18 PM

depends on the people. I got engaged at 21 but we've dated 6 years and after the first 2 couldve easily been engaged and things wouldve been fine

5/13/2008 7:16:59 PM

I don't wanna get married before 27, but damn it my boyfriend is trying to rush me before I change my mind about putting up with all the beer bottles in the living room.

5/13/2008 7:20:32 PM

A PIG'S VAGINA!!!!!

just kidding. i can't imagine getting engaged before 21. the best times of my life were in college and even post-college. early to mid twenties seems to awesome to waste. not that marriage is wasting it. that sounds wrong. its like all my friends that i know that have gotten married young definitely changed after marriage. they were together for a long time so nothing should have changed. its not like they wanted to go out and get drunk and hook up with random people. but when people who are dating/engaged go out they still act normal. i don't get why you still can't go out and have fun after you're married too. it just seems like everyone changes. except nothing changed besides status -- engaged to married??? why?

5/13/2008 7:26:32 PM

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"A PIG'S VAGINA!!!!! just kidding. i can't imagine getting engaged before 21. the best times of my life were in college and even post-college. early to mid twenties seems to awesome to waste. not that marriage is wasting it. that sounds wrong. its like all my friends that i know that have gotten married young definitely changed after marriage. they were together for a long time so nothing should have changed. its not like they wanted to go out and get drunk and hook up with random people. but when people who are dating/engaged go out they still act normal. i don't get why you still can't go out and have fun after you're married too. it just seems like everyone changes. except nothing changed besides status -- engaged to married??? why?"

I do not understand this either.

I think it's the reality that they'll only get one penis/vagina to play with for the rest of their life. Once it hits them and settles in the depression starts and makes them no fun. Either that or they have kids and that automatically makes anyone waaay less fun.

No kids and an open marriage, think there'd be any chance of avoiding the lameness?

5/13/2008 7:30:41 PM

^^ bingo.


miss so much being tied down

5/13/2008 7:39:17 PM

I totally agree, got married at 19. I totally regret not getting to stay at school and enjoy it. Don't get me wrong, there were good times, but over all, if I could do it all over I would NEVER get married. It's overrated. Things tend to go downhill when you get married. I missed out on the best years of school. I'm starting over but not sure if it's gonna be the same.

5/13/2008 9:26:08 PM

carl face

5/13/2008 9:28:13 PM

im 21 right now, and don't plan on getting engaged before im 25, 26, hell...27. I can not see myself or any of my friends engaged or married right now.

5/13/2008 9:31:33 PM

I was 21 when punchmonk and I got engaged

So there

5/13/2008 9:40:19 PM

Uh, just putting it out there, if anyone is getting married on the budget, contact cddweller.

5/13/2008 9:41:23 PM

this girl i know back home ( i was fr0sh in college she was junior in h.s) started dating this dude a year ahead of her. After graduation he joined the navy and they continued their relationship. Sure enough i find out last year that once she graduated high school they god married. I was just like WOW what an idiot chick

5/13/2008 10:05:40 PM

I DID IT, TWICE!!

5/13/2008 10:07:02 PM

Got married at 21. But my wife was 19.

But shit, we've been married 5 years. So I can't bitch too much.

5/13/2008 10:12:21 PM

While living in London I dated this Australian (Thai/Dutch) girl. She was goregoues, semi-pro masseuse, pro-dancer, now living the corporate life. Anyway long story short she was well sought after and had been engaged. Thrice. She is 24.

[Edited on May 13, 2008 at 10:17 PM. Reason : Austria is different from Australia]

5/13/2008 10:16:43 PM

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"married before 35 is dumb"

Maybe for guys, but most girls look terrible after 25. It's tough for them then.

5/13/2008 10:25:06 PM

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"im 21 right now, and don't plan on getting engaged before im 25, 26, hell...27. I can not see myself or any of my friends engaged or married right now."

That's what I said, then my friends started getting married. Scary shit. The people started having kids. No thanks. Only people in their 20s that are married and still enjoying life to it's fullest seem to be the swingers. Not because they are having sex with other people, but it's a different mentality. Instead of "I own that penis/vag now!" it's "I want to make sure you enjoy yourself because I love you. Oh look, human sex toy, go play!" They don't own you, they don't have to worry about you running away, and they don't have insecurity issues that lead to mindfuck games and unhappiness.

5/13/2008 11:59:40 PM

Hell I almost think 21 is too young these days. I almost got engaged when I was 21. I'm really glad it didn't happen.

5/14/2008 12:07:34 AM

^^^HEY!!!



I am 25 and uber baby-faced.


I plan on sticking with this innocent look until I'm at least 35.

5/14/2008 12:59:13 AM

chicks don't want to look like an old maid by not being married by 30

5/14/2008 12:17:53 PM

it's for sho

5/14/2008 12:18:43 PM

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"but most girls look terrible after 25"

wut?

5/14/2008 12:19:46 PM

^yeah i disagree with that too

i prefer women to look like women, not wearing a "My Chemical Romance" t-shirt

5/14/2008 12:21:03 PM

I agree w/ this thread. I've got a lot of friends hopping on the marriage/move-in w/ each other band wagon. I'm 23, single, and I'm ok w/ that. I've done the serious relationship thing before, its nice to have time to yourself and to enjoy doing things you like to do w/o having to feel tied down.

All my friends are like, geez dude it's been like a year and a half since you've had a g/f, are you ok? In reality I'm better than I've ever been, I only have to worry about myself, I enjoy myself more...this isn't to say I look down on my friends who are getting married and such. I'm very happy for them; I just figure, why rush into something when it'll be that way for the rest of your life? And if its not...then it'll cost your ass for the rest of your life.

Slow and steady wins the race my friends.

5/14/2008 12:24:57 PM

i'm a serial boyfriend according to my friends

oh, and I have a "style" which is not good

[Edited on May 14, 2008 at 12:27 PM. Reason : on a side note, i was married at 21 and divorced by 22]

5/14/2008 12:26:39 PM

Marriage

game over

5/14/2008 12:52:40 PM

I think it's a terrific idea that will most certainly be successful.

5/14/2008 12:55:52 PM

Set em up

5/14/2008 1:45:43 PM