I got out of a relationship of 4 1/2 years 6 months ago and after struggling with it for a while and blaming myself, I realized that my life was fine before this person and that he made me (and I allowed him to) lose my life and waste my college experience. What made me realize this was this great guy I met with whom I realized I could be myself. Regardless of whether it works out with him, I want my life back to be happy again. I used to have friends and I used to have fun way back in 2001. But I had a moment of weakness: I lost a lot of friends and my parents turned against me when I came out. He took advantage of this and made me think he was the only one I could love. So I stuck with him. I became very arrogant, materialistic and cynical and isolated and distrusted everybody. I finally realized something was wrong when I met someone else over the summer who helped me and got rid of him. I mean I used to go to games, play video games and do a lot of things and be a lot more positive. I sacrificed everything for this person and lost my personality in the process. I don't know what to do anymore, but I'll do anything. I want to make up for lost time. I don't care if I get all fucking Cs next semester. Thanks...

1/5/2007 2:24:03 PM

This thread is GAY,

haha

[Edited on January 5, 2007 at 2:25 PM. Reason : l]

1/5/2007 2:24:58 PM

you could meet some great guys here: http://www.brentroad.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=448678

1/5/2007 2:25:54 PM

That thread is fucking lame man. Just a bunch of fucking losers on here posting useless shit because they have nothing better to do. I could kick your ass any day of the week. Post something useful or just move on. I certainly would try to help someone on here...

1/5/2007 2:34:41 PM

what ever you do
make your friends outside of TWW

1/5/2007 2:35:52 PM

( * )

1/5/2007 2:35:54 PM

have you ever pooped on a guys dick?

1/5/2007 2:36:15 PM

Yeah, maybe I'm falling into another trap....TWW seems to attract some social misfits.

1/5/2007 2:37:17 PM

this is the wrong place to be openly gay

unless you are a girl

1/5/2007 2:37:56 PM

no one is really going to be able to give you that magical advice... you already know the answer yourself, you just have to figure it out.

1/5/2007 2:38:39 PM

Yeah, I fucking guess. A lot of people here are so shallow it doesn't matter if you don't have the stereotypes, are masculine, act like them, whatever.

1/5/2007 2:42:32 PM

Just as a heads up... I'm not trying to be an ass or anything but you are probably gonna receive a lot of flaming on here just for the fact that you are gay.

[Edited on January 5, 2007 at 2:44 PM. Reason : ]

1/5/2007 2:43:40 PM

fucking a guy in the ass in far from masculine.

1/5/2007 2:43:53 PM

People on here are fucking nuts. But that's why I keep coming back.

1/5/2007 2:44:21 PM

this thread is gayer than a football bat

1/5/2007 2:55:34 PM

You just typed an emo post from emo hell, basically saying you have been a loser for 4.5 years

then

called us some social misfits?

gtfo

1/5/2007 3:01:27 PM

pwnt

1/5/2007 3:07:20 PM

dont forget the part where he threatened to beat me up.

[Edited on January 5, 2007 at 3:08 PM. Reason : df]

1/5/2007 3:08:02 PM

just dont go whorin' around trying to find out what a "college experience" should have been..

in a year you'll only feel more alone

1/5/2007 3:10:29 PM

You just typed an emo post from emo hell, basically saying you have been a loser for 4.5 years

then

called us some social misfits?

gtfo

1/5/2007 3:35:50 PM

<-- matchmaker

http://www.brentroad.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=453727&page=1#9786730

1/5/2007 3:39:26 PM

Quote :

"I became very arrogant, materialistic and cynical and isolated and distrusted everybody."

those damn social misfits

1/5/2007 3:53:05 PM

Join a gym and pick up a few hobbies where you can meet people and do things you enjoy. That will make a HUGE difference.

1/5/2007 3:55:43 PM

Quote :

"Just as a heads up... I'm not trying to be an ass or anything but you are probably gonna receive a lot of flaming on here just for the fact that you are gay flaming."

ehe

As a side note, just because you're gay, doesn't mean you have to be a bitch. Man up and move on.

1/5/2007 4:34:38 PM

Don't be gay sparky

1/5/2007 4:45:55 PM

http://www.worldtavernpoker.com

I love that.

It's very fun and social and you can meet some nice fun people if you like poker.

Plus, join a gym.

Find out where the specials are at bars from night to night to meet friends, etc.

Just the norm.

Good luck!

1/5/2007 4:47:11 PM

http://www.worldtavernpoker.com sucks

[Edited on January 5, 2007 at 4:53 PM. Reason : .]

1/5/2007 4:51:14 PM

Nuh uhhhhh.... I only play at Babineaus though. I can't speak for the other places.

But I love it.

1/5/2007 4:54:43 PM

I know! geez Brandi...

1/5/2007 4:58:20 PM

1/5/2007 5:08:42 PM

HOMO

1/5/2007 5:10:35 PM

Actually, I now think this trolling.

1/5/2007 5:11:31 PM

a gym is a really good idea, or get involved in some sort of organization and participate

just don't go fucking around b/c you're lonely and have nothing better to do. it might be fun but you'll regret it and feel worse in the end than before you started.

[Edited on January 5, 2007 at 5:13 PM. Reason : ]

1/5/2007 5:11:39 PM

Please don't join a gym, the new year's resolutionist's are more than enough.

1/5/2007 5:14:00 PM

a gym would be good for your health, a social environment, and if it's the right gym a good place to meet other single guys

1/5/2007 5:16:30 PM

haha

actually go to peak fitness on capital





[Edited on January 5, 2007 at 5:23 PM. Reason : my tour creeped me out]

1/5/2007 5:20:33 PM

peak fitness downtown is a fucking gay guy mecca.

1/5/2007 5:20:42 PM

What the fuck is this? Shit Chat? This guy did write an emo post, but he did it in the lounge looking for advice.

My advice is look at the thing you used to enjoy before the relationship, start trying to get into those and you're bound to meet people. Re-establish a circle of friends, it's tough work, but it's crucial. Other than that, good luck.

1/5/2007 7:08:44 PM

my advice.....start having sex with women

1/5/2007 8:27:52 PM

^

1/5/2007 8:40:51 PM

^^ Agreed.

(woman) tits and vagina rock.

1/5/2007 8:43:39 PM

sorry to hear...

1/5/2007 8:44:51 PM

have you tried redecorating your apartment?

1/5/2007 8:50:46 PM

if youve been in college a while, your no child... go out and do the college thing, drink till you cant stand, bone every chick errr... dude you can find... and find a drug you had never heard of and try it. within a week or two tops youll be done and realize something.

1/5/2007 9:06:34 PM

This thread is sad on multiple levels.

1/5/2007 10:15:41 PM

Quote :

"This thread is GAY, haha"

1/5/2007 10:22:01 PM

go back to the last place that made you happy. get back into the things you used to do and try new things. put yourself out there and meet new people and try to reconnect with the friends you gave up. this is the shittiest advice i've ever given. drink yourself stupid and slut it up for as long as you can. you'll miss these days when you are back in a relationship.

1/6/2007 1:35:44 AM

find some fag hags

1/6/2007 1:46:45 PM

Why do people keep suggesting gyms as way to get into new social circles???? Am I the only one who goes to the gym to uh... work out??? I have no interest in meeting new people while I'm at it. Just my opinion anyway...

As for the advice Chris, I'd just try and get back up with old friends who you enjoyed being with.

1/7/2007 12:24:44 AM

^
Different people meet other people in different ways.

So far as what to do, my suggestion would be to start with NCSU resources, not TWW. You are paying for them, might as well use them. Mental health clinic is a good start.

1/7/2007 7:52:44 AM