5/6/2008 11:52:38 AM
50k a year for a family of 4 in this area isn't shit - are you retarded?It costs 150-200+ A WEEK for basic day care if they aren't school age - nearly 1/5th of their pre-tax income.Edit:I just went back and read the last paragraph you posted after my initial comment. The amount of life fail you just dropped on us is astounding. Do you have a job? Looked into having kids? Pay a mortgage? Know anything at all about the real world? Or are you just another jerk off who thinks he has a clue?[Edited on May 6, 2008 at 12:06 PM. Reason : edit]
5/6/2008 12:04:14 PM
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5/6/2008 12:15:11 PM
I think its ridiculous to think that someone who is making 50k a year cannot afford health ins. We just purchased my wife insurance for just under 100 a month. I would imagine thier cell phone plans cost more.
5/6/2008 12:21:00 PM
did you purchase it for your 2 kids as well?and pay their living expenses?and pay the co-pays everytime they got sick?
5/6/2008 12:22:31 PM
i dono how much it costs a family of 4. Do kids cost less? Mine is like $80 a month for good coverage across the board. (dental, eye, medical) but im single.some advice to these people though, just because little johnny or sally has a runny nose doesnt mean they need to go to the doctor's office for medication. im wondering how scenarios like this will play out if given free healthcare. Kids already get taken to the doctor's office more than they need to go.[Edited on May 6, 2008 at 12:25 PM. Reason : ]
5/6/2008 12:23:39 PM
thats a good plan...you're lucky.if both husband and wife are working and making only $25k each, chances are they aren't getting as good of a plan (or any at all).[Edited on May 6, 2008 at 12:26 PM. Reason : s]
5/6/2008 12:25:53 PM
Ok, you can get a family of four 2500 deductible for 181.00 a month. Athem Keycare. Or a 500 deductible for a family of four for 276.Hey sober, I dont have kids. And if i did, I dont expect you to pay for thier health ins.
5/6/2008 12:26:13 PM
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5/6/2008 12:27:40 PM
^its time for you to take a stand on whether or not the proposal is right or wrong
5/6/2008 12:29:45 PM
Monky, a great website to shop insurance is http://www.ehealthinsurance.com . THat is who we got our athem through for her, and am very pleased with thier service. I was paying for her through my ins. at work, but it went up to over 400 a month, for a 29 yr old female with no meds.. So we got this plan. Great website, I hope it helps.
5/6/2008 12:30:56 PM
When i worked at harris teeter in high school i knew a guy who work 4-6 hours every Sunday just to be able to get the harris teeter family health insurance plan. I think he had some other week job that did not provide insurance. Heaven forbid a grown man take responsibility and work on a sunday rather then sitting at home drinking beer in order to provide health coverage for his family instead of crying to the gov't.
5/6/2008 12:33:56 PM
We should all have 15 different jobs.
5/6/2008 12:34:25 PM
We should all have the gov't pay for our healthcare, housing, and food. That way we can sit around everyday, smoke pot, and watch cartoons
5/6/2008 12:36:16 PM
http://money.cnn.com/2008/05/06/news/economy/foodstamps/index.htm?cnn=yes
5/6/2008 2:17:46 PM
Just read this thread and get a dose of the real world HURhttp://www.city-data.com/forum/raleigh-durham-chapel-hill-cary/90966-day-care-vs-home-child-care.html
5/6/2008 2:18:57 PM
4 month old kids use a ton of formula that is expensive, i don't have any kids myself but i can imagine 70 bucks a week for just a kid may be plenty, but throw in yourself and your SO and then you're probably looking at closer to ~125 a month.
5/6/2008 2:21:17 PM
I'm not trying to be insensitive to the kids, or to the costs of raising a kid, but I do think that having kids is a big decision and not something to take too lightly, and that financially you should take all those things into consideration...I don't plan on getting married until I stack some more cash in my bank account because I'm currently living quite comfortably but only as one single person...also before I have kids, I want to make sure I can afford to take care of them...so I do think its up to the parents to work an extra job if they need to...I'd hope simply looking into the eyes of your creation would be motivation enough to earn enough extra money to take care of their needs
5/6/2008 2:23:38 PM
5/6/2008 2:25:58 PM
People LOVE to brag about where they send thier kid for daycare. I dont know why. But if you think 900 to 1200 a month is childcare is the best you can do, then you probably have more money than brains.
5/6/2008 2:27:57 PM
When my parents were starting out and after I was born; my dad worked two jobs for a few years to provide for our family even after my mom returned to teaching. My parents were raised to value hard work and didn't go to the government expecting assistance just b.c they had increased expenses after having a kid.
5/6/2008 2:28:47 PM
I agree with ^^, ^^^ both of you that a families financial standing should be taken into consideration before having kids, but not all children are planned. Ever heard of twins? Triplets? Should a family that can afford 1 but not 2 avoid having kids because there is a small chance they'll have twins, or more?Should we as people in the greatest country on earth not be able to experience the joy of children because we can afford them now but won't be able to afford a retirement for ourselves or a college tuition?^ Dude, wake the hell up. The economy/environment for the middle class is entirely different than it was 20 years ago. Daycare didn't cost shit for you to go to, fuel was cheap (after the late 70s), home prices were cheap, food was cheaper.[Edited on May 6, 2008 at 2:33 PM. Reason : edit]
5/6/2008 2:31:07 PM
Did you seriously throw out twins as an example?People are talking about people taking responsiblity for their own decisions and you throw out twins. They make up under 2% of births, maybe less than that now. You should be able to do whatever you can afford. WHat pisses people off is when people neglect thier necessities for luxuries, then expect someone else to bail them out.
5/6/2008 2:38:27 PM
college tuition??my parents never paid a penny toward my college tuition. Anyone that wants to achieve and go to college can finance their education. The gov't pretty hands out money to anyone coming from a tough financial background and anybody can get gov't funded student loans. That is how i paid for mine; will have a nice 20K bill waiting for me after i walk the stage.^^ dude you are a joke, my parents had to pay 13% on their first mortgage. If anything houses are CHEAP right now with the deflating housing market and relatively low mortgage rates.Lastly your twins/triplets thing is a poor example. As many people have multiple kids anyway. If you are a rare exception of having sextuplets or you already have two kids then have triplets; maybe we can make an exception. However, this is not the case 99% of the time. Once again we are alleviating responsibility of young women to not get pregnant from some random dude they met at the club in the first place.[Edited on May 6, 2008 at 2:46 PM. Reason : a]
5/6/2008 2:39:42 PM
5/6/2008 2:44:41 PM
If you support parents making informed choices when deciding to have children then you should support subsidizing abortions/birth control. You know people are going to have sex, just help them do it more intelligently.
5/6/2008 2:45:45 PM
I do
5/6/2008 2:46:30 PM
i've bought condoms and past girlfriends have bought birth control pillsi dont see why its someone else's responsibility to pay for those things
5/6/2008 2:48:44 PM
5/6/2008 2:50:07 PM
Hell i'd even support gov't subsidized birth control as paying for a pill is a lot cheaper then paying for the social services as well as the net loss due to additional tax credits of someone having an unwanted child. Not to mention the negative social impact of having a child out of wedlock while young and financially unstable.
5/6/2008 2:50:31 PM
I like you sometimes Hur, you know how to think.
5/6/2008 2:51:12 PM
5/6/2008 2:53:38 PM
I think a family can survive on 50K and afford health insurance. I came from that class of family. Of course, they won't own any special home. Nor will they own any new cars. Some nights the dinner table consists a bun (rice in my situation) and a hotdog. But, that's what it means to be in poverty. You shouldn't be able to afford the extra "stuff". Right?We didn't have day care growing up. It was dad working two jobs and mom was day care. And once we started elementary, mom would work 1st shift and dad would work 2nd shift so that someone would be home at night with the kids.But, I guess those days have changed. Everyone wants freebies. They want nice homes, a new car, and $9 movie tickets. No wonder America is going downhill so fast. We have the scum of the earth sucking away at our economy hoping to get ahead on someone elses hard earned dollar.Good thing I didn't vote for this pandering lamer.
5/6/2008 2:57:19 PM
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5/6/2008 3:05:15 PM
THis thread makes me all the more happy that I voted for Richard Moore.
5/6/2008 3:06:53 PM
Hey, and who pays for the roads you drive on to get there? I mean, this path of reasoning is getting a little bit outside of the realm of this thread, don't you think?Why is there not a problem with government grants for education, and student loans, but there is a problem for health care?
5/6/2008 3:07:26 PM
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5/6/2008 3:21:37 PM
Makes sense I guess, if kids and families can make it through 18 years of colds, broken bones, and other health issues on their own, then I guess we can go ahead and invest in them since they were the strong ones, right. Brilliantly crafted social engineering if I say so myself.^ You have yet to show how 50k is adequate for a family of four. I showed you how it isn't, at least, not comfortably. Feel free to refute that post.[Edited on May 6, 2008 at 3:23 PM. Reason : done with this thread until then]
5/6/2008 3:22:12 PM
5/6/2008 3:25:42 PM
stella how have you shown 50k isnt enough to live off of? My guess is you are pretty young and come from a well to do family. I also imagine you wont make anywhere near 50k right out of school. So your value of a dollar is pretty skewed.As for the health ins. I just plugged in two 30 year old adults, and some random numbers for kids under 18. I dont recall what I randomly put in, but those were the numbers it gave me. Which are very affordable.
5/6/2008 3:30:24 PM
5/6/2008 3:30:38 PM
Your dad spent 36k on insurance for 1.5yrs? He didnt shop around or is very unhealthy. YOu have to understand that as soon as dad hits 65 then he gets medicare, so the private ins. have to bleed them out while they can.Using that same website, going with a 1/1/1950 birthday the cheapest ins he could get was 108 a month 5k deductible. not bad
5/6/2008 3:38:07 PM
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